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  • Hello there!

    I just go my MGX and I am a total newbie on this. I was high on expectations to try it. I was relaxed, comfortable and insertion was no big deal at all. It felt ok.

    Tried some contractions but did not feel a thing. I felt the MGX moving in there but nothing more. I tried beeing aroused properly touching myself and so on. Well, maybe a little extra peasure while touching myself but nothing more.

    What am I doing wrong? What should I do to test whats wrong? I tried small contractiond and also bigger ones. I even tried manual pressure with it on different sides to try to find the g-spot and if I felt any difference in different spots. But I don't know.

    Should I try a different model? What to do? I am somewhat disappointed. :(

    Thanks!
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 817
    Hello, 49375.

    Welcome aboard!

    Your experience is typical. Immediate success is about as common as a rookie hitting a home run on his first at-bat. It happens, but not often. In my case, I had zero results the first three sessions and suspected the whole thing was a scam. I practiced an hour a day for 14 consecutive days before I got to a Super-O. According to a poll on this site, most guys have success within 90 days. However, many took longer than that and some are still trying after more than a year. Read the Wiki, linked at the top of this page closely for clues.

    One more thing: you may have relaxed the muscles you know about, but there are others "down there" that you've probably never consciously tried to control or relax. The hardest thing for me to figure out was how to sense those muscles and then get them to "let go."

    Best regards and good luck with Aneros,

    Dave
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,604
    Hi 375 and welcome to the Aneros Forum,

    You'll find plenty of information, how-to's, shortcuts and formulas for success here. I was one of the slow guys -- 13 months on the path before my first :home run." Most shortcuts are like stock tips -- you might put a few pennies on them but don't bet the farm on any one of them.

    I'd offer:
    -- forget the word, "wrong" there are no wrongs, rights, goods or bads here.
    -- Take a good read of ten_s_nut's thoughts on relaxation. It took me 9 months to begin to relax -- each month I became was more relaxed than the one before
    -- forget, trying. have no expectations. when small pleasures come your way, let them wash across you. Treasure each and give them your blessing
    -- eventually, your prostate will sensitize itself, without any effort on your part. -- when it does, give it your thanks, smile upon it and grant it a blessing.
    -- meanwhile enjoy your fav music, focus on your breathing and on the Aneros.

    have a grand journey !
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,257
    Hi aneros_user49375,

    Welcome to the Aneros Forums, your best source of information for learning about the multiple benefits and joys of using the Aneros prostate massagers. As 'ten_s_nut' noted, "Your experience is pretty typical." so take heart and understand that you have begun a unique journey of personal discovery. As 'rook' noted, "...forget the word, "wrong" there are no wrongs, rights, goods or bads here."

    <<< The Tao of Aneros >>>Orgasmic success is inversely proportional to one's level of expectation.
    Orgasmic success is proportional to one's level of arousal.
    Orgasmic success can not be forced or coerced to occur.
    Orgasmic success is proportional to the level of mind/body relaxation.
    Orgasmic success can begin anywhere along the erotic spectrum.
    Orgasmic success is the gift of awakened body/mind energies.
    Orgasmic success can be triggered or amplified by multiple stimuli.
    Orgasmic success is dependent on trust in body and mind.
    Orgasmic success is proportional to internal body language receptiveness.
    Orgasmic success is affected by all life choice practices.
    Orgasmic success is proportional to one's level of patience.
    Orgasmic success is achieved following your own unique path.


    P.S. I sent you an introductory PM with some additional hints and tips to get you started here.

  • RigelOrion
    Posts: 27
    I started with a Helix about six weeks ago and found it to be a wonderful new experience, but it took a while before I really got lit up by an Aneros. I found the Helix didn't quite hut me properly, and I was trying too hard - you cannot force these sensations. The Progasm fit better, I found, but I was still just trying too hard. Grinding, contracting, etc... All good, except when you're doing these things to drive the process. I took several days and just let the feelings ride without my own intervention and that's when it started to unlock for me. Now it kicks in very fast and the levels o pleasure are several orders of magnitude above what I started with. Don't give up.
  • thecritta
    Posts: 154
    [QUOTE=aneros_user49375;98970]Hello there!

    I just go my MGX and I am a total newbie on this. I was high on expectations to try it. I was relaxed, comfortable and insertion was no big deal at all. It felt ok.

    Tried some contractions but did not feel a thing. I felt the MGX moving in there but nothing more. I tried beeing aroused properly touching myself and so on. Well, maybe a little extra peasure while touching myself but nothing more.

    What am I doing wrong? What should I do to test whats wrong? I tried small contractiond and also bigger ones. I even tried manual pressure with it on different sides to try to find the g-spot and if I felt any difference in different spots. But I don't know.

    Should I try a different model? What to do? I am somewhat disappointed. :(

    Thanks!

    The only thing you are doing wrong is not giving it enough time, you will have to wait longer for your turn,
    just keep trying you will get their eventually, aneros is not is not overnight magic you know, he is doing
    nothing wrong guys just let him go.

    user49735 maybe you should try reading the aneros wiki and read all the posts you can maybe that will
    help you.