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Aneros could change your marriage for the better
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 819
    Hello, all.

    Last night my wife said something that surprised me. And let me assure you, surprises are rare in our 23 year-old relationship.

    She said, "I want to fuck your brains out."

    Bear in mind that I've never, ever said that to her or any of my previous wives and lovers. I don't talk dirty; not my thing. In the past when I've been asked to, it's been awkward. My wife was so uptight about sex for the first 10 years of marriage that she wouldn't talk about it, period. (She's the result of a Catholic upbringing and schools.)

    So, I said, "Sweetie, you can fuck my brains out anytime." We proceeded to take each others clothes off and had some fun.

    I'm bringing this up because I've heard from a lot of long-time married guys here that their wives have little to no interest in sex and especially not Aneros or anything anal.

    My marriage was pretty stale in the sex department until recently. We would have sex once or twice a week, mainly because my wife felt it was her duty. Then, I got into Aneros and she saw how much I enjoyed it. That caused her to get her own sex toys, which really opened her mind. For the first time, we started talking specifically about what we were feeling sexually.

    About a month ago we started pegging. That seems to have caused her to become more assertive about sex. At least I can't think of any other reason she would suddenly start taking the initiative and talking dirty. Needless to say, I'm delighted by this turn of events.

    The moral to this story is, don't write off your marriage as hopelessly stale. Sometimes, things change.

    Best Regards,

    Dave
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,604
    Wow !
    Congrats Dave.

    Tks for posting this. Remarkable that the 'linguistics' got changed without the finger of sin crashing through your roof. ;) We are still suffering the "pain and embarrassment" of having double-dated with friends to the opening of Pulp Fiction (c.1995) at a local Multiplex.

    Sounds like you're on the road to becoming the perfect sub. Just remember, "it's all good!" (remember the Aneros creed: Lube well. Breathe deeply !)

    However, I tend to think that my wife's Nuns and my mother-in-law could outdo your wife's Nuns and any others on the face of the earth when it comes to screwing people up. Stay tuned though and tks again.

    rook
  • brine
    Posts: 224
    ten_s_nut/Dave,

    Fantastic. I've been married 27 years and our sex life is crazy good. I had some health issues compounded with low T. Took care of that and found the Aneros... Well, now it's four, five, six times a week with my wife. A VERY far cry from the four times a year it was when things weren't great. A ton of credit goes to my wife for staying with me through the tough health times. I guess we're making up for it!!!

    We too have been exploring new things with each other. Such fun and feels GREAT!!!

    Brina
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    [QUOTE=ten_s_nut;98874]Hello, all.

    Last night my wife said something that surprised me. And let me assure you, surprises are rare in our 23 year-old relationship.

    She said, "I want to fuck your brains out."

    Bear in mind that I've never, ever said that to her or any of my previous wives and lovers. I don't talk dirty; not my thing. In the past when I've been asked to, it's been awkward. My wife was so uptight about sex for the first 10 years of marriage that she wouldn't talk about it, period. (She's the result of a Catholic upbringing and schools.)

    So, I said, "Sweetie, you can fuck my brains out anytime." We proceeded to take each others clothes off and had some fun.

    I'm bringing this up because I've heard from a lot of long-time married guys here that their wives have little to no interest in sex and especially not Aneros or anything anal.

    My marriage was pretty stale in the sex department until recently. We would have sex once or twice a week, mainly because my wife felt it was her duty. Then, I got into Aneros and she saw how much I enjoyed it. That caused her to get her own sex toys, which really opened her mind. For the first time, we started talking specifically about what we were feeling sexually.

    About a month ago we started pegging. That seems to have caused her to become more assertive about sex. At least I can't think of any other reason she would suddenly start taking the initiative and talking dirty. Needless to say, I'm delighted by this turn of events.

    The moral to this story is, don't write off your marriage as hopelessly stale. Sometimes, things change.

    Best Regards,

    Dave


    What a wonderful post, truly inspirational! This is the essence of the Aneros experience. It doesn't have to be exclusionary, that is a decision that is made by the individual. The concept here for couples is a richer sexuality through greater vitality and an expanded realm of sensuality through the discovery of new paths of arousal.

    BF Mayfield
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Dave,

    At some point in the future, if you wouldn't mind, I'd like it if you could copy your post into my thread: http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/partnered-sex-aneros-15352/ Just to keep it current. Again, great thread. I don't see any problem with duplication here. The truth is I would love it if there were several resources that we could refer couples to who are looking for information.

    BF Mayfield
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Dave and Brine, :)

    This is fantastic testimony, and beautiful change within your relationships. Thank you for sharing.

    Love_is