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Hands free ejaculation
  • PandabearPandabear
    Posts: 38
    Hands free ejaculation has always been a goal of mine, and I feel like I've gotten close, but it has never happened. During a super-O, it feels like I'm gonna ejaculate (from the penis), but if I focus on the sensation, it ruins the super-o and nothing more really happens.

    I've learnt that relaxation is the key to me reaching super-Os, and I try not to build up tension, since there isn't any release, which can be very frustrating.

    So this is what I want to achieve: A session where I experience numerous super-Os, that build up and create so much pleasure that my penis is forced to ejaculate without my touching it. Release!

    Is this possible? Can super-Os bring on ejaculation, creating sexual release?
  • If one is in balance and properly re-wired, one has the potential to squirt. I have had 4 different types of HFWO.
  • PandabearPandabear
    Posts: 38

    If one is in balance and properly re-wired, one has the potential to squirt. I have had 4 different types of HFWO.



    Can you elaborate on the four different types, and on what distuingishes them? Should I ignore pleasurable feelings building up in the penis, and never shift my focus from the prostate?
  • My perception is it can be anything and everything.

    Some people say during a SuperO they SWEAR cum is streaming out of their penis.  Others say it feels like a traditional orgasm but they don't shoot cum.

    Bottom line is things vary from person to person and from session to session.
  • The different types are based on what comes out of the penis. You have traditional ejaculate, prostatic milk, male equivalent of female ejaculation, and a thick fluid that has the viscosity of lube. I can get all 4 with and without hands.

    I cannot answer the question about shifting focus from the penis to the prostate. I never had to do that. It is all a matter of relaxation. Don't over analyze the process, don't try and figure it out. @hamptonbdsm gave you very wise words, regarding perception and variance. FWIW my Super Os never feel like I'm about to ejaculate. Enjoy your journey.
  • As men, during our entire life, we have defined pleasure, and the end goal of sex as ejaculation. The rewiring process will help you redefine pleasure, and ejaculation no longer has to be that end goal. The multiple orgasms produced by the Prostate feel different and become an end goal in and of themselves. But they do not have to be exclusively so. You can "finish up" with a typical orgasm either through intercourse or self pleasure. It is similar to the choice females have in either/and/or a clitoris or g-spot orgasm.

    Most times, I do not finish with a typical orgasm when I am by myself, but almost always do with my girlfriend. I usually fall asleep after an hour or so of Super-Os (when by myself), so a typical ejaculation orgasm isn't necessary. Lately, after a good aneros session and I then have sex with my girlfriend, I'll have multiple Super O's (prostate orgasm), then have a dry O in my penis, then followed by a typical ejaculation orgasm, it is absolutely wild!
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,173
    @MostInteresting1, good advice though I would caution newbies about finishing their sessions with ejaculation as this can hamper rewiring.  Once rewired it seems to be ok, but during the learning process its best to seperate the two.  This doesnt affect everyone, but I would still caution against it as we are all individuals and have our own journeys.
  • Though a hands free orgasm is cool, your goal is really the super O....ejaculation for me is the conclusion or session ending....where super O's can last for hours

    Good luck on your journey...your patience will be rewarded
  • @MostInteresting1, good advice though I would caution newbies about finishing their sessions with ejaculation as this can hamper rewiring.  Once rewired it seems to be ok, but during the learning process its best to seperate the two.  This doesnt affect everyone, but I would still caution against it as we are all individuals and have our own journeys.



    Very true!
  • When one has an Aneros session, it should not be about obtaining a goal. This is why people have dud sessions. If one is truly enjoying the Aneros experience, how does one become goal oriented? Most want to get to the destination (if there actually is one), without enjoying the ride and taking in the scenery. They invariably drive too fast and/or crash into a ditch.
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
    Posts: 776
    The "Journey" IS the destination...that never ends!

    In my best Groucho Marx impersonation... "Now that sounds like a Pair 'o Ducks...or a paradox...if I EVER heard one!"

    TG
  • Had a HFWO last night smoking salvia divinorum. It was intense. Haven't had one since I was a teen.
  • many hands free pegging episodes, enjoyed them all. Sometimes a little sore next day but nothing like a 10 dildo. Can't use too much lubel
  • DarkEngineDarkEngine
    Posts: 204
    I also have the issue of wanting to invoke a HFWO as an 'ending' point for the session -- lest I just jerk off. It's the problem of dick invariably erecting, and barging into the limelight of p-waves and prostate orgasms -- it FEELS like it's cumming, but nothing is happening! My mind gets frustrated.

    And cumming/leaking in general is clear evidence on how far up the pleasure-barometer one is. Without it, the brain eventually starts thrashing around, confused on where it stands.

    It's something to overcome on rewiring lol
  • matt1008matt1008
    Posts: 11
    I'd like to have a hands-free ejaculation as well - after five productive years of Aneros use, I deserve it! Like the original poster, there were several times when it felt tantalizingly close, but eventually I needed to stroke it to happen. Perhaps putting the tip of a vibrator on my sweet spot will do it. In the meantime, I'm enjoying the "almost" times and testing out how much I can maximize the dry orgasms by gently tapping on various spots on my penis with my fingertips.
  • Once you are rewired, you will have to consciencely think of your penis in order to have a traditional orgasm. It is strange, but your prostate will become the master and you will have to ask permission before it releases you to have a traditional orgasm!
  • As men, during our entire life, we have defined pleasure, and the end goal of sex as ejaculation. The rewiring process will help you redefine pleasure, and ejaculation no longer has to be that end goal. The multiple orgasms produced by the Prostate feel different and become an end goal in and of themselves. But they do not have to be exclusively so. You can "finish up" with a typical orgasm either through intercourse or self pleasure. It is similar to the choice females have in either/and/or a clitoris or g-spot orgasm.


    Most times, I do not finish with a typical orgasm when I am by myself, but almost always do with my girlfriend. I usually fall asleep after an hour or so of Super-Os (when by myself), so a typical ejaculation orgasm isn't necessary. Lately, after a good aneros session and I then have sex with my girlfriend, I'll have multiple Super O's (prostate orgasm), then have a dry O in my penis, then followed by a typical ejaculation orgasm, it is absolutely wild!


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  • BigGlansDCBigGlansDC
    Posts: 866

    The different types are based on what comes out of the penis. You have traditional ejaculate, prostatic milk, male equivalent of female ejaculation, and a thick fluid that has the viscosity of lube. I can get all 4 with and without hands. 



    Hi @Pspotsquirter,

    Can you define exactly what is the "male equivalent of female ejaculation?" I have been dying to know for a long time.

    Likewise, can someone tell me exactly what is a "clitoral orgasm in men?" I have had a burning desire to know for as long that I have been in my two years plus on this Forum.


    matt1008 said:

    I'd like to have a hands-free ejaculation as well - after five productive years of Aneros use, I deserve it! Like the original poster, there were several times when it felt tantalizingly close, but eventually I needed to stroke it to happen. Perhaps putting the tip of a vibrator on my sweet spot will do it. In the meantime, I'm enjoying the "almost" times and testing out how much I can maximize the dry orgasms by gently tapping on various spots on my penis with my fingertips.



    And @matt1008, my good buddy, I am sure that you will experience a hands-free ejaculation after "your five productive years of Aneros use." It may happen out of the blue for you. Incidentally, that is how I experienced my very first orgasm and ejaculation of semen as an adolescent. I had gotten so much into my cock that I experienced out of the blue a tidal wave of sexual pleasure that swept over me and had my first orgasm and ejaculation of semen one Saturday night before bedtime! @matt1008, I am intrigued by your exploration of the spots of your penis!

    Thom./BigGlansDC
  • @BigGlansDC
    When a man's prostate is stimulated squirting is possible. As it is possible for a woman to squirt, when her Gräfenberg spot is stimulated. Hence the male equivalent to female ejaculation. Some say it is not possible for a man to do this. I squirt during a session, I squirt post session, I squirt A-less, I squirt after ejaculation,
    I can squirt with a dildo (Beckett style), and I can even squirt when I have naughty thoughts about my GF.
    Oh how I love being re-wired! But I think a man having a clitoral orgasm is a bit off (IMO). I would also be interested in having that concept defined and explained.
  • Alex_xxxAlex_xxx
    Posts: 573
    I think the post above is misinformative.
    Female squirting often involves an orgasm. Male HFE as TS is asking, does NOT involve an orgasm. If it did it would be an HFO or HFWO.
  • matt1008matt1008
    Posts: 11

    And @matt1008, my good buddy, I am sure that you will experience a hands-free ejaculation after "your five productive years of Aneros use." It may happen out of the blue for you. Incidentally, that is how I experienced my very first orgasm and ejaculation of semen as an adolescent. I had gotten so much into my cock that I experienced out of the blue a tidal wave of sexual pleasure that swept over me and had my first orgasm and ejaculation of semen one Saturday night before bedtime! @matt1008, I am intrigued by your exploration of the spots of your penis!


    Thom./BigGlansDC


    Lightly touching or tapping the penis helps bring on the deeper sensations in the prostate. I know a lot of Aneros experts on the forum advise against it, but this particular technique works well for me. I use the penis as a conduit for bringing on the p-waves, mini-os and even greater sensations. Mostly it involves tapping the underside of my erect penis from the root to the sensitive area under the head, although I've also had some great effects with having my hand underneath and gently bouncing the top part of the shaft against it.
  • BigGlansDCBigGlansDC
    Posts: 866




    Lightly touching or tapping the penis helps bring on the deeper sensations in the prostate. I know a lot of Aneros experts on the forum advise against it, but this particular technique works well for me. I use the penis as a conduit for bringing on the p-waves, mini-os and even greater sensations. Mostly it involves tapping the underside of my erect penis from the root to the sensitive area under the head, although I've also had some great effects with having my hand underneath and gently bouncing the top part of the shaft against it.


    Hi @matt1008, Thank you for sharing with us your technique of stimulating your penis while having an Aneros session. I will have to use it in the coming days as a way of enhancing my Aneros experience. 

    Also, I appreciate very much @Pspotsquirter's clear, concise answer to my question above.

    However, there lingers my question about the Clitoral orgasm in men. So I will try to provide an answer or several to it. Since I have never known women sexually and intimately, I will have to rely on analogies. It is said that the male penis is analogous to the female clitoris. Can men have localized orgasms in their penises or parts of their penises in the same way that women have orgasms in their clitorises? Can a man have an orgasm at the base of his penis or in his glans in the same way that a woman have one in her glans clitoris? Or does a man's entire sexual apparatus get in involved in his orgasm and ejaculation in a similar way that a woman's entire sexual apparatus? I want to know!

    I direct your attention to the long running thread below:


    Thank you,

    Thom./BIgGlansDC
  • DarkEngineDarkEngine
    Posts: 204
    Prostate sensitivity varies with men. There have been topics similar to this before, and I follow on the consensus that some men simply don't squirt or ejaculate hands-free.
    Saying that, a bit of precum is possible with me if my dick isn't erect, I think. The other problem is the prostate 'hiding' away half a minute of contact.

    I can get wet dreams - it's often depends on whether arousal is still lingering during rest. The aspect of dreaming says a lot too; maybe HFWO is possible if our minds were somehow able to take over to that extent…? My mind naturally has a lot of noise going on, for instance, and I can generally tell when the conscious is numbing the experience.

    Maybe that's why people advise exercising — when you're physically and mentally pushed, the mind goes back to a blank canvas. Same with dope: it empties the brain. It then becomes much easier for the body to relay sensations to the mind.
  • @DarkEngine
    The silent mind is acquired through much meditation. [-O<
  • Thanks for the help, guys! I have set this goal aside for a bit. Main goal now is pleasure. More super-Os.

    But i would love to hear more about HFWO, and would like people to post their stories, and perhaps link to vids
  • Since I started playing around with some solo dildoing I've become interested in the notion of a hands free ejaculation as well. I've heard many different stories of individuals who have been able to climax from anal stimulation alone. I'd say this is something i'm working on now more than with my aneros devices and Super-O's. My trouble is that I'm never able to go enough days without an activity to build up my anticipation and arousal to the point where I probably would achieve a HFWO. I'm currently just coming off a great session from last night - gonna try and go a few days without any activity and see if it helps set me up for a better session next time. 
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,173
    try a hitachi magic wand on your frenum.  It will literally suck the orgasm right outta ya!!  Its the closest I've ever came to a hands free orgasm.  
  • Since I started playing around with some solo dildoing I've become interested in the notion of a hands free ejaculation as well. I've heard many different stories of individuals who have been able to climax from anal stimulation alone. I'd say this is something i'm working on now more than with my aneros devices and Super-O's. My trouble is that I'm never able to go enough days without an activity to build up my anticipation and arousal to the point where I probably would achieve a HFWO. I'm currently just coming off a great session from last night - gonna try and go a few days without any activity and see if it helps set me up for a better session next time. 



    Have you seen any videos of hands free ejaculation? I've seen some videos of shemales doing it, and it looks amazing

    I have put aside the "goal" of "achieving" it. By which I mean that I still want it to happen, but it isn't something I actively try to make happen. Pleasure is now my main goal, and I let it come from my entire body. My penis oozes precum during the entire session, and especially during super-Os. Maybe one day I'll figure out the hands free ejaculation thing. It seems as though getting to know the prostate and the super-o may be the key to it

  • I've seen some videos, but none of them seemed to be actual orgasms - more like emissions due to prostate (or other gland) stimulation. I'm curious about whether or not I could achieve a penile orgasm from anal stimulation alone. I've read plenty of accounts of individuals who have done it. I think I'm also going to put aside the "goal" for now and just enjoy simple sessions for now. 
  • There is more than 1 type of HFWO. The HFWO involving the shooting of semen is slightly overrated (IMO). This particular HFWO is dependent upon your body's automatic thrusting capability, as well your body's ability and level of which it can have automatic contractions. When I say automatic, I mean it occurs without any input that you enter into the equation (self induced thrusting and self induced contractions).
  • I've been an Aneros user for around 18 months. Very early on, I found I could induce a HFWO by using my Helix Syn, mounting an upholstered chair or sofa arm, thrusting and rocking to a full ejaculation. I do find that in these sessions, the ejaculate comes out in more of a slow flood than the forceful spurts I am used to from having penis driven climaxes, but the volume of cum is similar. It would usually take at least 30 to 60 minutes of this to achieve orgasm, with the time since my last ejaculation greatly affecting the time it took to cum this way. Since it takes so much longer, the release seems more intense, even though the ejaculation is less forceful. In addition to the Aneros, I purchased a Jopen E4 vibrating prostate massager to induce HFWO this way. At age 48, the discovery of this technique blew me away, and I spent countless hours last year repeating this newfound pleasure. After 6 months or so, I felt that this practice was hindering my progress on traditional contraction based Aneros sessions, so I decided to cut back on the use of this technique to refocus on use of the Aneros as intended.
  • It shakes, it rumbles, the natives run in terror, the whole island shudders but it never seems to BLOW!.

    Who cares? not I (anymore), like so many have said, it the journey that counts and for me I'm finding that the experience is so awesome I no longer care about a destination if one exists.
    Does a roller coaster have a destination?   (HA! a Morpheus moment!) :-B

    I always have a great ride and that's way excellent! but eventually I need to force myself just to stop but feel satisfied.  Even tried a conventional ejac straight afterward but feel ... in a way "spent" so don't really need to do anyway.
  • I've been able to consistently enjoy hands-free ejaculation with Aneros though, in fairness, I had already been "wired" to ejaculate hands-free using dildos and probes to stimulate my prostate. Give me some time alone for a couple of hours or so and it will eventually happen. In fact, so far, the only kinds of orgasms I've been having with Aneros have been ejaculatory.
  • ClenchyClenchy
    Posts: 211

    The HFWO involving the shooting of semen is slightly overrated (IMO).

    I'd agree with that. In terms of pleasure, at least on the scale of an aneros session, it's unremarkable.
    But it's still hot, and I want to be able to do it when ever I want. :-))