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So much good advice!
  • Tomasheen
    Posts: 181
    Thanksyou to all you guys who so kindly offered so much good advice and help. I did abstain for 48 hours and found that a very difficult thing to do. It gave me time to think of what you had all said and suggested.
    I think the most important thing you said was I was pushing thing too hard and expecting too much too soon. So I very deliberately changed my attitude to my sessions. Instead of worrying about what might not happen, I began to enjoy all the little things and say "What will be will be!" I resumed sessions today and what a difference!! I am delighted with the results. If things don't go well tomorrow, I shall still enjoy whatever little morsel is presented to me. Good advice for anyone in a similar situation of frustration and doubt. Thanks all. Tomahseen.
  • CockadoodleCockadoodle
    Posts: 397
    Hey, Tomasheen, good to hear of your progress. YES! Keep an open mind and a relaxed attitude, man. That's the secret.

    I have often written of this, but I truly believe that the key to all of this is to begin to understand that YOU DESERVE it, not that you are working at something. To bring a Zen prospective to the process, and to help you understand the more spiritual nature of our wonderful toys, is to truly understand, and, even more, to truly BELIEVE that multiple orgasms are already within you. All you have to do is be willing to open your mind to the possibility that lies within you to RELEASE these wonderful feelings and experience the orgasms that you have within you.

    Good luck. Keep us posted on your progress. We're all pulling for you.

    Cockadoodle