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how to tell the wife
  • inneed
    Posts: 8
    I am going to buy one tomorrow, but I have not told the wife yet. My wife likes regular sex and a little oral sex now and then, I on the other hand don't mind a little anal play, and can't wait to try the aneros, that's all I have been thinking about since I found this site. My wife is not really into anal play. But she does get turned on by watching me masturbate so I don't know what she would think about it? Has anyone else had this same type of problem?
  • Tom L
    Posts: 24

    Originally Posted By: inneed
    I am going to buy one tomorrow, but I have not told the wife yet. My wife likes regular sex and a little oral sex now and then, I on the other hand don't mind a little anal play, and can't wait to try the aneros, that's all I have been thinking about since I found this site. My wife is not really into anal play. But she does get turned on by watching me masturbate so I don't know what she would think about it? Has anyone else had this same type of problem?


    inneed,
    I would just tell her. When I first tried the Aneros I just told my wife that I found something new that could possibly take me to the level of a higher orgasm. She said go for it. I have been able to take my wife to the next orgasmic level by playing with her "G" spot. When she has an orgasm from her "G" spot it is so intense she cannot move for about a minute after she finally comes down. I just told her that I would like to experience it too. Just make sure that she knows that this is not a replacement for her but just a toy for you. Something to experiment with and to have fun with. Involve her in your quest. She can help by making sure you are thoroughly aroused before starting your sessions. Ask her to see how turned on she can make you without making you cum. This increases your sexuall energy, but if you cum it releases it. You do not want this to happen before you start. The more turned on I am the better it seems to work for me. Make it a fun game for her too. You can also use it on the nights that she wants a break. You can also use it when you are having intercourse, this one you will want to try. Just make sure that you do not get so caught up in your quest that you forget about her. This thing can become a mind bender. Have fun, because now your journey begins. Tom
  • michealj
    Posts: 5

    Originally Posted By: inneed
    I am going to buy one tomorrow, but I have not told the wife yet. My wife likes regular sex and a little oral sex now and then, I on the other hand don't mind a little anal play, and can't wait to try the aneros, that's all I have been thinking about since I found this site. My wife is not really into anal play. But she does get turned on by watching me masturbate so I don't know what she would think about it? Has anyone else had this same type of problem?


    inneed,

    I am new to posting on the forum but I purchased my aneros 11 months ago. I was honest and open with my wife in telling her what I was purchasing. This included her viewing the web site which answered any questions she had about the device. I use the device often and she includes it regularly in our sex life. The conversation with my wife started with "I have found a anal toy that stimulates the prostate gland and I am interested in purchasing one. It improves orgasm quality. I feel this device can enhance our sex life and would like your opinion on the subject."

    Micheal
  • Alex G
    Posts: 12
    I brought it up in a similar way as Tom. My wife loves getting off with a G-spot orgasm or uterine orgasm, and we usually spend a long time on this. :) So when I said it was possible for me to have similar orgasms (albeit with a lot more work), she was all for it! My ultimate goal is to be able to join her in having the kind of earth-shaking orgasms she has every time we have sex. I'm so jealous of that, but know it's possible for guys too...We just need some extra help. :)

    I've used it during sex twice, but not lately. Every once in a while she'll ask "having any luck"? Nope, not yet, but getting closer every time. ;)
  • Edit
    Posts: 0

    Originally Posted By: Alex G
    I brought it up in a similar way as Tom. My wife loves getting off with a G-spot orgasm or uterine orgasm, and we usually spend a long time on this. :) So when I said it was possible for me to have similar orgasms (albeit with a lot more work), she was all for it! My ultimate goal is to be able to join her in having the kind of earth-shaking orgasms she has every time we have sex. I'm so jealous of that, but know it's possible for guys too...We just need some extra help. :)

    I've used it during sex twice, but not lately. Every once in a while she'll ask "having any luck"? Nope, not yet, but getting closer every time. ;)


    my wife is concerned about my ED and prostate enlargement.

    she shares in the enjoyment it give me as soon as the contractions start we slip into a oralsex position which results in a satisfying orgasm for us both.

    the contractions continue well into the afterglow.
  • Edit
    Posts: 0
    I told my wife I wanted one of these. I purchased the Helix set. When it arrived in the mail I showed it to her. The following weekend I use it in front of my wife. She was amazed with my reaction & the "involintaries". I think she didn't like the idea of pleasure coming from the rectum. Later, she viewed the experince as a form of masterbating in front of her.I try to give my wife pleasure & satisfier her when ever I can, but I have ED & it has taken a toll on our lives. I also tied It with Viagra, and it was great for me, but I think my wife was suspious.

    HappyJack
  • Pipeline
    Posts: 1
    I am blessed with a dear and beautiful wife with no sexual hangups of any kind. She has been giving me prostate massages for many years and when I purchased an Aneros I told her it would help automate the process since her hands have been effected by a rheumatoid condition that make it more difficult for her to do it manually.

    Little did I know that since getting the device, the massages have brought us to a new level of pleasure and intimacy. I never know when she is going to surprise me with a massage. She comes to bed after I do and begins the process with tender kissing as I lie on my back. She gets between my legs and is naked from the waist up so I can can see her beautiful breasts. She begins by stuffing a pair of panties she has worn all day in my mouth and lubricates my cock and balls. Sometimes she ties my hands to the bed posts and/or blindfolds me.

    The process is slow and time-consuming. After considerable stimulation of my genitals she lubricates my ass and slowly begins inserting the Aneros. Her goal is to open me up and her technique has gotten so good that toward the end I can feel nothing but the device gently massaging my prostate. It feels as though it has worked itself straight into the heart of the prostate. Orgasms are spontaneous with no penile stimulation at all. As I approach orgasm she talks to me about the experience and can seem to make me cum with nothing but words alone. I almost pass out from the pleasure.

    We do this at least once a week, alternating with sex for her in which she gets on top where she can control her own orgasms better. Our intimate life is sensational owing to this wonderful device and we have never been closer. I take a moderate dose of medication for BPH, but since we have started using the Aneros, that condition has abated almost entirely and we both feel that it is helping to keep my prostate healthy.

    Our next experiment is going to be inserting the Aneros while also using a medical sound to penetrate the heart of the prostate through the urethra. I learned this technique from the electro-sex websites and she can hardly wait to try it. The prostate, in effect, will be stimulated from both sides.

    This dear woman is a gift from the gods and she loves to bring me pleasure like nothing else I have ever experienced. I would do anything for her and I know the feeling is entirely mutual.