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  • Mr Mayfield - based on the premise that 'a picture says a thousand words' may I suggest that you develop a video to describe the many methods and suggestions that I read in your columns. An audio cassette might be another alternative?
    I am writing this note probably out of frustration having now bought both Aneros models, many different types of lubricant and 'practiced' for many hours over 3/4 months. I have had a couple of 'electric' type tingles, 2/3 low involuntary contractions , a lot of anal 'pleasurable' feelings always self generated....but little else.
    I am sure your satisfied customers are built the same way as I am so I'd guess that I need the tuition. What say you? Thank you,

    Frustrated of Sarasota(Joey)

    PS The Blowfish catalog has a interesting video used to demonstrate their electric 'toys'
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Joey,

    First and foremost, I must make clear that I have NO affiliation whatsoever with HIH (the manufacturer of the Aneros). Perhaps my older postings make this a little clearer. The truth is I'm someone just like you; I had my own learning curve that was punctuated with some long periods of frustration (9 months in my case). Over this period I noted many others in the forum experiencing similar difficulties. Once it happened for me I wanted to share my experiences with others, particularly with those who were still having a hard time. The forum has afforded me the perfect opportunity to do so. I've encouraged everybody to consider their pursuit of this new kind of orgasm, as a sensual journey, and to be patient. It is a process and for most people it's unavoidable because there are some obstacles (our existing ideas of what an orgasm is, and our preconceived notions about what the Super O is) that stand in the way. Once people do a little clearing and get some new information under their belts, results soon follow.

    Regarding a video, outside of titillation to some, it would be pointless, as the majority of what goes on is not visible. The anal and rectal contractions the mental focus are all internal and as such not viewable! The breathing might be demonstrable to some extent, but outside of that, I can’t think of anything that would be gained by video instruction, at this point at least. The cassette route might hold some promise, and I will give it some thought. In the meantime, check out BEE Line, it contains many of my archived comments and some new ones as well that may be helpful to you. Beyond that, I always keep an eye on the forum and email.

    Keep at it, often times breakthroughs happen when you least expect them (probably because you're NOT expecting them, is more accurate). This is the reason I tell everybody to be open to everything and enjoy all that comes your way.

    Regards,

    B Mayfield

  • Originally Posted By: B Mayfield
    Joey,

    First and foremost, I must make clear that I have NO affiliation whatsoever with HIH (the manufacturer of the Aneros). Perhaps my older postings make this a little clearer. The truth is I'm someone just like you; I had my own learning curve that was punctuated with some long periods of frustration (9 months in my case). Over this period I noted many others in the forum experiencing similar difficulties. Once it happened for me I wanted to share my experiences with others, particularly with those who were still having a hard time. The forum has afforded me the perfect opportunity to do so. I've encouraged everybody to consider their pursuit of this new kind of orgasm, as a sensual journey, and to be patient. It is a process and for most people it's unavoidable because there are some obstacles (our existing ideas of what an orgasm is, and our preconceived notions about what the Super O is) that stand in the way. Once people do a little clearing and get some new information under their belts, results soon follow.

    Regarding a video, outside of titillation to some, it would be pointless, as the majority of what goes on is not visible. The anal and rectal contractions the mental focus are all internal and as such not viewable! The breathing might be demonstrable to some extent, but outside of that, I can’t think of anything that would be gained by video instruction, at this point at least. The cassette route might hold some promise, and I will give it some thought. In the meantime, check out BEE Line, it contains many of my archived comments and some new ones as well that may be helpful to you. Beyond that, I always keep an eye on the forum and email.

    Keep at it, often times breakthroughs happen when you least expect them (probably because you're NOT expecting them, is more accurate). This is the reason I tell everybody to be open to everything and enjoy all that comes your way.

    Regards,

    B Mayfield


    Dear B Mayfield - thanks for your considered response..I kinda got the message that you were the official spokes-person for Aneros as you seem to feature signoficantly on 'its pages'. Nevertheless I'll continue to persevere - perhaps in a more relaxed way - and will report back when the A - for Action day - arrives. Joey.