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  • BigOluverBigOluver
    Posts: 255
    my sex drive is going through the roof. I can't control it. Before Aneros i was this nice and just calm person. Now i'm a maniac and its all coming from my prostate. My whole body is different now. I now sleep naked. I can't have a t-shirt or tank top over my nipples because of the stirring i do in my sleep causes major sensations and brings on big orgasms. My prostate gets upset with me when I don't sleep with my helix. Im rewiring a lot. I can get involuntaries in my belly by just breathing slowing. You all have seen my video's you know how intense they become. I'm a changed man for ever. I love the feeling. I have had countless HFWO from skyping and chatting with you guys. I have eve lead sessions in the chat. I love this feeling. Its like a phoenix in me has arisen. But it keep rising. Will I ever be the same again. I need feed back from my brothers. is there no going back. 
  • BigGlansDCBigGlansDC
    Posts: 915
    Hi @BigOluver,

    Yes, you can will yourself to regain control of yourself. I recommend that you take some days off from the Aneros. Perhaps even a week of downtime will help you greatly.

    Take care,

  • GilmanGilman
    Posts: 125
    Since you asked this question, you may be concerned you are over using your Aneros. It is easy for people to become obsessed or abuse pleasurable things, such as alcohol, drugs, sex, porn and yes, even the aneros.

    I would suggest you examine your life and determine if you are altering your normal activities or relationships with others because of the aneros use. Is your aneros use having a negative impact? Is it affecting school or work? These are signs.

    You may need limit use to certain days of the week or hours of the day.

    I recently posted a question asking how people stop using the aneros when they have time to use it at will. I am self-limited by life pressures but wonder what I would do if I had all the free time I wanted. I can relate to your finding yourself engaging in these very self satisfying actions as I tend to have an addictive personality.

    Good luck.
  • braveneworldbraveneworld
    Posts: 1,101
    @bigoluver I have been there too buddy. It will sort itself out with time.
    In my blog I think it was a entry called aneros orgie that is when it came to a head for me.
    I had a discussion about it too.

  • diemdiem
    Posts: 36
    It's like anything you like - you have to give time for other things too. The best would be to stop for a certain amount of time. It will allow you to settle down. Block anything that keep you thinking at your problem think at what you enjoy doing beside that. Something you can do to burn all that negative energy and turn it into something positive.

    I think the best way to settle down is in the nature. You can forget anything about your live that bother you as you walk in the forest listening to the wind, contemplating everything around you and simply live the present. It's summer time, try to bring some one with you to share a nice moment outside.

    Give it a try.

    my 2cents