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  • biddlema
    Posts: 30
    Of all the comments in this forum, the reply that "Femme" gave to RayVega on 12/6 was one of the best replys I've read. It's nice to know that some people actually appreciate this forum and the effort people like "Mayfield", make to help others. It's also nice to know that this isn't just a forum about solo sex for men. Aneros can and does bring many different kinds of pleasure to the total sexual experience!

    Unfortunately, my wife is not as open minded as Femme. But, even though she doesn't know that I use Aneros, she does benifit from it. She has even said things like, "I'm not sure what happened to you, but whatever you did or are doing don't stop." I had major surgery, which seemed weaken my ability to perform. Aneros has really helped! And yes, I personaly have had many fantastic sensations, which I believe to be "dry orgasms."

    The search for the Big "O", should not be the Holy Grail of Aneros!

    It might even be a good idea to drop the use of the phrase "Big O". Aneros is tool that when used correctly and WITH PATIENCE, following any of the different paths, described by various people in different ways throughout this forum, can improve your sex/love life and open new doors to sexual enjoyment and fulfillment.

    Anyway, thanks Femme!

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    Here is the post from "Femme" (Reply to Rayvega 12/6/04)

    My fiancee has the Aneros MGX model. I bought it for him. He's not a proctologist or even a urologist, but he is a neurologist (try to say that 10X fast!), and he says the Aneros is pure genius. So there is at least one doctor I know that recommends it.

    I've been to this forum several times with my fiancee, and we've always found it to be a very intelligent, open, and helpful. I think its fantastic to have a sexually oriented forum that is tasteful and so expansive in scope (the spiritual/meditative posts have been an interesting read) Frankly, I think this RayVega character needs to be exiled. He is a very hateful and ignorant man. And he seems to harbor ill-will towards not only gay people, ,but smart people, as well. It's not surprising that overwhelmingly, the members of this forum are smarter-than-the-norm. The fact of the matter is that intelligence is directly correlated to open-mindedness and experimentation.

    My theory on Ray's failure is that he is too uptight and/or already has something up his bum and/or has yet to come to terms with his own sexual orientation. He's awful defensive, wouldntcha say? Ever seen the movie American Beauty? Chris Cooper's character was a hater, (just like our own RayVega).... with secret, burning desires come to a discouraging end... (for Ray, I guess the Aneros didn't kiss back!) And honestly, you have to wonder what compels him to keep coming back. Ray- Get over it, dude! They offer a refund. Get your money, then go and get some help.

    So, I feel bad about always taking and never giving back, so here is a position that has worked for us. As an aside, my fiancee has yet to attain the "Super O", but he has, however, had more enjoyable orgasms. His ejaculate even tastes better and is whiter/clearer. I've thought on occasion that perhaps people shouldn't be so intent on attaining this super o because maybe that places them in the mindset that the Aneros is a means to that end and that end only. I've always been happy with my man's performance, but we joke that now he's a total porn star - he lasts much longer and his ejaculations are considerably more forceful. We've also noticed that his penis throbs for a much longer duration when he comes and that it is super sensitive afterwards.

    Okay, so- our favorite is for me to be on top of him. I'll lubricate the Aneros with my juices and some lube if necessary, and with him still inside of me, I'll reach back and gently coax the Aneros in. Really, I just need to slip it in halfway and his body seems to take care of the rest. Almost instantly, I can feel him grow inside of me. Then, rather than riding him vertically, I slide back and forth horizontally. That seems to slide the Aneros back and forth as well which seems to do the trick in massaging his "G-spot." He also likes it if I press on his perineum with my fingers on both sides of the tab. The first time we tried this position, he came within seconds, but we've been working on prolonging it. For instance, I will stay on top of him while he does the exercises, but I refrain from moving, although sometimes I'll tighten just to give him a hard time... hee hee (wait, wait wait, baby, no! awww....baby, look what you did!) Anyhoooo- enough about me... actually, way too much about me...

    Here's my Jerry Springer thought of the day: Any fool can despise what he cannot get. (okay, so I stole it from Aesop, but its applicable here!)
  • BusterBuster
    Posts: 953
    Well, I am certainly glad that rayvega is no longer a part of this forum. I took some time and read through his old postings. Pretty angry, I'd say.

    As far as my investment in this product is concerned, even if I dont make it over the top, the journey has been worth the money. The only part that got me was my thought that I bought the wrong model. Within days of my purchase of the MGX model, up popped all of these great testimonials of the Helix. Bad timing on my part, but I am sticking with it. I have certainly experienced some heightened sensations but cant seem to parlay that into the big one. I am curious about those who posted that all they did was change positions and WHAM, it was on them. I am in hopes that the MGX model will be right for me, if not, I will graduate to the Helix. It is almost like a game now. It is always to get some good quiet time in ones life.

    Buster

  • Originally Posted By: Buster


    As far as my investment in this product is concerned, even if I dont make it over the top, the journey has been worth the money. The only part that got me was my thought that I bought the wrong model. Within days of my purchase of the MGX model, up popped all of these great testimonials of the Helix. Bad timing on my part, but I am sticking with it. I have certainly experienced some heightened sensations but cant seem to parlay that into the big one. I am curious about those who posted that all they did was change positions and WHAM, it was on them. I am in hopes that the MGX model will be right for me, if not, I will graduate to the Helix. It is almost like a game now. It is always to get some good quiet time in ones life.

    Buster


    Hi Buster,

    I have only had Super O's with my MODIFIED MGX. The Helix is very enjoyable, but it seems that I need to really embed the tab deeply to generate the pleasure waves. I do wish I could just lie on my side with the Helix and Super O, but can't. Don't worry about needing the Helix ASAP, it took me 5 months to understand what did and did not work with my MGX (this time seems to be "normal" with many listers here) ..... but what a great time it was !!!

    Matt
  • BusterBuster
    Posts: 953
    Hi Matt,

    Thanks for the encouragement. You can always count on this forum for that. You are right, I am just starting out on my learning curve. I certainly dont know how I would modify my MGX. I did get a smile on my face reading how you had modified yours out in the driveway. People are always walking by my house, so I bet that might start a conversation or two. I am not going to run right out and get a Helix, I have to be patient and let this run its course. It sure is nice to have this open forum.

    Buster