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Can she make it better?
  • anonimanonim
    Posts: 2
    After reading so many stories of how good this toy is, I would love to get one for my husband. I was wondering in anyone here can recommend me what to start with? I did try the plug for him and it was nice, but I haven't seen anything similar in the Netherlands like aneros...or maybe I didn't look right.

    Also, as a wife willing to get involved in anything that can get my husband best orgasms do you have any advice for me?  Do you think using the flesh-light in the same time will be a good combination? Or the real think will do a better job?

    Thank you.
  • AneRicoAneRico
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  • isvaraisvara
    Posts: 1,035
    Welcome @anonim,
    Language may be a challenge. Here are my thoughts. Using a helix SYN should make the normal organisms stronger as it put pressure on the prostate and other erotic areas.
    Usually using an Aneros expands the whole world of orgasms. The one most folk desire is the prostate orgasm which usually does not involve the penis. The prostate orgasm sort of equates with a female whole body continuous orgasm with no traditional ejaculation.
    What sort of orgasm are you wanting for your husband and does he want a better orgasm?

    Here some recent experiences we've had as a couple using the aneros. You will greatly enhance his experience no doubt! Have fun!
  • This is a duplicate post of "Can she make it better?" See that post for my reply...
  • anonimanonim
    Posts: 2
    And thank you all for your reply.

    @istvara, he never mentioned he wants something better. I recently added deep-throat to our repertoire and he really likes it. We practice anal sex too. Then, from website to website I end it up reeding about aneros and I figure it why not?!
    If is something out there so amazing, is ashame not to give it a try. I just want to do it right :)

    @Mostinteresting1 your experience is very helpful, thanks a lot :)

    PS: sorry about my double post, I didn't see aneros already post it. I thought it got deleted.

  • It helps if he can have some quiet time with the Aneros before you join him. It is much easier to concentrate when he is not being distracted :)

    When you join him, help him concentrate away from his penis, that will bring on more mini and super-o's, once he starts experiencing them, deep-throat will cause him to continuously dry orgasm, you can eventually bring on a standard O. It is an absolutely amazing feeling. He is VERY lucky to have you help him experience it!

    And make him buy you a Tempo, if he doesn't steal it from you, no sense in him having all the fun!
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,484
    Hi @anonim, Ciao!

    Welcome to the Aneros Forums, your best source of information for learning about the multiple benefits and joys of using the Aneros prostate massagers. It is wonderful when a wife joins us here in her quest to provide happiness and pleasure to her husband, I believe we all applaud your adventurous spirit in initiating this journey of sensual discovery. I sent you an introductory conversation with some additional hints and tips to get the both of you started here. That pre-written text is intentionally addressed to males but hopefully you will convey this information to your husband. Please note the Aneros line-up of massage devices also includes the unisex Peridise & TEMPO models, you might wish to entertain yourself with these deceptively simple, yet highly pleasurable, little devices - see A Woman in "Peridise" by 'lynn2694'. Also, I would be remiss if I did not make you aware of the Aneros device designed specifically for women the EVI. There's absolutely no reason you can't be having your fun stimulation while playing with your husband as well.
    anonim said:

    I was wondering in anyone here can recommend me what to start with?

    In regards to choosing a first Aneros model, I recommend that you first read the following : The Best Aneros model is...
    anonim said:

    Also, as a wife willing to get involved in anything that can get my husband best orgasms do you have any advice for me?

    Yes, please have the both of you read the Aneros WIKI, it is the foundation information departure point for your Aneros journey.
    anonim said:

    Do you think using the flesh-light in the same time will be a good combination? Or the real think will do a better job?

    IMHO, while using a 'Fleshlight' may produce some intense orgasmic events for your husband, these Super-T's may impede his progress toward achieving a Super-O. On the situation of him using the Aneros during intercourse, I think it would be best if he developed some knowledge and skills with this new device without the added stimulation of a loving vagina on his penis, that doesn't mean you shouldn't be a participant. Your husband's initial prostate awakening needs to occur without excessive penile stimulation for good neural pathways to become established, this is what we term "rewiring" here. Once a man is rewired to a certain extent, all manner of sensual stimulation becomes available to him, including Aneros use during intercourse.
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  • vermarvermar
    Posts: 4
    you can buy all Aneros products at in the Netherlands...
  • vermarvermar
    Posts: 4
    or Mister Mitch...
  • AkiraAkira
    Posts: 33
    I'm from the Netherlands but got my toy's from je UK...
  • devajonesdevajones
    Posts: 170
    @anonim Hello and welcome to this community!  We need more women like you around here!!!  Congratulations on being smart enough and loving enough to want your husband to experience a more well rounded orgasmic experience.  I second what @MostInteresting1 said...his stories give a great place to start when incorporating Aneros into your bedroom.  Great ideas in those stories.  

    I have had sex with my husband with his Aneros inserted he enjoyed it quite a bit.  However, we dont do that much as when using Aneros we'd like to stay more prostate minded instead of pens minded.  I mean men have played with their penis their whole lives...they know whats thats like right??? The prostate is a whole other ball game.  His penis doesnt get neglected...but when its Aneros time...we stay away from it so he can concentrate on the wonderful sensations he gets from Aneros.  Now to answer your question can you add to it? In my opinion yes.  Please read my response in the thread Does anyone have tips for couples?? My girlfriend wants to get involved, and see me Super O!
  • @devajones That is a great post, you are a special woman!