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Thoughts on contractions?
  • G-ForceG-Force
    Posts: 60
    I just had to make my first post after I had my best session ever today.

    I will try to summarize as much as possible, as not to bore everyone.

    I have usually found that after an hour or two, my sessions end if heavy contractions get going.  I have always wondered, "are my contractions too intense?" or, not intense enough?  Although my contractions felt great, they were never over the edge great.  I have always been a believer in the "Do nothing approach", so I just chalked it up to things being pretty much finished once heavy contractions took over. 

    Today I tried something different.  My sessions have been steadily getting better everyday now for the last three months, so I knew there was more.  It was almost like I made a deal with myself.....Resist the urge to contract at all cost!  To clarify, I'm referring to the big ones.

    With all my might, I resisted and it started to go where I had never been before.  At the point where I didn't think I could take it anymore, I just remembered all the great advice... Relax,Relax,Relax.  The urge would pass and my Helix Syn would start to pulse harder, until the next time I thought I was going to give in again.  Every time I held off a contraction the next build up felt better than the one before.  In the middle of pulsing away, I had a very warm shooting sensation across my upper thigh that was a new sensation.  My anal area was quaking.  I felt energy flowing all over and trying to escape out of the tips of my ears and eyebrows.  I experienced many other thoughts and feelings everyone has described in Super O experiences. 

    Eventually after an hour or so of this roller coaster ride, I gave in to the contractions.  This brought on a different set of O's that were better than usual.

    I have left out many details, as I'm sure most of you have heard them before.  But, I am left with with a couple questions now!

    1.  Have I just not understood contractions after all these years?  I thought they were involuntary, but how could they be if I was able to suppress them?  

    2.  I have read all the posts here for years so it's not like I need to read the Wiki again.....Is the inner quaking and aneros pulsing what some refer to as contractions?

    I am obviously not complaining about where my journey has taken me, but would greatly appreciate any input on my experience.  I know many of you have such great advice to offer, but I have never felt worthy enough to ask.  :)
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,135
    @G-Force, its sounds like you were just interrupting the involuntaries or suppressing them with a slight contraction to the point where you were maybe teasing your prostate into something bigger.  The involuntaries are caused by fluttering muscles, you can stop them by flexing the muscle in this case the PC muscle and anal sphincters.  When most people talk about "contractions" they are referring to squeezing and holding the muscle whether it be the PC muscle or anal sphincters, together or separately.  By holding these contractions at varying degree of intensity and length, this will bring on the involuntaries where the muscles flutter away rythmically on their own.  I do the do nothing technique and the involuntaries start on their own right from the get go, I don't need to do any contractions.
  • G-ForceG-Force
    Posts: 60
    Thanks, but I'm not sure I relayed my experience quite right. I didn't hold any contractions. I tried not to even let involuntaries happen if that makes any sense.  While being totally relaxed, I tried in my mind only, to not let anything happen but let the good feeling pour over me.  I am having a difficult time explaining myself,....It sounds like a text book scenario, but I still think it is different.  More of a mind over matter kind of thing that allows me to stay at a heightened state for longer than usual.  Any other thoughts?
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,135
    @G-Force, well maybe we have misunderstood each other.  The mind is very powerful and one of the best orgasm generators we have!  I say if it works, then keep on going with it  :)
  • G-ForceG-Force
    Posts: 60
    Thanks again for your comments ineverknew! You are correct...What am I worried about?
    I guess I just wanted to share my experience because I thought it might be something slightly different, but at the same time maybe what others have felt. Due to this being a milestone for me, I felt compelled to share my experience with everyone. This is the first time I have posted, and never thought I would. I read your posts and all the other great ones contantly. I would not be where I am now without all that geat information. I finally feel that I have a little something to give back!
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,135
    @G-Force, well thanks for posting.  Feel free to post more in the future, its how we learn, from each other, how each of us do things differently or even just sharing what did happen.   ;)