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How aneros has changed your sexuality?
  • KevKev
    Posts: 87
    How aneros has changed you or your sexuality?
    Please reply if you have any others thoughts about this! :)

  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,488
    Why does the chart of poll results to date no longer appear at the top of this column of comments. It is very difficult to comment about the results if they cannot be seen.

    Thanks Kev for this important poll. I have voted days ago, shortly after you posted the poll. At that state, I could see the poll before I voted obviously, and I could see it afterward too, while remaining logged into the poll. Now just your two initial comments.

    I hope this will be addressed as soon as possible by Aneros in aid of having a quality polls section again. Thanks HIH/Aneros!!

  • BLKnjManBLKnjMan
    Posts: 1
    I think it has made me more fluid in thoughts on sexuality, in general.
    Posts: 2
    I think
  • isvaraisvara
    Posts: 1,036
    Where is the poll!
  • I think the Aneros has made me more independent, secure and capable of deeply satisfying myself. It has given me a more grounded sense of self-confidence and deep sensuality that I believe has made me more attractive to women. 
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 889
    Hello, Kev.

    Even though I was already familiar with the extra pleasure generated by a finger up my butt during sex, Aneros practice increased the effects by an order of magnitude. And then a post by Big Jimbo in this forum got me interested in pegging. Now, my wife and I enjoy "normal" sex plus Aneros and pegging. I'd say our married sex life has improved substantially over the past two years.



  • I started using an Aneros about 6 yrs ago.  I had some prostate issues and my urologist recommended prostrate massage to see if that would help.  In researching prostate massage, I found the Aneros page.  I tried an MGX and found it enjoyable and it helped with my prostate issue.  My late wife at this time was very limited physically and was unable to participate in sex.  This was difficult on her and myself. While I could provide her with sexual pleasure she had difficulty in doing so for me. When I suggested I use the Aneros while we were together she agreed.  She was very happy to see the pleasure I achieved while using this as she stroked me. She suggested I try some of the other Aneros toys to see if they provided different pleasure. When my wife passed I continued to use the MGX, helix and eupho.  Doing so I was able to achieve very pleasurably orgasms and even had full body orgasms.  I also learned to have orgasms without the aneros by anal and pc contractions.  I have since found a new lady and the sexual experiences I enjoy with her are amazing.  I do not worry about ejaculating or having an orgasm, they just happen.  If I use an Aneros or not it can be event full.  She has even asked that I start with an aneros before we have intercourse.  So yes the Aneros has changed my sexuality.
  • At the risk of self promoting the best way to understand the profound impact super o and Aneros has had on my life would be to read my blog, there are over five hundred pages of describing the change in my sexuality in it.        


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    However to summarize here, it has broadened my sense of the erotic; it has made me more attuned to intimacy; it has transformed me to being a sensual man; it has made me a better lover; and it has made me more sensitive to women’s psyches, sexual needs and perspectives.


    I have been humbled by the erotic gift I have been given.  I look at world famous personalities, brilliant professionals and wealthy people and I think somewhat smugly to myself that they may be (whatever) they are but they can’t do what I can do.

  • You can read how is currently changing my sexual life in my latest post here.

    Hope you enjoy.


  • New to Aneros ... mine is in the mail ... soon to arrive.  Looks like I have some serious reading to do.  have experienced some anal pleasures with a long, slender prostate massager ... and have enjoyed it by myself and with my lady.  Having it inside me during intercourse ... she held it in my ass ... gave me a 'whole body' orgasm as I was having intercourse ... missionary position ... so I am really looking forward to using the aneros product .... and raising our sexuality and erotic experiences.  Thanks for the insight and information.  Will get back to you on my first experiences. 
  • braveneworldbraveneworld
    Posts: 1,101
    @floridanow greetings welcome to the forum. Hope all goes well. Lots of reading and new ideas to think about. Here from you soon.
  • Has aneros changed my sexuality.
    Interesting question.
    The answer is NO because I know I have always enjoyed anal stimulation in a private setting.
    And yes I've had gay sex but so what.
    In reality I prefer straight sex but now that I have had my first Super "O" today in fact my aneros progasm will be a part of my those moments when I feel the need.
    It was 12 hours ago that I had my Super "O" and I am still smiling.

  • Congratulations, @JockParker, on achieving your first Super-O! Many happy returns! I have been using both the Progasm Classic and Progasm Ice since last September and love using those two models!

  • I wish to thank @Kev for his question and hope he is still working with his Aneros. I have not seen him on our Forum since late summer 2012.

    The Aneros has not changed my sexual orientation in the slightest, and as a 63 year old man it would be too late for me to change it. But that is beside the point. I am happy as the man God created me.

    But one thing that working with all my Aneros buddies since early June 2013 has deepened my sexuality many fold. In fact, I have had experiences with Aneros that I have never had all my life. For one thing, I had been very leery of anal play, but the Helix Syn changed all that. I believe that the Helix Syn with his soft silicone overlay is perhaps the best Aneros model to begin with.  Since September, I have been working with both Progasm Ice and Progasm Classic. As with the Maximus, the Progasm was unwieldy and somewhat painful when I began working with both models. Now both Progasm bros and Maximus are mainstays of my Anerosing and have given me a greater appreciation of Helix Syn and Helix Classic.

    Now only has the Aneros enhanced my prostate health, but he has improved my overall health too.

  • KevKev
    Posts: 87
    Hey gents! Thanks so much for your replies!!! :) Yes, I'm still here.. and yes my journey keeps going :D
  • XilehXileh
    Posts: 392
    If Aneros use includes this forum, then yes! From the members of this forum, I have learned so much about male sexuality, choice and lifestyle. From all that is shared, by all of you, yes, I have changed.

    With a few O's tossed in as well.

  • BigOluverBigOluver
    Posts: 255
    As a gay male I feel like aneros has brought my sexuality out even more. I love my Helix Syn. I can honestly say that prostate play is better then full blown gay male intercourse. A penis just slides in but a Aneros product just treats you so much better. I have not had a male sexual partner in a year and I have only had my Helix for almost 5 months and I am so satisfied. I mean I can just contract and get a dry o. I get hard so easily and pre cum just oozes out of me like slim. I can get in cool crazy positions with out having to deal with another person not getting into it or pleasing me correctly. I mean as I type I am having waves run through my body cause I'm turning my self on just thinking about my prostate and the fun we have with or with a device in me.
  • euphemisticeuphemistic
    Posts: 961
    I was nonsexual and celebrate for my first 32 years. I was numb from the head down. I finally figured out and faced up to the fact that I was attracted to men and that made me gay. But I was inexperienced and had the typical men's attitudes towards sex, love and relationships. I patterned my homosexuality after what I saw in the gay community, not what was inside me. Since I started experimenting with the aneros, I've discovered that I'm a sexual man. That means that I'm more in touch with my body, what I'm feeling, who I'm attracted to. I'm more confident in my sexuality and think of it as a positive side to me. it's almost like coming out again but this time, I'm more prepared. My only disappointment is that this coming out didn't happen when I was younger.However, I've started dating again.
  • I always had a problem with premature ejaculation during sex., Since using aneros for almost 2 years I hammer away at will.Seems like I can control myself better because i know whats happening during arousal and what to expect .May not make sense to everyone,but it has helped me be much better in bed.

  • Theme_GasmTheme_Gasm
    Posts: 805
    While enjoying an evening in the living room with the family, I felt a strong desire in my prostate area, so I contracted my pc muscles just a little bit...and was treated to a very nice head-to-toe p-wave...awesome! Well, that was the beginning of an entire set of waves while I was simply relaxing on the couch, with my wife and kids nearby, BUT, my Aneros was NOT inserted! It was oh so very cool! So, I just let it happen, and it went on and on and on! A good 30 minutes of waves and they were not stopping! My body is sure loving this journey, and it keeps showing me how much fun it can be!

    I've been bi since I was a young teen, and Aneros has actually helped me to become more dedicated to my wife! I'm less selfish and have become more aware of her needs! I believe this could actually help men become less likely to cheat on their wives if they accept what Aneros can do for them and accept these experiences as a way to satisfy their constant horniness!!
  • brinebrine
    Posts: 311

    I agree wholeheartedly with your post here, especially the second paragraph! I have learned so much about my relationship with my wife, and it has improved (even though it was pretty good to begin with). 

    Thank you for sharing!

  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,488
    Theme_Gasm said:

    "I've been bi since I was a young teen, and Aneros has actually helped me to become more dedicated to my wife! I'm less selfish and have become more aware of her needs! I believe this could actually help men become less likely to cheat on their wives if they accept what Aneros can do for them and accept these experiences as a way to satisfy their constant horniness!!"

    Essentially the same story with me TG!! My wife and I have explored and added to and then transformed our mutual eroticism and pleasuring play in the past almost 7 years since I began my aneros journey with her involvement. She says we are now having the best sex life of our 44 year marriage, and gave me a World's Greatest Lover plaque for my birthday this year!! :D  

    Not only our "constant horniness", butt our existential longings and spiritual quest for profound meaning, peace, grace, multi-level elevation and light, and connection with ALL!!!

    Thanks SO much for your post and your candour, you Aneros Adept you!!  :D:


    as we rewire
    we are all reconnected
  • Armon-neatArmon-neat
    Posts: 257
    I'm not sure if what I have to say really fits in, but here I go. Happily married for 42 years, our love life took several hits over the past 10 years or so.  My wife's emergency hysterectomy and oophorectomy (removal of ovaries) about 10 years ago sent her into ultra-fast menopause.  I had noticed my own "andropause" about that time with the typical symptoms, and with it, less pleasureable lovemaking.  Then, over two years ago, breast cancer took a year of chemo, surgery and recovery and radiation/chemo and another year of recovery until she was able to think about sex in any positive way, and for me, it was not pleasureable.  I am a  sensation oriented male with an aversion to masturbation and found an "outlet" in whole body massage (for a number of reasons, I would only use a male masseur).  I found that these sessions were very pleasureable without genital stimulation, but not a replacement for the intense pleasure.  I went to a urologist about the reduced pleasure and some coincident occasional erectile dysfunction and he found that my prostate was/is small (for any age). He then found that my testosterone levels were borderline low.  Meanwhile, I had heard about prostate stimulation and thought it might be worthwhile to pursue that, and fortunately, I found the Aneros site on my browsing.  I have had the Helix-Syn for 10 months now and have had 5 months of ever increasing benefit from its use.   About 2 months ago, I had had a short session before my wife came to bed and then we made love and the experience was the best I had in over 10 years.  More recently (and as recently as last night), I have made love with her with the device in place.  Last night it followed my having had a quiet and very,very exciting hour's session while she slept, and when she got up, I made my "move" and I have no memory of such an exciting and fulfilling lovemaking in my recent decades (I'm 63).  She is aware of my using the device and of my having used it during our lovemaking and she notices the difference as well.   IMHO, the intense pleasure while using the Aneros device is not sexual--it's sensual and spreads from the "nether parts" we associate with sexual activity to the whole body (the same of course can be said for "good" sex), but for me I have been using my Helix-syn divorced from frank sexual activity--I don't like porn in any form and have found that "mood music", with heavy breathing, for example, is very distracting.  I have not had sexual thoughts during my Helix sessions, though I have had the urge to touch myself at the end of the 1-2 hrs, but not to have a "wet orgasm".  And yet, after a session I am "raring" to go with my wife.  She feels the difference in my attitude, my stamina and the effect it has on her has been beneficial as well, bringing us back years, and dare I say, decades in our sexual lives.  I would second <artform's> comment about Aneros use being beneficial to men w.r.t. cheating...  I have begun to mention my Aneros use to friends and, though it's obviously a sensitive topic, I think that many men my age would benefit.
  • TurnrowTurnrow
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    Your words bring comfort to us older guys.  I am happy for your new found sexuality which you say has trimmed decades off your sex life with your wife.


    I am wondering how the rewiring has affected your erectile health as I am in your age group and have problems similar to what you have described in your marriage.