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When do you have your sessions? How busy is your life?
  • MyTurn
    Posts: 447
    I really wanted to have an Aneros session yesterday. I live with my mum and cannot move out for some time.

    I work a full time job, and need a lot of sleep. I wake up about 7.15am, get to work by 9am, work til 5.30pm, and get home about 6.45pm. I go to bed around 11pm. There is no way I could have a session befoe 11pm, as mum calls me for dinner, wants to talk, I'd have no privacy. From 11pm, when mum goes to bed and I go to mine, there is a period where she could come in my room, or walk about the house. By 12am, it is more settled.

    I generally start my sessions at 12, but am wary of how late it is and the sleep I am losing. Yesterday, I attempted to go to bed early and wake up 5:30am and have a session then, but I slept through til 7.30am.

    I've wondered:


    • When do you guys have your sessions? What time of the day?
    • Do you work full-time jobs? How much free time do you get?
    • Do you have privacy and scheduling issues to take onboard? How do you get around them?
    • What hobbies or activities do you have to sacrifice in order to make time for Aneros sessions?


    I've actually not been motivated to find a new girlfriend because I want my Aneros journey to be at its destination beforehand. I'd rather tell a girl that I can have multiple prostate orgasms than tell her I stick a lubed toy in my arse. The latter seems fetishy and will get her wondering if I'm gay. The former will be evidence that our bodies can do more than we're taught, etc.

    But it is hard to find the time for "my journey" when I can't even have a session. Usually I book a day off, but that means I will only be able to have under 15 sessions a year (some days off, I actually need for other things), and also, they will be spaced out during the (middle and end of the) year.


    • What are your methods for hiding your cleaning process?
    • How do you prepare with erotic stimulation beforehand (porn, etc) when time is of the essence?
    • Who are you "hiding" your sessions from? A wife or mother?

    Thanks.
  • MyTurn,

    Here is my weekly schedule:

    Sunday: Work 9:00A.M. to 5:00P.M.

    Monday: Work 8:30 A.M. to 4:30 P.M. then school 5:30 P.M to 9:00 P.M.

    Tuesday: An actual off day for now. In two months it will be work and school much like Mondays, and Mondays will stay the same.

    Wednesday: Just like Monday

    Thursday: An off day for now until 6:00 P.M. to 9:00 P.M. for school

    Friday: Work from 8:30 A.M. to 4:30 P.M.

    Saturday: Work from 9:00 A.M. to 5:00 P.M.

    Anytime that isn't dedicated to the above is spent with my girlfriend whom I live with as much as possible and studying for school. My session time consists of exactly two opportunities during the week. One would be Tuesday morning when my girlfriend has school and I do not and then the same for Thursday. If she comes home early or doesn't go to school, I don't get a session. I must get 8 hours of sleep, or as close to 8 hours as possible, in order to maintain my health, energy, and sanity. Sometimes she'll go out with friends, and I'll try to sneak in a session then. That's not very often though.

    I bought my first Aneros, theEupho, in October. I might have used it about 12 times, maybe. I just got a Progasm about a week or two ago. I've used it twice. So, you might be able to tell, I'm a rather busy guy! I don't get much time at all. Thankfully I get results immediately.

    For example, I used my Progasm for the second time yesterday and had some fantastic orgasms. I used it about 30 minutes. After about 5 minutes I was having orgasms that lasted 2 to 3 minutes non-stop. The energies and pleasure was surrounding my whole body. I felt a total stillness and peace from being totally enveloped. So, while I don't get much time or many chances, I do enjoy what I can get. My girlfriend knows I use it by the way, but I don't really when she's around. I'd rather be with her if that's the case. I hope this answers your question.
  • MyTurn
    Posts: 447
    Rikaaim thanks for the detailed response. Yes, that is what I was looking for.

    Wow, if it weren't for those days off in the middle of the week, your schedule would be worse than mine. But at least - for now, you have those private times. Also, my mum is a light and late sleeper. Fridays and Saturday, she virtually goes on 4 hours sleep: she may go to bed at 4am and wake up 8-10am, or earlier if she hears me creeping around.

    I think my best bets are weekend nights around 4am, if I am not tired myself, I guess. Weekend daytimes are too busy, and guests may come around, people call the house, washing and cleaning going on, cooking, etc.

    EDIT: Are your Aneroses modified i.e.tail cut off, etc? I'm going to look for posts by you on how you prepare for a session since your results are far better than mine
  • [QUOTE=MyTurn;86398]Rikaaim thanks for the detailed response. Yes, that is what I was looking for.

    Wow, if it weren't for those days off in the middle of the week, your schedule would be worse than mine. But at least - for now, you have those private times. Also, my mum is a light and late sleeper. Fridays and Saturday, she virtually goes on 4 hours sleep: she may go to bed at 4am and wake up 8-10am, or earlier if she hears me creeping around.

    EDIT: Are your Aneroses modified i.e.tail cut off, etc? I'm going to look for posts by you on how you prepare for a session since your results are far better than mine

    In a few weeks, like late March, I'll have school four days a week and work a very hectic work schedule. I'm part of a four person training group that is rolling out a new operating system for two districts at work. The four of us will be doing the training on the new system. That's about 36 stores or so. The schedule is going to be crazy. I'm not even expecting any sessions during that time frame. Four of my days during the week will be at least 13 hour days. I'm not sure if I'll have weekends off or not. So, it'll be back to doing something seven days a week. This school quarter is kind of an oddity because I was expecting to do the training now, but it got deferred.

    As for my sessions, you don't have to search. I can tell you what I do here, mainly because I haven't posted my about them anywhere else. If you would like more info, please PM me.

    To "prep" I'll rub a little bit of K-Y Jelly around my anus. I'll insert a little bit inside. If I feel like I need to "clean out" my area, I have a shower attachment I can use for that. This is what I use to clean myself out with, although mine is like a charcoal dark type color. After I am done with that, I'll insert a little bit of K-Y Jelly again. I stimulate myself just enough to get excited and loose. Then I'll apply some WET to my finger and rub that around my anus and insert a little bit and stimulate myself some more. I'll wash my hands with antibacterial soap and water, dry them off fully, then squirt some K-Y Jelly into my hand and rub that on my Aneros. After I get a good, thick K-Y Jelly coating on my Aneros, I'll run some WET over the top of that, getting it super slick. Then I'll insert the model into me. I stand, but bend slightly, and use a "scooping" motion to sort of curve it in towards my prostate. I never shove it straight in. My anus naturally contracts around it and pulls it in the rest of the way. I'll wash my hands once more, then make my way to the bedroom to lie down and enjoy. I do all of my prep work in the bathroom.

    Non of my Aneros models are modified. I did ever so slightly pull the P-Tab of my Eupho out just a smidge to hit my personal P-Spot better. I haven't touch my Progasm in the slightest. I hope this helps. Most of what I do after that is natural to my body, but I could try to explain more if you want to PM me or something.
  • Billy11
    Posts: 280
    [QUOTE=MyTurn;86392]I really wanted to have an Aneros session yesterday. I live with my mum and cannot move out for some time.

    I work a full time job, and need a lot of sleep. I wake up about 7.15am, get to work by 9am, work til 5.30pm, and get home about 6.45pm. I go to bed around 11pm. There is no way I could have a session befoe 11pm, as mum calls me for dinner, wants to talk, I'd have no privacy. From 11pm, when mum goes to bed and I go to mine, there is a period where she could come in my room, or walk about the house. By 12am, it is more settled.

    I generally start my sessions at 12, but am wary of how late it is and the sleep I am losing. Yesterday, I attempted to go to bed early and wake up 5:30am and have a session then, but I slept through til 7.30am.

    I've wondered:


    • When do you guys have your sessions? What time of the day?
    • Do you work full-time jobs? How much free time do you get?
    • Do you have privacy and scheduling issues to take onboard? How do you get around them?
    • What hobbies or activities do you have to sacrifice in order to make time for Aneros sessions?


    I've actually not been motivated to find a new girlfriend because I want my Aneros journey to be at its destination beforehand. I'd rather tell a girl that I can have multiple prostate orgasms than tell her I stick a lubed toy in my arse. The latter seems fetishy and will get her wondering if I'm gay. The former will be evidence that our bodies can do more than we're taught, etc.

    But it is hard to find the time for "my journey" when I can't even have a session. Usually I book a day off, but that means I will only be able to have under 15 sessions a year (some days off, I actually need for other things), and also, they will be spaced out during the (middle and end of the) year.


    • What are your methods for hiding your cleaning process?
    • How do you prepare with erotic stimulation beforehand (porn, etc) when time is of the essence?
    • Who are you "hiding" your sessions from? A wife or mother?

    Thanks.

    It seems that maybe this is just a bad time in your life for the aneros. Maybe you need to get some other things straightened out first. A big reason you've not had time for the aneros is because you live with your mom. Well that seems to be the first thing you need to deal with. You work a full time job. Move out. You state "but that means I will only be able to have under 15 sessions a year". Again you seem to be stuck in a state of mind that your living conditions will remain the way they are indefinitely. You've got to break yourself out of that. You want to have more privacy. You've got to create that reality.

    But to answer a few of your questions...
    I have an aneros session whenever I feel like it. All I need is 30 to 40 minutes(I don't douche or anything so prep time is real quick). I work about 50 hours a week. I don't have any privacy concerns. I let my ex girlfriend know about it right away so there'd be nothing to hide. I keep my lube and whatever I want right on top my dresser for anybody to see. Just don't care anymore. I've got nothing to be ashamed of. Using the aneros doesn't take me away from any of my other hobbies. I sometimes will view porn before hand but for the most part I like to go into my sessions the least bit aroused (I know the opposite of most people, will explain why if asked).
    I haven't hid the fact to my friends that I've been learning how to have MMO's for some time now.
  • MyTurn
    Posts: 447
    Rikaaim, thanks for that.

    Billy11, Half my wages will be eaten up in rent if I move out. That's not counting gas, elec, council tax, water bill, travel, food, utilities, internet, TV licence, etc. I would have to be guaranteed a Super O to move out so soon and take that hardship on. Having said that, I just looked at some places to rent because of your post and there are one or two places that are slightly less than half my wage. I would like to save some "backup" money though, not just move in with what I have in the bank now. I have a lot of computer/media/studio equipment though. Currently they come under mum's house insurance. I need some type of insurance where I move too.

    Re: Aneros, I am just going to have to brute-force it. And steal a chance when I can. If it is a Friday night or Saturday after clubbing/pick up then so be it. I am usually too drunk or tired to do anything if I have a REALLY wild night out, but I'm just going to have to have to tone my nights out down (drinkingwise), and see if I can prep for an Aneros session when I get home.

    Once I am "MMO", I'll care less who knows. But at the moment, it's just plastic in my ass. Not a good look.
  • Billy11
    Posts: 280
    Ya I know what you mean as far as expenses eating up your paycheck. I've never liked to be too dependent on others so have always just done what it takes to live on my own. Awhile back I moved from living with a roommate where my rent was $310 a month so I could live in my own place and now pay $620 a month. So I pretty much am paying double rent just have my own place. It's just so worth it though for me at least. Love my privacy and not having to deal with roommates.
    If you're living rent and bill free right now then you should be able to save some serious money pretty quick working full time with little expenses. Plus you could always stop by moms house for food.
    seems like you have a lot you have to pay for where you're from. I live in an apartment and a lot of what you speak of is part of the rent. As in gas, water, and garbage is included in the rent. I don't have cable television cause I can pretty much watch what I want online.

    Here's an idea for your sessions. Your mom isn't going to come in your bedroom and pull the covers off you is she? I like to be warm during my sessions and usually have my blanket over me. If someone were to come in on me it would just look like I'm sleeping or taking a rest or something. Hell I've even answered my door during a session. Just threw on some shorts or what not. Just because you have that "piece of plastic" up your ass doesn't mean others know it's there.
    Point is is it shouldn't be that much of a hassle to just lube up real quick slip it in and lie in bed "pretending" to be going to sleep. When done you can go into the bathroom as if your taking a crap and wash up. There's no reason for your mom to be bothering you while you're using the bathroom.
  • MyTurn
    Posts: 447
    Bill11, I do pay mum £400 "keep" (her idea) - which I guess is good coz it gets me used to sharing out my wages. On top, I pay £20 a week gas and electric (we have "top up" cards and keys instead of quaterly bills), so if I move out, it won't be a TOTAL shock, but it will be very hard. I get food here. In my own place, I'd be eating toast and stuff. :(

    By the way, I had a session last night. I waited for mum to go to sleep. I feel like I failed coz I ejaculated. I will explain more in its own thread.
  • MyTurn, sorry if this is repetitious of other posts, but those guys are on to something for you.

    I suggest that you, as a younger guy, can get by with a little less sleep every few days. You have to plan this stuff a bit, given your situation, but your inclination for a morning session was undeniably correct, IHMO. So, here's my suggestion: 1. SSSE (Shit shower shave enema) before bed (enema to flush out the day, clean the rectum, of course) 2. Go to SLEEP when you go to bed. 3. Set the alarm (or however best to wake up and not bother mum) for 5:30am. 4. Indulge in Aneros.

    MT, "brute-forcing" is NOT the way to go. Aneros needs tranquility to work, not rush-rush. You need time and quiet to "listen" for the feedback from your prostate, and using it when you're tired, high, drunk or stressed is simply a recipe for disappointment and frustration. You have to find a better solution. This just might be it. Being rested is one of the things I always stress, especially for new users.

    Now, if you're like me, and vocalize a bit when "suffering" you may need to learn a new technique for keeping that bottled up a bit, but I submit that your body will respond MUCH better when rested, you'll get your sessions in whenever you like, given her schedule, and things will improve. I have found morning sessions to be almost unremittingly successful. The body just loves to be rested, and full of piss and vinegar for the day.

    So try a morning routine for yourself, man. I'll bet it'll bloom for you. I'll be sending you energy as I go to bed, 6 hours on the other side of the pond.

    Cockadoodle