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  • CA25CA25
    Posts: 46
    My wife and I have been using my Helix in connection with using a Fleshlight. We are working towards improving my stamina, with fairly good results. Even without the FL the Helix does not seem to bring me that euphoric feeling so many describe. I get some fleeting moments every now and then, but never seem to fall into that extended arousal state. I am thinking I should also try another unit to see if perhaps the Helix is just not the right one/size for me. Have always thought about getting a Vice. Is that a good "next step"?
  • Hi CA25
    I cant answer your question but was wondering what your thoughts are on the fleshlight?

  • AztecAztec
    Posts: 47
    I would recommend to leave the FL alone while the Helix is inserted.  Remove your wife from the picture too.  Just you and your Helix, alone, with no distractions.  Learn the feelings it provides you, all the subtle ones you ignore while your wife is distracting you or the FL.  

    Pretend you just got your Helix in the mail and start over.  It took me over a year to get those "euphoric feelings so many describe."  If my wife was distracting me, it would have taken longer.  The solo time was worth the wait. All those feelings do exist.  You just have to let go, and stop chasing that goal.

    Good luck!