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Prostate 'shutting down'
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 933
    Ok i feel i am closer to understanding what my body is communicating after some time away and some reflection.

    In my most successful sessions i found that doing nothing ONLY when the prostate is sensitive enough is all you need to do. Ive not felt that sensitivity until I've had a week or so of smaller sessions that result in little no little feeling, which sometimes builds enough over the period to be receptive to this technique.

    If i move the device, contract in any way that is considered 'harsh' and by 'harsh' i mean anything greater than a 20% contraction (!) it causes the prostate to feel immediate 'warmth' and some form of pleasure, after this however it ends abruptly and it 'shuts down' totally. I am often then left with nice feelings afterward (post session). This occurs very often 10 mins into my sessions, like clockwork.

    Sometimes hours later i get different feelings than in session just while I'm sitting doing nothing/working, which nice but is almost like a "hey I'm no longer numb now and awake again" response.

    It seems i need subtly unlike the levels before discussed here but there is a duality to the experience that does not add up as i have mentioned;

    - prostate needs to be fully awakened or fully sensitive for the do nothing approach to work, i guess I'm just not fully rewired/awakened for this to work often enough. (or had multiple smaller sessions to get it 'ready' for the one session where it recognises sensation)

    - if i use micro movements, gently tensing and holding i get instant results, not mind blowing but still, results. This though invariably ends the session.

    - doing nothing while not having a fully sensitive prostate results in nothing happening (or rather feelings at the start of a session which are nice but never 'build' into anything)

    - i have noticed out of session, less sensation in my prostate which is something i would always have over the last few weeks, even in spite of my session frequency being the same, i not sure what this means exactly

    I wonder how true this is for others on their journeys? perhaps this will enlighten or help others here having similar experiences?
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 479
    All you describe is not unusual to me.

    The full "letting go" that leads to the best orgams only works when there is something to let go.
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 933
    yes i can understand what you mean (now) Canacan! 

    Its like i need to 'tune in' or maybe awaken fully before i can actually let the device work on me as opposed to me manipulating it. That is the barrier i have and possibly have always had (or rather two of them)

    1. i need subtlety, REAL subtle
    2. awakening of prostate, i thought it was but i now realise its not quite there yet!

    Once i have found a way to awaken it fully i feel my sessions will just be me doing nothing and focusing with my mind. Its the bit in-between I'm struggling with!

    What helps to 'let go' whilst at the same time allows me to progress and awaken the sensitivity in my prostate like i experienced before? I think the answer is to have more frequent (daily sessions) of doing nothing for a max time of say 1 hr 'relaxation' and do this until i can feel sensation again. Once this happens i can then try alternative techniques and focusing etc.

    Unless those that have been here know something else that is more advisable that works?
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 933
    i decided to test this theory today, i had a half hour session, focused and didn't tense or contract once.

    Even actively stopping myself when it felt like i needed to. Had some pretty decent feelings and the session had less 'downs' than usual. Im more aware of my prostate again as i type this. Will try again later and every day this week and see what happens.
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 479
    As of now, my prostate doesn't stay awake for more than a few days in a row. And actually, however powerless i feel when it is dormant, I prefer it like that at least for now. I wouldn't know how to deal with it being energized 24/7.

    I have no method guaranteed to work. Everything changes all the time. I am still experimenting and trying to find my marks.
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 933
    Ok i decided to try the theory once more today. Interesting. This is what i observed/did:

    - Got to a level of pleasure very quickly
    - do nothing no matter what
    - focus on moving the device with my 'mind'
    - imagine inside my body and aneros moving 
    - prostate began to swell of its own accord as if excited and THIS action of the swelling moved the aneros

    The was a point several times that it reached a height of amzingness that i felt i was going to pop, i did nothing to encourage this, in fact i 'let go' i.e. become as relaxed as you can possibly get and i felt shard of something heavenly there, fleeting once again.

    Super erections are back as well, without control.

    This was my second best session of my entire life, thus far. Felt like i could have a dry orgasm, don't know why just felt like i could. Having some intense warmth and pwaves post session as well. nice.
  • TreiTrei
    Posts: 246
    !Yay! I'm so happy for you @inhope
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 933
    Dont be happy for me just yet, it could all be different next time i try this out, it could just be the variation thats making me progress here., don't want to label it as successful yet.

    Will try again tomorrow potentially and see where it goes.
  • CanacanCanacan
    Posts: 479
    Seems like a good path to me. Of course this journey is a permanent transformation, so don't be surprised it works only for a time. But to me this is moving forward in term of understanding, mindset and body control.
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 933
    Thats true Canacan, but what of those people here that will say the opposite and experience the opposite? they seem to outnumber those that don't. I know there is no magic formula for this but jeese....
  • ClenchyClenchy
    Posts: 174
    inhope said:

    - prostate began to swell of its own accord as if excited and THIS action of the swelling moved the aneros


    I don't know if this is the same thing, but I often feel as though the prostate is pushing itself against the aneros, rather than the aneros pushing the prostate. These are the most pleasurable kind of twitches/throbs.
    inhope said:

    didn't tense or contract once.

    Even actively stopping myself when it felt like i needed to.

    I can definitely relate to that, my most intense session to date was very intentionally hands-off. I posted a blog on it the following day. https://www.aneros.com/display-entry/?id=1792
    I haven't been able to repeat it though, at least not with the same intensity. I've fallen back to my old bad habits too. I hoped to capture the mindset I had that lead to that orgasm, so I could go back to it, but there are so many hidden variables.