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Thoughts/Questions after two sessions
  • okronokron
    Posts: 2
    Received my order of a Peridise and Helix Syn two days ago and on night one I inserted the Peridise using a scoop of shea butter in my anus and some wrapped around the Peridise....it was a little uncomfortable but nothing painful and nothing much happened after 45 minutes and I pulled the plug.

    Using a large shake straw I pushed shea butter into the straw and froze it overnight and then the next morning pushed it out and cut it into maybe 3/4 to 1 inch bullets.  I used one of these last night and put some coconut oil on the Helix and tried out session #2.  I tried to breath some but after about 20 minutes of trying different things I just decided to do nothing and see what happened.  After a little while I had some fun little contractions where my rectum was doing the work for me....nothing mind blowing but it was confirmation that these things have potential.  While oh so brief I even had one maybe three second session where I had a light/floating feeling.  I had gone #1 before I started but I kept feeling the "need to pee" and so I told myself not to worry and let it ride...well after some time of nothing going on I decided I should try to pee...wow, I pee'd like a race horse!  

    I left it in for several more hours as I fell asleep and took it out later in the night with nothing else going on.

    I"m in reasonable good shape, mid-50s but have had a few bouts of BPH and less than desirable erections over the last few years.

    Q)Assuming I get lucky tonight with the wife any concerns (since it's just day3) using it during PIV (she knows I was interested in aneros but doesn't know I have one yet...was going to see how I performed before telling her)

    Q)What was the urination deal?
  • Personally, I don't like the shea butter by itself, but others like it. Just starting out, you are fine with standard water based lubes, especially for 1-2 hour sessions. I do something similar with coconut oil. I will chill it in large soda straws and pinch off a 1/2" section for use in my sessions. If it was uncomfortable inserting the Peridise, pre-lube your anus and rectum with standard water--based lube as well as putting some on the device.

    Just wait until you let your wife use the Peridise in her butt while you are using the Helix in yours, you are in for the ride of your life!

    If you feel the need to pee, you know you are stimulating your prostate!
  • @okron
    If you feel the urge to urinate, you could be about to squirt. This puts you somewhat ahead of the learning curve.
  • okronokron
    Posts: 2
    Mostinteresting.... it wasn't the inserting of the Peridise that was uncomfortable it was after it was in for a while.  I'm guessing that my attempt to push in lubricant just didn't get enough in....now that I have some cold bullets to use I think my next session should be more comfortable.

    Pspot....sounds a little messy
  • @okron
    It's not messy! Get a Liberator Throe, it will keep your sheets dry. Don't unnecessarily stress yourself over lubricant. Vaseline works well, as does castor oil.
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,162
    @Pspotsquirter, I wouldn't recommend talking to newbs about "squirting" if this is something that is even real.  I have never seen any evidence of this taking place.  If your going to recommend advice its best to stick with the basics as outlined by Mr. Mayfield.  Talking to newbies about advanced techiniques and things that may or may not be true, or even obtainable will only confuse.  No offense.  The wiki is the tried and true methods to this and its best to stick with it when advising IMO.  If you want to discuss your thoughts on squirting please do so, but again talking to a newbie will only confuse, my two cents  ;)
  • @ineverknew
    I was not addressing you. You more than likely don't squirt. You should monitor and police the advice you administer, and no one else's advice.
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,162
    @Pspotsquirter, I'll remember that next time, thanks!  Question though, how does one know if they are going to urinate or squirt if they both produce the feeling to urinate?  
  • @ineverknew
    If one is properly re-wired and has balance, one then knows the difference.