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Tits, breasts, belly and boy spot
  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,194
    Owing to the influence of the movers and shakers on the Nipple Orgasm yahoo group
    I have made excellent progress finding my way north of the pubic region.

    My nipples previously were as responsive as toenails. Now my nipples and breasts are primary erogenous zones. (Training, boys, training)

    I find that, of all multiple orgasm techniques, stimulating my nipples has the most direct connection to my penis, ie, is most likely to produce orgasms that feel just like ejaculation. I am hoping that I will be able to cum this way, but haven't yet (there are videos on the Nipple Orgasm site that demonstrate that).

    Wuerstchen, the nipple guru who started that group, has long been advocating for exploring the male breast. Following his lead, I denuded my pecs (by plucking). What I beheld was a smooth small tit (i am a lean fit guy) that was reminiscent of a teenage girl's, with a cute nipple in the middle. I also found that it felt quite luscious. This led me to a profoundly excellent session. The fantasy I deployed was that they were the tits of a girl being seduced by an avid teenage boy. (I have an enduring fascination with early sex.) She couldn't believe how it felt to have a boy fondling her. He knew just what to do with them, kneeding, holding, jiggling, massaging and sometimes teasing the nipples. Soon enough she felt rising pleasure, pushing her breasts into his naughty hands and being overcome by orgasm. Her vagina got all wet and throbbed with contractions (all of which I felt directly).

    I then proceeded south to the belly (again inspired by Wuerstchen's teachings). There my hands rubbed and circled, imagining it was the girl's smooth tummy, bringing this large area into the erogenous focus. As Wu warned, I had a very powerful full body response. Very powerful. Wow.

    So that was tits, breasts and belly!

    What about the boy spot? While I was lingering in the belly region I tripped on a sensitive little area just at the north border of my pubes. This is an external prostate spot (see The External Prostate Massage). I now think of this as my "boy spot." I discovered that this little spot is incredibly sensitive, and fingering it brings on very special feelings. Plenty of guys on this forum report having secret lives of pleasure when they were small by climbing up poles, or rubbing this way or that, inadvertantly finding pre-pubescent ways to give their young body mysterious deep pleasure. Some have said they have never been able to duplicate such strong feelings. That is how I felt. The sense of imminence, flush, jerkiness and dry orgasm I got from my boy spot was like a little boy under the covers twiddling his secret spot.

    darwin
  • Darwin, thanks for this great post! Your fantasy life is amazing! And I am thrilled that I and my group could teach you something. I hope more members of this group follow your example and join.

    And would you believe that after decades of exploration of my erogenous zones I didn't know about the boy spot?
  • rickg
    Posts: 94
    I, too, have fond my nips more sensitive since using Aneros. Wife likes to arrouse me by playing with them. :-)
  • Korkelz
    Posts: 294
    Yesterday I gave myself an orgasm virtually without touching myself and I think it has something to do with "the boy spot." By the way, where is the boy spot? Can you explain that a bit more? Anyway, what I did was a kind of butt exercise. Lay on stomach, bend knees, feet in the air, body now in an L shape on floor. Move legs in a sort of swimming motion, spreading outward, back inward, somewhat in a circular motion, bringing legs together then back out. The penis was ever so slightly stimulated by the fact it was pressed against the floor, skin being stretched.

    I felt tingling in the perinium area and penis. However, it lead to a boring traditional orgasm. Huh... These feelings can also be brought about like you mention; climbing poles and such.

    So you recommend joining the nipple orgasm group to learn more about that stuff? My nipples are kinda sensitive, definitely give me erections sometimes and only once did I ever feel it might lead to something leaking out of me (so close, but no cigar that one time).
  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,194
    Korkelz-

    Yes, sure, you should definitely join the yahoo Nipple Orgasm group.

    About the boy spot, to learn all about accessing your prostate from the outside, see the link to External Prostate Massage I included in the last paragraph of my post above.

    The particular spot I found is in the same region as the External Prostate site at the top of the pubic region. The way I know I am on it is that stimulating it with my fingertip produces a direct sexual response. It kind of feels like jerking off but at a different location. It is not as direct as the penis, but it seems to me to be in that league. I don't know if others will have the same reaction.

    Have fun

    Darwin
  • [QUOTE=darwin;92293]My nipples previously were as responsive as toenails. Now my nipples and breasts are primary erogenous zones. (Training, boys, training)
    darwin

    Darwin, in my earlier reply I should have noted that you are absolutely right about "training, boys, training." There's a guy in my nipple orgasm group who for several years had been trying to have one, without success. He greatly relished the sensations from nipple play but would have to jerk off to achieve orgasm. About six months ago, from sheer persistence, he reached the promised land. He now has multiple nipple orgasms at will, almost on a daily basis.

    I was blessed with sensitive nipples and discovered nipple orgasm in my late teens, without thinking much of it. It was only about ten years ago, when I discovered that I could have multiples--my high is 12 nipple orgasms in half an hour--that it became my primary form of solo sex. But evidently, as you say, the dullest nipples can be trained to achieve orgasm in this way.
  • Korkelz
    Posts: 294
    What is the main way to train the nipples? Just touch them, right? I was doing that last night and I felt something I haven't felt in a while, and I felt it twice, a strong P-wave of some sort, a pleasurable pressure focused in the shaft of my pens. I really hope that doesn't mean I might have a wet orgasm with refactory period from touching my nipples, that would really suck.
  • Darwin can answer this better than I can, but I suggest trying different ways of stimulating them, and there are quite a few. One things that works well is rubbing them lightly with the flattened palm. I like to move my finger tips slowly from the armpits to the nipples, feeling the surge of erotic feeling in my penis and prostate, letting it subside and then repeating it. Another technique is dragging your fingers slowly from below the collar bone over the nipples and all the way to where the breast meets the rib cage, then back up again. Explore what feels good.

    As for wet orgasm--why do they suck? I have both wet and dry with nipple stimulation, and I love both, but Darwin and others I know say they never ejaculate.
  • Korkelz
    Posts: 294
    wet orgasm = refactory, does it not in this case or something?
  • [QUOTE=Korkelz;92405]wet orgasm = refactory, does it not in this case or something?

    RefRactory. OK, I get it! Well, this is one of the reasons I became a convert to nipple orgasm. I find I can have another nipple orgasm, usually a cluster of them, within ten minutes of having one with full ejaculation. The penis experiences a refractory period, but the nipples and prostate don't. Today I had a powerful nipple orgasm with full ejaculation, and ten minutes later I had another, even more powerful one. Sometimes I am erect or semi-erect, sometimes soft, it doesn't really matter. Strangely I may experience a full erection after a series of soft ones.

    This is why this has become my almost exclusive form of solo sex. I should add, for what's it worth, that I am 68, in excellent health with a low PSA, and am having more orgasms than I had in any previous decade, including my randy pubescent teens. Multiple nipple orgasms, which I have almost daily if my schedule permits, have enhanced my joie de vivre. No matter how many I have, I know I can always have another!

    My theory about the ever-ready responsiveness of the nipples as compared to the penis is that the pleasure they give is related to their nurturing function. Indeed, some males have taken up breast feeding. Here is a pair of links: Milkmen: Fathers who Breastfeed. and Man Milk: Realizing a Dad’s Breastfeeding Potential | Thingamababy.
  • Korkelz
    Posts: 294
    Wuerstchen, do you incorporate nipples with aneros?

    Also, are you able to further your journey in the Super O with your nipples or are you experiencing the same level of pleasure each time?
  • I guess I am out of place here-- I don't own an Aneros and have never used one. I joined this group and occasionally contribute to it because it's the most informative, intelligent, and literate forum on sex that I know of--a community of erotic adventurers. I guess the reason I don't own an Aneros is that nipple orgasm is so radically simple to achieve--just my hands-- and I repeatedly achieve such erotic ecstasy with it I haven't been tempted to try the Aneros. A few people in my nipple orgasm group who do both tell me that nipple orgasm compares very favorably to Aneros-induced orgasms.

    The thing about nipple orgasm is that my nipples are wired to my prostate. It's a wonderful bit of stimulation of the prostate my remote control. I stimulate only my nipples, but I get the most wonderful feelings in prostate and penis without direct contact, ultimately leading to clusters of orgasm.
  • Korkelz
    Posts: 294
    Question! Does stimulating your nipples make them larger? Has anyone noticed this? Not that I am concerned, just wondering! Because I keep thinking my nipples have grown bigger over the past months, but never could be sure!
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Korkelz, :)

    Question! Does stimulating your nipples make them larger? Has anyone noticed this? Not that I am concerned, just wondering! Because I keep thinking my nipples have grown bigger over the past months, but never could be sure!

    I haven't found this to be the case with myself. Although I have found that like women, my nipples can get erect at times of high arousal, and they certainly are larger then. But that is only temporary.

    Love_is
  • [QUOTE=Korkelz;92424]Question! Does stimulating your nipples make them larger? Has anyone noticed this? Not that I am concerned, just wondering! Because I keep thinking my nipples have grown bigger over the past months, but never could be sure!

    After decades of regular nipple stimulation I never found that my nipples got any larger. About a year ago I began wearing Supple Nipps occasionally, but seldom for more than an hour at a time. That has definitely made them larger, but still within the range of 'normal' for a male.
  • [QUOTE=Korkelz;92402]What is the main way to train the nipples? Just touch them, right? I was doing that last night and I felt something I haven't felt in a while, and I felt it twice, a strong P-wave of some sort, a pleasurable pressure focused in the shaft of my pens. I really hope that doesn't mean I might have a wet orgasm with refactory period from touching my nipples, that would really suck.

    New to the forum and to aneros - I have a progasm and am still a seeker ... however I have relatively recent experience in converting my nipples from "toenails" to definite erogenous organs

    ... in foreplay with my wife I have always enjoyed sucking and playing with her nipples and watching and feeling their response to arousal - always enjoy opening the meatus of my glans (the "cum slit") and inserting one nipple then the other (kinda like her nipples "fucking" my dick) and it always evokes additional precum production and leakage - so I've always been jealous of guys reporting pleasant nipple sensitivity.

    A couple years ago I began stimulating my nipples with a precum-coated finger and light touch - while simultaneously either watching porn - or masturbation (manipulation/stroking of my penis) ... as I neared higher levels of preorgasmic arousal i became somewhat more vigorous - pulling and twisting my nipples and noting their engorgement

    ... the association of genital pleasure with nipple play has effectively rewired my sensory neural circuits and I now get a hardon by messing with my nips in the shower (or elsewhere). I also find that nipple play while inserting my lubed progasm facilitates the anal penetration.

    Exploration of arousal is what led me to focus on my nipples, just as it has led me to explore the potential of my anus and prostate.

    - rip
  • Great, Rip, that you have discovered the extraordinary erotic potential of your nipples. Mine have for some years been my primary site of sexual pleasure for solo sex. As I like to say, ny nipples and breasts have reduced my penis to a bit player, although it certainly enjoys the waves of pleasure transmitted to it by remote control as it were, and responds with ejaculatory orgasms without ever being touched!
  • [QUOTE=Wuerstchen;94530]Great, Rip, that you have discovered the extraordinary erotic potential of your nipples. Mine have for some years been my primary site of sexual pleasure for solo sex. As I like to say, ny nipples and breasts have reduced my penis to a bit player, although it certainly enjoys the waves of pleasure transmitted to it by remote control as it were, and responds with ejaculatory orgasms without ever being touched!

    Thanks for the encouragement Wuerstchen ... I can easily (well, not always SO easily) manage to keep my hands off my penis - or say, avoid tactile stimulation of my penis (as not rubbing it against a sheet, partner, clothing, whatever) - but I find it hard (literally) to avoid a hardon when I am in arousal mode

    ... it's as though my boner is a barometer of the pleasure and excitement I am experiencing. Thus, I now manipulate my nipples and I become boned ... I am finally at the point when I relax cleaning and soaking my ass in warm water in the bidet playing gently with my sphincter to get it to relax ... trying to sensuously lube my anus with precum (and/or oil) ... inserting the aneros (yeah I've got where the penetration is not unpleasant) - all these things cause my boner to harden, twitch, and ooze more precum

    ... so I'm a long way from having reduced my penis to a bit player.

    I have always (at least for over 30 years) been able to relax and diffuse the pleasure I feel in my dick, so that it diffuses throughout my genitals and then my entire body - but my cock stays hard and wet. By diffusing this excitement - I always visualize myself passively "sinking" into the pleasure ... "going with the flow" so to speak - and this gives me control of my orgasm and ejaculation.

    Am I going to be able to receive the high arousal that I see aneros users obtain from prostate stimulation - or does that come only when I can have these sessions in a totally flaccid state?

    - rip
  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,194
    Rip-

    your bone is just fine. don't worry about it. just keep hands and mental focus off of it and you'll be fine.

    enjoy,
    darwin
  • For me, the combination of Aneros use and nipple play opened up both as feedback loop reinforcers of highly arousing sensual pleasure I didn't know my body was capable of producing. It wasn't until I started using the Aneros that I noticed how good it felt when my nipples were stroked (or sucked by a wonderful, highly adventurous wife). This has become a regular part of our foreplay.

    My wife has often told me that when I suck her nipples, she feels like there is a direct line from them to her clitorus, causing her to super-charge her arousal. And, I've often noticed that sucking them causes me to get harder. Since I started using the Aneros several years ago, she's started returning the favor, sucking my nipples and I have to say, there's a direct line from my nipples to my prostate.

    The minute she starts stroking or sucking my nipples, it's like I start to feel fluttering ands swelling in my prostate. The minute she starts to suck, my dick immediately starts to swell and get very hard and I'm 48 (although I am very fit). She continues this tease for several minutes until my anus and prostate is quivering from anticipation ( I can actually feel it) and then she'll use some lube and start to slowly circle my anus and press in on my perineum while continuing to suck my nipples. The pleasure is incredible and as it builds, I let myself go and begin to moan in ecstasy.

    As this continues, a longing sensation for what I know if coming next builds. She then sloooooowwwwwwwllllllllyyyy inserts a well-lubed finger inside. By this point, I'm usually begging for it and as she enters, I start to shake and gently convulse in my perineum and anus and I literally start to melt...dripping pre-cum, which turns us both on more. She's given me non-ejaculatory orgasms like this that just go on and on. She'll get so turned on my my sexual excitement that she can almost orgasm just from fingering me like this.

    Although she's not a big Aneros fan (she's jealous of me preferring a piece of plastic to her...which I don't...and like most women, I don't think she understand why we guys like solo sex in addition to sex with them...just a guy thing that's hard to explain, I guess) I don't think I'd have ever awakened to this kind of intense pleasure without Aneros training.

    Anyway, that's my two-cents. Nipples and prostate pleasure go together.
  • Darwin,
    THANK YOU for the term "Boy Spot". I have hijacked it to use in my Blog on this site. I hope you don't mind. Did you ever lay on your stomach and use your fist to stimulate your "Boy Spot"? I LOVE to do this new found technique.

    Utube
  • And I find your blog very interesting too man!
  • [QUOTE=newguy8762;94545]For me, the combination of Aneros use and nipple play opened up both as feedback loop reinforcers of highly arousing sensual pleasure I didn't know my body was capable of producing. It wasn't until I started using the Aneros that I noticed how good it felt when my nipples were stroked (or sucked by a wonderful, highly adventurous wife). This has become a regular part of our foreplay.

    My wife has often told me that when I suck her nipples, she feels like there is a direct line from them to her clitorus, causing her to super-charge her arousal. And, I've often noticed that sucking them causes me to get harder. Since I started using the Aneros several years ago, she's started returning the favor, sucking my nipples and I have to say, there's a direct line from my nipples to my prostate.

    The minute she starts stroking or sucking my nipples, it's like I start to feel fluttering ands swelling in my prostate. The minute she starts to suck, my dick immediately starts to swell and get very hard and I'm 48 (although I am very fit). She continues this tease for several minutes until my anus and prostate is quivering from anticipation ( I can actually feel it) and then she'll use some lube and start to slowly circle my anus and press in on my perineum while continuing to suck my nipples. The pleasure is incredible and as it builds, I let myself go and begin to moan in ecstasy.

    As this continues, a longing sensation for what I know if coming next builds. She then sloooooowwwwwwwllllllllyyyy inserts a well-lubed finger inside. By this point, I'm usually begging for it and as she enters, I start to shake and gently convulse in my perineum and anus and I literally start to melt...dripping pre-cum, which turns us both on more. She's given me non-ejaculatory orgasms like this that just go on and on. She'll get so turned on my my sexual excitement that she can almost orgasm just from fingering me like this.

    Although she's not a big Aneros fan (she's jealous of me preferring a piece of plastic to her...which I don't...and like most women, I don't think she understand why we guys like solo sex in addition to sex with them...just a guy thing that's hard to explain, I guess) I don't think I'd have ever awakened to this kind of intense pleasure without Aneros training.

    Anyway, that's my two-cents. Nipples and prostate pleasure go together.

    Just flicking through the forum for a while now and wow yes totally agree I didnt notice my nipples still I started my aneros use either and combining the two is great. I must say well done on your wifes part she seem really awesome great to see women that are open like that only being young im quite truely in envy of the commitment a marriage like yours brings to the table and im glad your having fun with this stuff I only aim to find such a relationship so I must pick wisely lol
  • [QUOTE=utubeplay;38167]Darwin,
    THANK YOU for the term "Boy Spot". I have hijacked it to use in my Blog on this site. I hope you don't mind. Did you ever lay on your stomach and use your fist to stimulate your "Boy Spot"? I LOVE to do this new found technique.

    Utube

    I believe what is being stimulated here are the Chakras. I find going all the way up to the breast bone and back down very stimulating, especially above the breast bone between the breasts. I believe that is over a gland, Thymus(?)
  • WuerstchenWuerstchen
    Posts: 189
    [QUOTE=paulsp@trains.zzn.com;48093]I believe what is being stimulated here are the Chakras. I find going all the way up to the breast bone and back down very stimulating, especially above the breast bone between the breasts. I believe that is over a gland, Thymus(?)

    The breast bone, between the fleshy area of my breasts, is what I rub to achieve a breast orgasm. I have never had one without either first having a nipple orgasm or edging toward one, but once I reach that point I find that rubbing firmly on my breast bone almost always produces intense, full body orgasms with full ejaculation.
  • Linghaman
    Posts: 231
    First off ...thanks to my friend Darwin whose comment attracted me to join W's nipple group on yahoo. Like all of you my niips are very errogenous. The latest entry on http://linghamanslog.wordpress.com/ describe my nipple response. As the entry says my nipples have become a huge part of my sex life. I had never considered enlargement I will followup on that and see where it leads me. If it enhances sensation I am all for it.

    Bigguy
  • WuerstchenWuerstchen
    Posts: 189
    [QUOTE=bigguy;48112]First off ...thanks to my friend Darwin whose comment attracted me to join W's nipple group on yahoo. Like all of you my niips are very errogenous. The latest entry on http://linghamanslog.wordpress.com/ describe my nipple response. As the entry says my nipples have become a huge part of my sex life. I had never considered enlargement I will followup on that and see where it leads me. If it enhances sensation I am all for it.

    Bigguy

    Thanks for this link, Bigguy. Glad to know you are in my nipple orgasm group. I am going to post the link to your wonderful paean to nipple pleasure and making love to oneself!