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wife loves the vice
  • thhn
    Posts: 425
    I know there are many posts about using an aneros during sex, but I don't recall reading any posts about using the vice during sex.
    Most every time I have sex with the wife, I use an aneros and find it greatly increases my drive and pleasure. Usually it is a smaller model like eupho or the peridise. She didn't know I had a vibrating massager so I figured I would surprize her and use it during sex to see what she thought about it. Not only does it work great for me, it works great for her too.
    One of my favorite techniques is to enter her and we both lay perfectly still... no thrusting or grinding of any sort... just breathing (and some flexing) and see how long we can go. Doing this with the vice is quite another experience!
    It has her approval!
  • CA25CA25
    Posts: 46
    I am about at the point of purchasing one for the same reason... for both of our pleasures. I have a coupon for $25 off any product at this store, so most likely will go for it (even though they sell it for $150, ouch.) We were at the toy store last week and they had one out of the box, and it was next to a Helix (which we have now.) It is a lot bigger than the Helix. I just read a post about someone using the Vice and it was so big it took away from his sensations of arousal. Hope that is not going to be the case for me. Ten S Nut has posted a bunch about using this with his wife. Very informative. Do you have any additional details you can share, especially your wifes' perspective too, as my wife is curious to know what the experience is like for a woman. Thanks for posting.
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,603
    we are new converts to the Vice even though my wife prefers the aesthetics of a white toy. She says that Black is a 'guy thing.' Once it's out of sight though, she loves the sensations that flow through our couplings. For the last three years, I've felt that 'smaller Aneroses are better' for foreplay and copulation. However........

    Last week I got jealous of others in the Forum and slathered my Vice up with plenty of lubes (plural) and inserted it with the Doc Johnson 7-function vibe bullet. The remote control cable is rather short but it reaches to a cell phone holster on my right arm. So, she can access the remote, picking and choosing between vibe modes.

    The amount of vibe she receives is dependent on how hard I am. Tip: Intermittent oral really helps. :)

    Edit: Giving her conrol over the vibe adds a bit of potential tease to our games. It also adds a real sense of sharing and communication to our use of an Aneros -- it's more about us than just an SGX or Peridise had been before.
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 816
    Hello, all.

    I love my Aneros Vice and have written about it here extensively. (Search my posts if you want the whole story.) Taking up where rook left off, I'll summarize where my wife and I are with the use of Vice during partnered sex.

    As rook pointed out, the strong sensations of vibration on the prostate can interfere with maintaining a really hard erection, and the harder you are the more vibes get to your partner. In fact, the dual sensations of penile stim and prostate stim can leave your body "suspended" between the two, unable to wet orgasm; Dry-Os only. My wife usually has the vibe controller (Doc Johnson 7-function Wonder) and she knows that when she's had enough she needs to turn off the vibe or take it down to minimum so I can ejac. Same thing with the Aneros vibe, though access to the control button is more awkward and the minimum setting is still kind of difficult to overcome (pun intended, sorry).

    Cheers,

    Dave
  • thhn
    Posts: 425
    that's interesting guys - giving your wife the control of the vibration. I did not consider that.
    Does the doc johnson 7 function wonder fit right into the vice with no modification?
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 816
    thhn;

    The DJ vibe fits very tightly. To make it easier to remove, I punctured the Vice with a pinhole to relieve the vacuum caused by trying to pull the vibe out of the cavity. BTW, Amazon.com has those vibes for about $8, plus shipping.

    Cheers,

    Dave
  • thhn
    Posts: 425
    [QUOTE=ten_s_nut;103313]thhn;

    The DJ vibe fits very tightly. To make it easier to remove, I punctured the Vice with a pinhole to relieve the vacuum caused by trying to pull the vibe out of the cavity. BTW, Amazon.com has those vibes for about $8, plus shipping.

    Cheers,

    Dave

    do you like the dj vibe for use on your own (as opposed to the vibrator that comes with the vice?)
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 816
    thhn;

    I like both the new Vice vibe (Muze) and the DJ vibe. I only use the Muze in the Vice. The DJ is also used in our pegging dildos. The Muze won't fit any of those. .We don't use any of the bullet vibes by themselves.

    Best Regards,

    Dave
  • CA25CA25
    Posts: 46
    Using the DJ vibe and giving her control?! Brilliant! What an idea Dave!