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  • I forgot to post message since this is my first time here. I just ordered the Aneros and can hardly believe that this really works...I've always enjoyed anal play but my wife thought it was weird and did'nt want to participate even though it was a big turn on for me....Could anybody tell me what this feels like???? How does it compare to a "normal" orgasm??? Is it just as good or better???...What really excites me is the stories of multiple orgasms....Is it just a good feeling throughout your body or is it an actual orgasm.. Thanks

    Sean
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
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    Yes it's for real! Yes it is an actual orgasm, with no ejaculation though. See my comments below from my thread" key to the backdoor..."

    "The orgasm that I experience shares the same criteria (build-up and release) with the penile counterpart, however it is MUCH more global in nature and far more intense. It goes something like this.

    The build-up starts with waves of anal quivering and the abutement tab creating a strong tingling sensation in my perineum, anus, prostate and rectum simultaneously. Soon after I experience a tickling sensation in my abdomen and find myself contracting my abdominal muscles. In short order I feel a paradoxical sensation of my anus pushing outward while the Aneros seems to be drawn INWARD! All of this builds and suddenly I feel my erection get much harder. What happens next can only be described as blissful waves that encompass my whole body. (Must be an endorphine cascade ) The duration of the orgasm is much longer than a traditional orgasm as well and I may even experience another orgasm coming on top of the first one! Unlike a traditional penile orgasm it does not seem to have a "refractory period" where one must wait a period of time before ejaculating again. I also notice that after having this kind of experience I am sated yet energized at the same time! This stands in contrast to a traditional penile orgasm where I feel relaxed but somewhat lethagic. I'm not knocking penile orgasms at all, it's just that the Aneros is (for me) a more intense and ultimately more fulfilling experience.

    Today, for example, I experienced somewhere around eight of these orgasms, four that were extremely intense and three to four others that were smaller in size. (They all felt incredible.) This all occured within roughly an hours time. The traditional penile orgasm that I finish myself of with is itself too, much more intense than I had previous known.

    I should mention that for a while I was under the impression that the sensation that accompanies the anal quivering was the Super Orgasm that I had read about, it is not. This Super O, or "non-ejaculatory orgasm" as the manufacturer calls it something quite different."

  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
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    P.S. to my previous posting.

    There are a myriad of sensations that are associated with use of the Aneros. I like to think of them belonging to 2 classes. The first are "traditional" sensations, not that they don't necessarily feel new to you, but that they follow an arousal path that you are familiar with. That is, you stimulate yourself, and you immediately experience a sensation. The Aneros can be used to great effect this way, for example manually working your penis and just masturbating, or having intercourse both while the Aneros is in place.

    The second class I like to think of as "synergistic" , in that they require time and mental focus, and the coalescence of several different sensations to create a new sensation, a "super sensation" if you will, that is of a greater order of magnitude. The "involuntary anal contractions/anal quivering" that you may have read about elsewhere in this forum are a case in point. I now believe these to be actual "anal/rectal orgasms" in their own right. They have their own build-up and they can produce terrific localized sensations as well as effects that are more global (whole body) in nature. The "Super Orgasm", as I have referred to it, involves coalescing these "anal/rectal orgasms" to generate an orgasm of an even higher order of magnitude (see my description above) And it WILL rock you!

    Be sure to go through this forum and read the postings over the last several months.

    B Mayfield
  • Hi B Mayfield,

    Thanks so very much for answering this post.....it was very informative and I can't wait to get started....I know it requires patience and i'm looking forward to the journy....
    Thanks again for taking the time.

    Sean
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    Hi,
    I wanted to share an experience that I recently had.....I've had the aneros for approx 2 weeks and have had 2 orgasms and been frustrated trying to achieve more and I know I have to be patient and let it just flow, however I wonder if anyone doesn't get a hard-on when having an orgasm (Dry)....I have been sooooooo very close lately and it just won't come on fully.....Yesterday was something different...I tried a new position like what has been suggested .. with my ass in the air and face in the pillow and my wife said I was moaning like a girl experiencing back to back orgasms..She said my moaning was on the high pitched side..I didn't care when it was happening of course but after she told me, I was a little emmbarrased.....I'm sure I didn't have an orgasm, but it really felt great....a totally new feeling.

    My times I don't get the twitching that is talked about....I am finding that it definately helps to be turned on...I've also found that after relaxing(breathing in while contracting helps alot). However after I'm relaxed I try and hold a big contraction in for as long as possible....Is this good for inducing twitching and bringing on an orgasm.....I haven't seen it addressed anywhere else....Any advice will be appreciated.

    Thanks,

    Sean
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    Hi,
    I wanted to share an experience that I recently had.....I've had the aneros for approx 2 weeks and have had 2 orgasms and been frustrated trying to achieve more and I know I have to be patient and let it just flow, however I wonder if anyone doesn't get a hard-on when having an orgasm (Dry)....I have been sooooooo very close lately and it just won't come on fully.....Yesterday was something different...I tried a new position like what has been suggested .. with my ass in the air and face in the pillow and my wife said I was moaning like a girl experiencing back to back orgasms..She said my moaning was on the high pitched side..I didn't care when it was happening of course but after she told me, I was a little emmbarrased.....I'm sure I didn't have an orgasm, but it really felt great....a totally new feeling.

    My times I don't get the twitching that is talked about....I am finding that it definately helps to be turned on...I've also found that after relaxing(breathing in while contracting helps alot). However after I'm relaxed I try and hold a big contraction in for as long as possible....Is this good for inducing twitching and bringing on an orgasm.....I haven't seen it addressed anywhere else....Any advice will be appreciated.

    Thanks,

    Sean
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    Hi,
    I wanted to share an experience that I recently had.....I've had the aneros for approx 2 weeks and have had 2 orgasms and been frustrated trying to achieve more and I know I have to be patient and let it just flow, however I wonder if anyone doesn't get a hard-on when having an orgasm (Dry)....I have been sooooooo very close lately and it just won't come on fully.....Yesterday was something different...I tried a new position like what has been suggested .. with my ass in the air and face in the pillow and my wife said I was moaning like a girl experiencing back to back orgasms..She said my moaning was on the high pitched side..I didn't care when it was happening of course but after she told me, I was a little emmbarrased.....I'm sure I didn't have an orgasm, but it really felt great....a totally new feeling.

    My times I don't get the twitching that is talked about....I am finding that it definately helps to be turned on...I've also found that after relaxing(breathing in while contracting helps alot). However after I'm relaxed I try and hold a big contraction in for as long as possible....Is this good for inducing twitching and bringing on an orgasm.....I haven't seen it addressed anywhere else....Any advice will be appreciated.

    Thanks,

    Sean
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    Hi,
    I wanted to share an experience that I recently had.....I've had the aneros for approx 2 weeks and have had 2 orgasms and been frustrated trying to achieve more and I know I have to be patient and let it just flow, however I wonder if anyone doesn't get a hard-on when having an orgasm (Dry)....I have been sooooooo very close lately and it just won't come on fully.....Yesterday was something different...I tried a new position like what has been suggested .. with my ass in the air and face in the pillow and my wife said I was moaning like a girl experiencing back to back orgasms..She said my moaning was on the high pitched side..I didn't care when it was happening of course but after she told me, I was a little emmbarrased.....I'm sure I didn't have an orgasm, but it really felt great....a totally new feeling.

    My times I don't get the twitching that is talked about....I am finding that it definately helps to be turned on...I've also found that after relaxing(breathing in while contracting helps alot). However after I'm relaxed I try and hold a big contraction in for as long as possible....Is this good for inducing twitching and bringing on an orgasm.....I haven't seen it addressed anywhere else....Any advice will be appreciated.

    Thanks,

    Sean
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    Hi,

    I wanted to share an experience that I recently had.....I've had the aneros for approx 2 weeks and have had 2 orgasms and been frustrated trying to achieve more and I know I have to be patient and let it just flow, however I wonder if anyone doesn't get a hard-on when having an orgasm (Dry)....I have been sooooooo very close lately and it just won't come on fully.....Yesterday was something different...I tried a new position like what has been suggested .. with my ass in the air and face in the pillow and my wife said I was moaning like a girl experiencing back to back orgasms..She said my moaning was on the high pitched side..I didn't care when it was happening of course but after she told me, I was a little emmbarrased.....I'm sure I didn't have an orgasm, but it really felt great....a totally new feeling.

    My times I don't get the twitching that is talked about....I am finding that it definately helps to be turned on...I've also found that after relaxing(breathing in while contracting helps alot). However after I'm relaxed I try and hold a big contraction in for as long as possible....Is this good for inducing twitching and bringing on an orgasm.....I haven't seen it addressed anywhere else....Any advice will be appreciated.

    Thanks,

    Sean
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
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    Sean,

    From how you've described it, it sounds like you are close! Regarding the position with your face in the pillow and rear in the air, try to MAKE CERTAIN that you have the perineal abutment tab on your "sweet spot". I have a feeling that if you can maintain the proper position on the tab, it may push you over the top. The proper position is located roughly in the center of your perineum. You may notice that on the underside of your penis there is a raised rounded area that runs lengthwise. This raised area actually continues all the way down the shaft past the scrotum and into the perineal area. (If you have an erection and squat down, you can feel it with your hand almost all the way down to your anus) The plexus of nerves that we're concerned with, passes through this area. I have found that the kneeling position and the one that you've described makes this "sweet spot" very easy to identify. As you move the tab over this area you may experience a tingling sensation that runs through the center of your penis, perineum, anus and prostate simultaneously.

    The tricky part with maintaining the Aneros on the "sweet spot" is that the area is raised and rounded so the tab wants to shift over to one side or the other. I recommend that you use one or two fingers as a guide, being careful to ADD NO PRESSURE FROM YOUR FINGERS WHATSOEVER! YOUR ANAL CONTRACTIONS MUST BE THE ONLY SOURCE OF PRESSURE TO THE TAB! With the face in the pillow and kneeling positions, it's an easy matter to keep one hand down around the area.

    With respect to having an erection with this kind of orgasm, I usually become very hard just prior to the orgasm (it's almost a sign of the orgasm itself) , however I have seen other postings that I stated otherwise.

    In so far as things that fascilitate twitching; mental focus on pleasant sensations, "vibratory" breathing, and timed anal contractions. I have never found strong contractions helpful in generating a Super O. Strong contractions are great however for enhancing a traditional ejaculation with the Aneros. I have found that subtle contractions work best when coupled with the proper breathing and mental focus. For more on breathing see my post entitled Key the Backdoor to Ecstasy-Revisited

    Keep at it!

    B Mayfield
  • Hi,
    Thanks B Mayfield....I always look forward to your advice...I Will definately experiment with your suggestions and Let you know.

    Bye for now,

    Sean

  • Originally Posted By: mentonesand
    I forgot to post message since this is my first time here. I just ordered the Aneros and can hardly believe that this really works...I've always enjoyed anal play but my wife thought it was weird and did'nt want to participate even though it was a big turn on for me....Could anybody tell me what this feels like???? How does it compare to a "normal" orgasm??? Is it just as good or better???...What really excites me is the stories of multiple orgasms....Is it just a good feeling throughout your body or is it an actual orgasm.. Thanks

    Sean


    Preface: This is a note to a friend regarding the Aneros. I sent to him on 11/20/03. Note: I have used the Aneros for at least a year quite regularly. I hope you and others will find it helpful.
    TT

    Get an Aneros prostate massager and wear it for 2 or 3 hours and do your pc’s whenever you think of it. Feels really good and after wearing it for a while I’m oozing cum! Check out www.aneros.com. Only $40 and worth it, and comes with a money-back guarantee! It is a medical device, scientifically designed expressly to massage the prostate and is not a simple ‘butt-plug’ like you see in porn shops.
    Feels good while seating in a chair (like at the computer) and doing my pc’s. Prostate massage is very healthy and is practiced world-wide except for North America. Check out their webpage and decide for yourself.
    BTW: On the Aneros home page, it looks like a picture of a large brush fire. Actually, it is a profile of a male with the Aneros prostate massager inserted and applying stimulation to the prostate. Read ‘description’, 'product' and if time, 'testimonials'. Try to read the entire webpage. I love my Aneros Massager and use it often, sometimes for hours as I drive, go shopping, walking, etc. I also take it with me on vacations. Absolutely impossible for anyone to know you’re using one. And if you wear it during sex, especially when you cum with her on top, your stimulated prostate gives you even more pleasure.
    There is also a number of stores that sell the massager over the counter listed on the site. Probably marked up though. I used the on-line site to get mine.
    Let me know what you think of the idea. If nothing else, it is great entertainment and beneficial to read all about it.
    My wife has no objection to the massager and is glad it enhances my ejaculations. (She even offered to massage my prostate but I thanked her for her offer and declined).
    So get on the webpage and decide for yourself. What the heck; if you don't like it, you can get your money back. As the old saying goes: Try it; you'll like it. Good Times.
    TT
  • Hi B,
    I just wanted to share some unbelievable sessions I've recently experienced using the Aneros.....As my previous post, I have been struggling with bringing back the 2 orgasms I achieved in the begining....This has all changed and boy is it something....3 nights ago, a friend and I smoked a little pot...something I haven't done since college about 18 years ago.....after he left I decided to have some quiet time and practice some more....I started to do what you suggested with very small contractions along with breathing( I had been doing large contractions and holding it in for as long as possible and it was'nt working)....then it hit me like a ton of bricks......the most amazing hour or 2 of my life (I lost track of time)....I proceeded to have 11 orgasms....2 of which I think were Super O but I'm not sure since I've never had One....They kept coming and coming so freely , I was in a state of shock....and they still kept coming....no sooner would I subside with one and almost immediately I would build another....The reason I think I had 2 Super O's is that they lasted approximately 1 1/2 minutes of immense pleasure......I thing I've noticed, when I feel one coming on, it seems that the aneros is almost sucked into you and for me it seems to stay there and not move back and forth if it don't let it....I also have found that if I don't hold it in place, (meaning keep it in that same spot) and try to have it rock back and forth...the sensations have somewhat subsided.....

    The last 3 days have been unreal....with each day having muliple orgasms...almost as many as I want....i just never thought I would achieve this so soon...Each night I took 2 hits off a joint and at least for me, It relaxes me so fast and gets my going so much sooner.....I'm not advocating that anyone should try smoking prior to using the aneros, but for me it has been THE MOST AMAZING EXPERIENCE I'VE EVER HAD ALONE.

    One of those nights was with my wife....I was going down on her and she had 6 long orgasms....she said that I was like a lunatic....She said It was such a turn-on to see my in so much pleasure that her own orgasms were so much more intense that she has ever experienced in our whole relationship....I have put off cumming the usual way and it seems that every time I use the aneros that I'm that much more horny...It's been 4 day's...the longest yet and I want to see how long I can go because these dry orgasms are the best.......

    For those that are reading this post, stay with it.....you will have the shock of your life....Read previous post's...B Mayfield's has given alot of his experiences and knowledge and has helped me out tremendously. Thank You B.

    I am still very new to this having had the aneros about 3 weeks and am learning all the time....This is a journey that I will always be on and look forward to every day.... The after glow and the sense of well being after having these orgasms is beautiful....Major stress relief....My best to all.

    Bye for now,

    Sean
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
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    Sean,

    I am so incredibly happy for you! Isn't it (expletive) fantastic!!! It's funny because the experience seems to have such far reaching effects too, I mean beyond the sexual experience itself. It gives you a total attitude adjustment! It's a powerful thing indeed.

    I'm so glad to hear that your wife is with the program too! Man, you've got it all. Hey, you guys are going to be having a great time...(I was about to say "take it from me" but you don't need to ..you know it for yourself!) I really appreciate you reporting back on this too, as you know I've been trying to find the elements that we all have in common that are responsible for creating this orgasm. Hopefully, soon we'll be able to develop a more accurate road map for those who are struggling to find their way. For instance, your experience of how the Aneros is drawn in and held in by your body during the orgasm parallels mine precisely.

    I got some good news for you too, (although perhaps you may have already anticipated this) as time goes by these orgasms will be easier and easier to generate. It is even possible that it may come to a point, as it has with me, that the mere thought of them or perhaps simply picking the Aneros up in your hand may start the sensations to build. Most likely you will also find that you no longer need anything to relax you in order to start the process. Ultimately, it will become almost automatic.

    Again my congratulations,

    B Mayfield

    P.S. Thanks for the accolade. I do appreciate it. One of the things that I've felt since I began having this experience was the overwhelming desire to share it with others. So you'll understand when I say, it's been my pleasure to have been of assistance to you.
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
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    P.P.S.

    Don't stop posting to the forum, your feedback with respect to your experiences with the Aneros alone and with your wife will be of tremendous encouragement to many out there!

    B Mayfield