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  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 177
    I still think this whole idea of male vocalising hilarious. I've been using the Aneros for well nigh 6 years now and even on the Aneros forum it's a topic that is rarely discussed. Even with men used to using their receptive(feminine) side for multiorgasmic whole body feminine pleasure. It's like despite all this certain gender roles are immutable and it's just 'not done' that males moan. And considering the advantages of moaning in amplifying arousal and orgasm I thought maybe Aneros has to take the lead and show men it's ok to moan and that it's in fact as natural for a man to do when his female side is being stimulated as it is for a woman.

    This is the image I was thinking of: A man and woman are having sex when the woman decides to spice it up a bit and stick a finger up his asshole, the man lets out this very arousing and slutty moan and the woman's mouth just drops wide open. Then you see 10 years later and you hear men all round the world letting out slutty moans using the Aneros. So at the same time it's saying yes this vocalising is ok, soon the whole world will be doing it as it's better to use a prostate massager than a finger.
    Then followed by the Aneros slogan:" Aneros, unleash your inner slut"
  • So vocalizing like a woman makes you a slut? I'm sure that message will go over really well
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
    Posts: 776
    @Ehm --- It may not be talked about, but it doesn't stop me, and many others I suspect! Sounds like a survey is in order!

    TG
  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 177

    @Ehm --- It may not be talked about, but it doesn't stop me, and many others I suspect! Sounds like a survey is in order!

    TG



    What we need is proper soundproofing, I agree with alex that Aneros is best done alone and so is moaning. And for me it would just be awkward doing this with a woman. I don't know it's energy or just convention but I think the man moaning would be awkward for both....But with the Aneros a good moan is akin to a good mantra to get you where you want to go

    It's more about intent Leastinteresting, if I were a woman I'd want to be a slutty woman coz that's what I find arousing. Slutty's good, slutty's liberated. We need soundproofed rooms where Aneros sluts can go when they really want to let go. Like hotels for fucking

    Besides you might call a nice slutty moan sexy or arousing
  • Ehm said:



    What we need is proper soundproofing, I agree with alex that Aneros is best done alone and so is moaning. And for me it would just be awkward doing this with a woman. I don't know it's energy or just convention but I think the man moaning would be awkward for both....But with the Aneros a good moan is akin to a good mantra to get you where you want to go

    It's more about intent Leastinteresting, if I were a woman I'd want to be a slutty woman coz that's what I find arousing. Slutty's good, slutty's liberated. We need soundproofed rooms where Aneros sluts can go when they really want to let go. Like hotels for fucking

    Besides you might call a nice slutty moan sexy or arousing


    WTF man? Chill out, just a simple observation. You are a bit too sensitive
  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 177
    It's ok I understand your reaction, your wife wouldn't want to be called a slut, but I bet she'd arouse you more if she sounded mostslutty.
  • didymusdidymus
    Posts: 101
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  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 177
    I think I'm starting to understand why nobody posts here anymore
  • @Ehm
    This lends credence to what you said regarding over use of the Aneros. It's causing some to become too sensitive. Once their feminine side takes completely over, perhaps they will be more at ease moaning like a slut.
  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 177
    ssshhhh, whenever you say slut they think you're talking about their wife ;)

    Seriously, it's about gender roles. To me when a man and a woman are together, moaning is the women's prerogative, if a man started moaning during sex as well I don't think it would work. Just coz men can be both, a man has to be a man when he's with a woman. And I think that applies to the Aneros as well. It's an amazing blend, but you can't achieve the Super O using your penis coz the focus has to be elsewhere.

    And it's more about privacy, I'm of the opinion that as groups foster a type of groupthink, being with someone else doing intimate things, no matter the trust, love etc, you'll be constricted in your freedom, like with gender roles, to really expres the full range of your sexuality. To me it's selfevident that you need a place that would allow you to experiment with this. For example I have a good idea what type of slutty voice moan turns me on, and how to make this sound myself the way the actrice does or even better. And with proper soundproofing I could get better at making the arousing sound, but who knows to what other purpose sound can be used?

    Like massage is good especially in this day and age, where people are 'touch-starved'
    Civilisation doesn't allow us(men and women btw) this vocalisation need either.
    They say singing is good for you, theres something in vocalising that allows for a combination of breath and frequency, that can make you cum like the ksmo, but I'm sure there's a whole range of possiblities and essential in transmutation of energy.

    But how to soundproof a small area and still be able to breath?
    Imagine a room completely soundproof, no sound coming in or out a type of sensory deprivation as well as sense of ultimate freedom. I think I'd be a creative genius in such a setting




  • Both my wife and I are a hellofa lot louder now that the five kids have all moved out.
  • The ideal woman is Alice Roosevelt in the drawing room, Julia Child in the kitchen, and Rangy Lil in the bedroom.
  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 177
    It's great you can be loud, but it's more a certain quality to a voice, like this, it makes me happy and aroused and it's nice to listen to.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Mz9Xzpt_Jo&list=UUOv14VeTJOkcVtIRFlW6TKQ

    Loudness is more in the stage of coming hard, and it's great you don't mind the sound of that in someone else, for a single like me it's something akin to snoring ;)
  • @Ehm
    She's quite a Milk Maid! The moaning was nice. It contained just a hint of sluttyness! :)>-
  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 177
    This one was more advanced, Jana Cova has a nice one as well, that's easier to imitate, this one's quite hard, but yes...exceedingly slutty
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 629
    This doesn't really sound like a good idea.

    Moaning is involuntary (or I think should be).
  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 177
    I see, so you don't hold back then? You don't have a problem as a man with moaning?

    To me it's almost on par with some of the ostentatious display at a Gay Pride parade.
    If you can be like that, good for you! In fact maybe these guys can show the way....they impress their girlfriends with their slutty moans and soon everyone is doing it.

    Still I think men are generally more restricted in moaning than sticking something up their ass, when female orgasm and moaning are interlinked
  • @Ehm
    He does not realize that moaning like a slut is The Magic Button.
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 629

    @Ehm
    He does not realize that moaning like a slut is The Magic Button.



    Don't forget the Trade Mark!
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 629
    Ehm said:

    I see, so you don't hold back then? You don't have a problem as a man with moaning?



    If I need to be very discreet then I might hold back if I can. Otherwise, why the hell?
    What problem? Moaning, breathing, grunting, whatever... Isn't it normal?
  • Canacan said:

    Ehm said:

    I see, so you don't hold back then? You don't have a problem as a man with moaning?



    If I need to be very discreet then I might hold back if I can. Otherwise, why the hell?
    What problem? Moaning, breathing, grunting, whatever... Isn't it normal?


    Careful @canacan, those 2 like to psychoanalyze everyone elses problems instead of dealing with their own. I will say, having kids in the house, or other locations you have to be quiet can present a fun challenge. Each TRYING to get the other to moan or scream when you know you can't or shouldn't. But alone in a quiet house together does give a bit more freedom to vocalize...
  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 177

    @Ehm
    He does not realize that moaning like a slut is The Magic Button.



    You nailed it!


    Canacan said:



    What problem? Moaning, breathing, grunting, whatever... Isn't it normal?



    Wouldn't you say you make different sounds when you're using your penis, indeed, grunting etc, MALE noices....when you want to give expression to the pleasure you're feeling when you're Super O-ing, you make sounds more like a FEMALE. And I've got nothing against homosexuals, but in society today it's only homosexual males(bottoms)that make those noices.

    And nevermind the using slutty moans as a means of arousal amplification.

    Again I live in a densely populated area, if you live in the middle of nowhere with no neighbours to contend with then you've obviously got nothing to worry about



    Careful @canacan, those 2 like to psychoanalyze everyone elses problems instead of dealing with their own. I will say, having kids in the house, or other locations you have to be quiet can present a fun challenge. Each TRYING to get the other to moan or scream when you know you can't or shouldn't. But alone in a quiet house together does give a bit more freedom to vocalize...



    It's about allowing yourself to let go, yes things can go automatic, but if for whatever reason you can't let go, i.e. give expression to what you're feeling you'll never get the most out of your orgasms. I just breath out hard, but that's holding back. In the past I'd be coming so hard and be so engrossed in the experience that I wouldn't even notice I was moaning like a slut, now I don't allow that to happen, but the orgasms are nowhere near as good either.

  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 629
    Still don't see the problem.

    If allowed to by environment, I naturally produce a whole variety of sounds ranging from very deep to high pitched and many more... These are human sounds. I have no problem with sounding male or female or both or whatever. Just relax and enjoy!
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 629
    @MostInteresting1 I can totally relate. ;-)
  • @Ehm
    Riddle me this...If certain ones can discuss stimulating their bungs with other men (at length and ad nauseum), why do they have a problem moaning like a slut? Why do they have issues with their feminine side?
  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 177
    Nothing complicated about it, internet is public but it's anonymous so really it's private and since sound carries what you do in private becomes public.
    But essentially you can't have problems with moaning like a slut and experiencing female orgasms coz they feed on each other.
    And you wouldn't moan like a slut when you're using your penis. So that's really what it's about, men exploring their feminine side is still very taboo and when you're moaning like a slut that's what you must be doing.

    Or perhaps I should inform my neighbours of my intention:"from 16:00-4:00 on...I'll be moaning like a slut, just to let you know, so you won't be too perturbed by it"
  • @Ehm
    Perhaps their feminine side is throwing them into chaos. Perhaps their masculine side is throwing them into chaos. Hence they have no balance. Maybe they would fare better if they bellowed a series of slutty moans.
    This could perhaps bring them some equilibrium.
  • EhmEhm
    Posts: 177
    I doubt it, but I'm sure they'd smile more and then they might not need to act bitchy all the time. Anyway I'm not really sure if I'm ready yet to hear men moaning like sluts either or family etc for that matter.
    I do think it's probably important that people have some privacy so theyre free from social control.
    Unabashed sluttiness every once in a while would definitely make better people