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Non-sexual orgasm?
  • dtmsmith
    Posts: 219
    I know, this probably sounds like an oxymoron. Let me clarify what I mean.

    Over the last couple of days, I've had a few anerosless sessions. In the past, my anerosless sessions have been fueled by sexual fantasy and, at times, porn. For these most recent sessions, I've intentionally avoided both of these things and have instead simply focused my mind on the sensations I feel. I've also tried to visualize the generation and manipulation of energy in my body. To my surprise, I have been able to create what I'll call contractionless orgasms. I've described these before. They're full-body, intense bursts of pleasure that fill my abdomen, chest, and head. The ones I've experienced in the last couple of days have not been as sexual as in the past. In other words, the feelings don't conjure up sexual thoughts or desires.

    As with many things we talk about, these feelings are very difficult to describe and I'm probably not doing a very good job of it. If any of this sounds familiar to you, please help me describe it. In any case, what I'm feeling makes me think that all orgasms may not be sexual. Or, put another way, we have all learned to have orgasms through sexual stimulation. It seems that there may be paths to orgasm that are non-sexual. Or, maybe what I'm feeling shouldn't even be called an orgasm even though it feels like one.

    I'm so very confused :-)
  • HelixerHelixer
    Posts: 566
    I agree, a Super O develops into something I wouldn't say completely non-sexual, but I've noticed I need less and less arousal(sexual thoughts) to bring it on. In the beginning it was like 90%sexual 10% non sexual, and now it's like 5% sexual 95% non-sexual, it takes on a spiritual dimension, a fusion with your female side, opening up receptivity to the Great Spirit
  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,481
    Hi dtmsmith and Helixer!! :D :D :D

    [QUOTE=dtmsmith;92103]I know, this probably sounds like an oxymoron. Let me clarify what I mean.

    Over the last couple of days, I've had a few anerosless sessions. In the past, my anerosless sessions have been fueled by sexual fantasy and, at times, porn. For these most recent sessions, I've intentionally avoided both of these things and have instead simply focused my mind on the sensations I feel. I've also tried to visualize the generation and manipulation of energy in my body. To my surprise, I have been able to create what I'll call contractionless orgasms. I've described these before. They're full-body, intense bursts of pleasure that fill my abdomen, chest, and head. The ones I've experienced in the last couple of days have not been as sexual as in the past. In other words, the feelings don't conjure up sexual thoughts or desires.

    All of this is perfectly natural and an integral part of the journey on this particular pathway. You were/are not expecting it, which is excellent, nor what will come next. I am not playing a game with this, everyone needs to come to these things through their body and its development/reactions, not ego expectations. You are on your unique version of a journey on this type of pathway. Relax, deeply and ENJOY!

    As with many things we talk about, these feelings are very difficult to describe and I'm probably not doing a very good job of it. If any of this sounds familiar to you, please help me describe it. In any case, what I'm feeling makes me think that all orgasms may not be sexual. Or, put another way, we have all learned to have orgasms through sexual stimulation. It seems that there may be paths to orgasm that are non-sexual. Or, maybe what I'm feeling shouldn't even be called an orgasm even though it feels like one.

    I'm so very confused :-)



    No need to be confused dtm! Your journey has just arrived at another plateau that others have visited and integrated earlier! No worries! You are doing this in a very good way, or you wouldn't be continually arriving at great new plateaux so regularly. Congratulations friend! Onward, with no expectations...

    Helixer, thanks so much for your great prose haiku of the essence of this particular plateau/transition/new-skill/gift! How about trying further condensation into a 5-7-5 haiku in the Haiku Chain thread here??

    all the very best unselfconscious and surprising plateauing, transitioning, enjoying energetic ecstatics orgasmically and spiritually by deeply relaxing all

    artform
  • dtmsmith
    Posts: 219
    Thanks guys.
    I like Helixer's characterization of this. I'm nowhere near the 5/95 level (sexual vs non-sexual) but I'm starting to move away from 100/0 :-). It's very exciting. I guess I'm not surprised to find out that there's a non-sexual aspect to non-ejaculatory orgasms (I've gotten a sense of this already). What surprises me is that it seems to be possible to create orgasms with little or no sexual stimulus. It's truly remarkable.
  • HelixerHelixer
    Posts: 566
    [QUOTE=dtmsmith;92117]Thanks guys.
    I like Helixer's characterization of this. I'm nowhere near the 5/95 level (sexual vs non-sexual) but I'm starting to move away from 100/0 . It's very exciting. I guess I'm not surprised to find out that there's a non-sexual aspect to non-ejaculatory orgasms (I've gotten a sense of this already). What surprises me is that it seems to be possible to create orgasms with little or no sexual stimulus. It's truly remarkable.


    I'm glad you can relate.
    There's always a danger in describing a personal experience like a Super O coz everyone's journey is unique. But like the progressing from prostate awareness to Super O it's a natural progression that will happen eventually of it's own accord if you allow yourself to open up to it.
    Thus people that are too closedminded won't be able to Super O in the first place, in the same way that those with a partner will have more trouble allowing the natural progression to take place as they mistakenly project their female side on to their partner. A bit like relying on penile stimulation hinders the progress to prostate awareness.

    Perhaps this is a wrong assessment but IMO properly blended, the counterfeit becomes superfluous to say the least.

    So, for the complete male, one who's discovered his feminine side and fused with it, the sexual component will progressively become a much smaller part of his existence. He transcends the baser animalistic urges and moves closer to his true potential, catching a glimpse of enlightenment on the way