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  • jap October 2004
Paralyzed user! How long
  • I am paralyzed from the neck down. With little use of my right arm. tried the Aneros once. My wife inserted it for me. My body seemed to have welcomed the foreign object. It swolled the new device. The way it took it in, how am I to be sure if hit my prostate. Would it maybe be better if my wife pulled some of the preasure of my prostate (if it was on it) and move it left to right. Or would it be up and down the prostate?

    My rectal sphincter is contracted (due to injury). I am able to make my sphincter contract (by spasm) by hitting my stomach or my right hip (laying on my left side). It stays tightly against my PM.

    How long does it take to feel mildly warm or warm waves (I think I felt flushed or warm waves in my face)? Is this normal?

    I thought about the vibrating bullet and thought of buying it. I read that a massage might take 20 to 30 minutes. Is this for the fluids to be expressed? Would the vibrating bullet last that long without burning or should the prostate release its fluid quicker? I am truely looking forward to my next session. :-) I am trying to learn as much and as I can and as fast as I can. I am determained to get please out of this device. Pleasent sensations, empting my prostate and last the BIG-O.

    I hope I am not barking (in the wrong hole) up the wrong hole. I have not experienced an orgasm in 21 years. However I have had about 6 ejactulates in this time frame via vibrator.

    I guess I'm the only paralyzed person. If not would someone post me?
  • jap
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    Originally Posted By: Jeff E.
    I am paralyzed from the neck down. With little use of my right arm. tried the Aneros once. My wife inserted it for me. My body seemed to have welcomed the foreign object. It swolled the new device. The way it took it in, how am I to be sure if hit my prostate. Would it maybe be better if my wife pulled some of the preasure of my prostate (if it was on it) and move it left to right. Or would it be up and down the prostate?

    My rectal sphincter is contracted (due to injury). I am able to make my sphincter contract (by spasm) by hitting my stomach or my right hip (laying on my left side). It stays tightly against my PM.

    How long does it take to feel mildly warm or warm waves (I think I felt flushed or warm waves in my face)? Is this normal?

    I thought about the vibrating bullet and thought of buying it. I read that a massage might take 20 to 30 minutes. Is this for the fluids to be expressed? Would the vibrating bullet last that long without burning or should the prostate release its fluid quicker? I am truely looking forward to my next session. :-) I am trying to learn as much and as I can and as fast as I can. I am determained to get please out of this device. Pleasent sensations, empting my prostate and last the BIG-O.

    I hope I am not barking (in the wrong hole) up the wrong hole. I have not experienced an orgasm in 21 years. However I have had about 6 ejactulates in this time frame via vibrator.

    I guess I'm the only paralyzed person. If not would someone post me?


    I have some spinal cord damage as well although not to the same extent as you. In order for me to have sexual intercoarse I had to resort to Viagra. I was very skeptical at first but I am so glad that we took the plunge. Now I can actually feel enough to have an orgasim and we would never go back. So far with the aneros I have had little success and I think that it may be due to my spinal damage and the lack of sensation which viagra was able to overcome when it came to intercoarse. Now I need to give Viagra a try with the aneros.
    So far I find that the use of aneros has improved our sexual intercoarse to the extent that I am able to release with a much bigger delivery of cum , much bigger than before. I attribute this to the fact that the aneros is helping the prostate maintain a better condition and more free running. For me this means a better sexual orgasims for sure. I have missed out on so much over the past few years it is really nice to have something come back to working wonderful after all. I am really eager to press on and look for the super O and an even bigger smile knowing that I'm looking after my prostate as well in the ballance.