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Closer to the edge... (an exciting time)
  • inhopeinhope
    Posts: 939
    OK sorry to make so many threads but i feel its the best way for me to get updates across and get some new insights more visibly. There are some questions in bold below, if you can help please do!

    So i had 3 sessions yesterday (just thought i would try up the frequency while I'm rewiring -its bee 4 years so I'm not exactly a 'noob' but still, no orgasm yet so perhaps i am!)

    First session (early afternoon)
    Some nice feelings, using the SGX for now, normal lube and lying on left side works best for me. The device doesn't move much on its own, but i decide to do the do nothing approach. I get 3-4 nice bits in the 90 minute session that feels like a build up, i get it in my penis, ass and prostate (the latter i assume is right because i can't ever really identify what that is exactly, sorta feels tingly and cold but almost not a physical sensation, more like 'butterflies' if you get me?)

    Second session (early evening)
    Some really nice feelings here, after the first session i was getting echo feelings (when doing nothing) which, for me, involves my prostate and muscles around it dancing, really high speed movements like its almost overstimulted, i notice this most when i put my legs/ass cheeks close together. Did some mild tensing (I've discovered for me that MICRO, TINY movements, in quick succession yields results), this usually means i get a build up and as i do my dick gets super hard, soon as it hits its hardest the feelings kinda level and and stop (from the micromovements) at one point i felt like i was almost gonna come, through my dick but not like a normal orgasm.

    Third Session (VERY late when I'm in bed)
    Ok i was ready to sleep when i started getting really warm and nice pleasurable feelings in my prostate but more noticeably in my penis, its something like what its like when i orgasm normally, but this felt continuos like perhaps a super O with the volume turned right down. Here is the thing though: no aneros involved. When i added the aneros, the feelings i describe above disappear and are replaced with other feelings, very nice but very different. After a while i had to go to sleep.

    Fourth session (the next day, late morning -about 15 mins ago actually)
    Session yielded nothing much at all, i only got feelings when i did the micro movements again, but they soon stop once the erection kicks in. trmbling/shaking (which usually ruins concentration and feelings) but nothing else. So i then remove the device, shower and then go do some work. I now have the same penile-almost orgasmic feeling (but nowhere near as good) whilst i type this. ALWAYS when out of session, again i feel that for me the aneros devices are preventing me from feeling subtle sensations as they fill me too much.


    One or two users in the "My first super O" thread seem to be like me:

    "MOVEMENT OF THE ANEROS are all secondary factors in producing the Super O. Yep that’s right, all those contractions etc. are NOT causing the SUPER O !!!! All these do is WARM up / Sensitize the Prostate ..... the actual SUPER O energy waves are caused by ............. (drum roll) ............ doing NOTHING but keeping the abutment tab centered, and pressured on the G spot. The key is that the G spot must be pressed continually and DEEPLY (without movement) !"

    Another guy who had the same positions/device and such which was nice to read (can't find him now, however he found the super o within a month, its 4 years for me here)

    One thing i would like to say though is this; its really fun/nice these feelings, its a little bit frustrating because there are times I'm so close to an orgasm (not a super o most likely but something) and then it fades quickly. This leaves me SUPER horney, and I mean SUPER! can you all understand now why i would end with a traditional orgasm? i get so horny and the prostate so awake that i can come just by tensing my legs a little! its very frustrating!! there are also occasions (two so far) where I've had pwaves or maybe mini-o's for an ENTIRE day, which after a time become a distraction, but wonderful nonetheless.

    An interesting point, I've found myself using porn again when I'm getting bored when there is nothing happening or focus drifts off... but not the usual stuff, i like to watch other guys using the aneros imagining what they are feeling whilst they super O, this helps sometimes I've found.

    Ive seen this thread as well, another guy that was going for 4 years as well managed to get to a super O so there is hope yet :-)


    Some questions that might help me out (always appreciated!)

    - A build up to 'something' or a feeling of coldness, not a physical sensation, more like 'butterflies' if you get me in the prostate area, a tingling but not like normal tingling...? do this description look familiar to anyone?

    - It got me thinking and wondering if I'm doing it right, not getting the prostate working as such but somehow going over that step and getting anal orgasming instead? not sure i get the difference...? interesting. 

    - Super T's for me don't happen like they should, the opposite happens actually. Ive had orgasms with the aneros in and I've ejaculated but had NO orgasm pleasure!! its stifled to the max. I am wondering if this is the same here, hence why out of session i get better results? I have ordered the peridise so we will see how that changes things.

    - When i get (p waves i guess?) out of session, it feels like i could cum, amazing it would be as well. But i can't, this is the odd thing while i have these waves/mino's? i can imagine or visualise what a super O feels like, how intense it is, where it builds and what it feels like. Yet I've never had one! but i could swear Ive experienced one in another life (lol) or some sort of psychic future echo or something, it feels like I know. This ring true for anyone else? I feel so full of orgasmic energy right now, feels so amazing!

    - I don't get what will change for it all of a sudden to start working or making super O's. (i don't get why it takes time for anyone really) why do they start after many months or years? is there some barrier or reshaping of my ass going on in there...?

    - I would love to hear how you guys visualise/how you set the scene and what you do to get you aroused for a session, do you use porn too or...?

    - I f**king love being male! (not a question i realise) :-)
  • ineverknewineverknew
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    @inhope, i went through a period when my aneroless sessions were better then when I had a device in.  Mostly when up north camping.  The wife and kids would go off and do something and I would just lay down and enjoy the summer breeze and the pleasure would kick in a little.  I would just enjoy them and concentrate on them and they sometimes would start to ramp up and feel really good.  Sometimes I have gotten dry O's and mini O's.  Those dont happen as much anymore for some reason, maybe the lack of time.  Have you ever tried this?  I know its a strange concept.

    Also when you are having a session and doing the do nothing technique are you making sure your not tensing up at all as the pleasure comes?  This is difficult for me because my first reaction to the pleasure is to tense up even if im not sure I'm doing it, so I have to constantly make sure I'm relaxing.  Think about this next time the pleasure comes and go through a sort of checklist, checking your legs, anal muscles, stomach muscles, making sure they are completely relaxed.
  • inhopeinhope
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    @ineverknew When i do the 'do nothing approach' i do not tense, not at all and it gets me the best results but it kinda takes 3 solid consecutive sessions in the same day before its good enough to be called 'nice' but the third session I'm getting some minor p waves or mini os (don't know the difference sorry) and some of my best results when i remove the device and an hour later... i get the weak pseudo orgasm penis thing. :-D

    Ok so I'm doing the 'do nothing approach' and the feelings build. Now what?

    Usually it just tails off unless i look at porn or something, or if i then do some micro movements it kicks things off again a little but it pretty much means its over. Don't get me wrong, its lovely the feelings i get, but its kinda like 'right I'm here, its gonna last 5 mins and then vanish so what do i do now?'

    Nipples dont do a thing for me (though they did years ago?) 

    I kinda need a bit of guidance as to know what to do next when things tail off, nothing seems to take over. I do get tingling throughout the session, more of an awareness of my prostate etc (so ticking the boxes on the aneros wiki milestones)

    Oh yes! important: when I'm actively doing the 'do nothing approach' my prostate/muscles (i think its more the muscles though) go into a sort of 'spasm' and its like it should be pleasurable, but its not giving me pleasure but it feels so active and like its dancing that it should be producing something? or not? if i close my legs this increases the rate/size of the spasms.

    One thing i am VERY concerned with is doing something wrong or rather wiring myself badly in some way so that i can never super o or perhaps just get a traditional orgasm when i use an aneros, which i don't want to happen, I've ejaculated enough over the years!
  • ineverknewineverknew
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    @inhope, I think your disregarding those small pleasureable feelings.  those are the key.  You need to appreciate them more and they will build with time.  Unfortunately it's going to take time for these to develop into something more.  Disregarding them in search of an instantaneous super O will not get you there.  the super O is kinda elusive so to say.  It will only happen when you least expect it, same with dry O's in my experience.  If the feelings taper off, then I would suggest to just end the session and come back later or another day, no need to lay around hoping for something to come back, since you've said they usually dont.  And especially dont end with a traditional orgasm, bad for rewiring.
  • ineverknewineverknew
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    also instead of watching porn, this is what i do.  I have a favorite tumblr page which is onlyinheels.tumblr.com.  To watch the pictures without using my laptop, you can go to tumbview.com and enter the tumblr address page and then you can adjust how long each picture is viewable in the top left corner under seconds.  this way the pictures plays like a slideshow.  I even put them on my big screen using chromecast alot of times.  This helps me, and not as distracting as porn can be.
  • inhopeinhope
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    No that's not what I meant, the nice small feelings are amazing, I love them! But they STOP and in their place I get nothing at all i loose feeling totally after 10 mins, so you're saying have 10 min sessions then stop?

    Re: pics, do you view these while in a session or before?
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
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    inhope said:

    No that's not what I meant, the nice small feelings are amazing, I love them! But they STOP and in their place I get nothing at all i loose feeling totally after 10 mins, so you're saying have 10 min sessions then stop?

    Re: pics, do you view these while in a session or before?





    I would say yes...have a 10 min session, and then take a day off completely, and then, if your good feelings go for 11 or 12 minutes the next time...follow the lead and have sessions every other day for a while and see what happens!

    TG
  • inhopeinhope
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    @theme_gasm do you use pics during sessions?
  • ineverknewineverknew
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    @inhope, I would agree with @Theme_Gasm, if your only getting pleasure in the first 10 minutes and nothing afterwards, then yeah quit.  No sense in wasting time.  The pics are playing all the time during a session, but I dont always pay attention to them, mostly just in the beginning of a session and then if things slow down or nothing is happening.  Thats just what works for me though, everyone has their own thing.
  • inhopeinhope
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    Well @theme_gasm @ineverknew i just had my latest session, 'do nothing' again this time I got nowhere. After an hour I was about to give up and just before I did I decided to take the device in, to tense with it at 25% power and do this for around 30 sec a time.

    I got the biggest erection I've ever had and lovely feelings in both penis and prostate, the prostate was also feeling very hot/warm and 'burning' in a good way when i did this.

    After the 5th one of these no more clenching would work at all, do nothing approach wasn't working either, so end of session. A good one after all! I've Got minor 'butterflies' in my prostate at the moment :-) great time, well, the last 10 mins were!

    This is all going in the right direction yeah?
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
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    I've been decreasing my use of porn and I've gotten good results. So, yes I do view it, but not always.

    YES, right direction! Only continue if you're having good sessions!

    So, some light contractions sound like what works for you! Keep experimenting with various levels and be patient! Those butterflies are a VERY good sign that your prostate is receptive to stimulation! Nurture these sensations...they are indicative of future potential!

    I also recommend you use personally reinforcing language whenever you can to reinforce the positive and limit the negative! This is very much about a state of mind than anything else!

    TG
  • inhopeinhope
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    I'm far more positive now I'm finding my ground with the aneros, however I need to understand things or Change things accordingly to get further along my path. My bladder was also full during this session, so it may of been helping things along, or hindering?

    Last night I found that the contraction needed to be in conjunction with being very turned on so ;

    Very turned on + porn + tensing

    It created different feelings than usual, I wonder if it's better to do tensing and THEN do nothing see what happens, but I dont think that I was in the right frame of mind for a session.

    Do nothing approach made me feel more Ina subtle, penis/ass and mini o type way, minor tensing (which stopped working, just like when I would tense too much in the past) created more direct noticeable physical sensation in the prostate area. Warm/hot/nice but would ultimately kill the session.

    Trying to find the best method or combo of methods that works for me, exciting times!
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
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    :)
  • inhopeinhope
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    Hmm not sure what to make of this....

    Just had a session and stopped after 10 mins had about 30 secs of something nice (do nothing approach), now some 3 hours later I'm getting 'cold heat' in my pstate but it doesn't feel pleasurable.....? It reminds me of toothpaste when you get it on your skin!

    Should I be worried? Subsided after an hour.

    I used the same lube I've always used and device was clean before use.
  • inhopeinhope
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    @ineverknew tumbview doesn't work,,just says no more images found? What URL you putting in?
  • ineverknewineverknew
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    tumbview.com  then you put in the address of the tumblr page minus(.tumblr.com)  If it says no more images then maybe there werent many images on the page.  I use tumblr sites that have lots and lots of photos.  The one I like is onlyinheels.tumblr.com.  So when you get to tumbview, you simply input (onlyinheels) with no spaces.  It has to be identical to the address.
  • inhopeinhope
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    But each time it plays from the start, images I've already seen, must be a way to view new ones using the site? Any more tumblrs you use besides that one?
  • ineverknewineverknew
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    yeah unfortunately it does start over from the beginning everytime but there are tons and tons of different tumblr sites.  Just search whatever you like and it should bring up lots of similar pages.  for example search "hot bikini babes pics tumblr"  and that will bring up lots of pages with bikini babes.  I dont have any other tumblrs that i use, sorry.
  • inhopeinhope
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    No worries, thanks dude.
  • inhopeinhope
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    Wow so a few hours after my session I'm sitting here with the most amazing 'heat' and warmth in my prostate you can imagine. 

    P-Waves or mini-o's i don't know (i don't get the difference? meh) but it feels like a lit match inside me on my prostate, this is GOOD. Ive had this twice before, not sure how i did it before but think i know now. It feels like I'm cuming a little but not as intense (just a hint of 'gasm)

    Its lasting ages! wow nice. Such a contrast to yesterday!
  • ineverknewineverknew
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    Cool!!!  or should i say HOT? lol  Either way its a good sign, anything is a good sign.  Just enjoy what your are feeling and have no expectations of anything else happening.  If you have another session today or tomorrow and nothing happens, don't get upset, just remember fondly what HAS happened.  Trust me there are going to be more duds then successes but you need to ENJOY and remember what has happened in the past.  Leave your frustrations of the past at the door when you have your sessions.  
  • inhopeinhope
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    Oh i am enjoying alright, once again though its not slowing in any way, man! its going to be hard to sleep! another session or not, that is the question! Seems really more noticeable when sitting.

    So ive ordered a pile relief cushion so i can sit down whilst in session, if this good without an aneros....  
     :-)
  • ineverknewineverknew
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    This was brought on with your SGX?  I take it you didnt have the same feelings that caused your HFWO?
  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
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    @inhope --- Keep that thought..."not sure how I did it"...because you will experience these AMAZING sensations off and on, higher and lower, stronger and softer over the days, weeks and months of your journey...and it's ALL good...stay positive my friend, and try not to worry so much!

    I believe it's not the destination we seek...rather it's the journey...accentuated by moments of highs and lows, occasional disappointments, and the return of successes! Accept your journey for what it becomes!

    TG
  • inhopeinhope
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    @ineverknew This was brought on by my SGX yes. Correct i didn't, but yesterday i didn't have an aneros with me so i had an aneros less session (my first) i got a build up, i suppose like a build up to orgasm (though it felt VERY different to a penile build up) this feeling requires me to do nothing, just sitting here not even aroused at all, though the feeling itself is arousing.

    This SGX based session i did this:

    1. did micro tiny movements, on my back legs bent (like take in and release, take in release, quickly)
    2. focused on my prostate and what it feels like
    3. occasionally taking in and holding for a few seconds and releasing
    4. never take in with more than 50% power, its more low level subtlety
    5. try to actively stop myself getting an erection (tough this!) and focus again on prostate when i would get an erection, of which i got 7 or 8

    I have to say though, this feeling is 10x more intense than when i was actually in session (not complaining)

    @theme_gasm i agree, i do feel though that some of us experience more lows than highs and also a sort of prostate schizophrenia and other random things going on not documented. I hope i was helping to map that part of the population that experience what i do (though I seem to be the first haha) occasional disappointments is cool with me, but constant ones are not.

    Im going to expand on what caused this session on future ones and see where it leads, though i must stress this feeling has happened hours after my session and only whilst sitting. Chairgasms? :-)


  • ineverknewineverknew
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    Yup, just focus on what works and the feelings.  My prostate is always doing something when I'm sitting, always, unless i'm focused on something else.  You get used to it.  
  • inhopeinhope
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    its quite the distraction! pleasantly so of course. I really yearn for the day when i can feel a dry O and look down and there is no cum! but until then... this will do :-D do you find whilst getting this wonderful heat feelings @ineverknew that if you have another session (typically cis you're horny from it, believe me I'm shaking with desire here!) often helps to get an O?
  • Alex_xxxAlex_xxx
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    Well.. How the sensory system down there makes this journey different for each person. The fibers and nerves are not positioned the same way in two individuals. Unlike the dick, where everyone have the nerve bundle in the head of the penis.
  • ineverknewineverknew
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    @inhope, not sure, i dont think i've ever had two sessions in one day, so dunno.  Though i will say, for me at least, when ever i'm the horniest its usually not a very good session, could be because maybe I want it too badly.  I usually have my best sessions when i'm not expecting it.  Actually I usually have the best sessions when I'm least expecting it also.  Figure that one out LOL