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Do we males forget to how to be multiple orgasmic?
  • alvalv
    Posts: 179
    The reason I ask this question, is that as a pre puberty young lad I vaguely remember I used to masturbate for very long time and really enjoyed what I now presume to be a multi orgasmic elevated state. This lasted as long as I masturbated there was no real defined end with me playing with my pleasure giver at some time or other I would end, go to sleep or resume play.

    Then one day it happened – some more intense pleasure and squirt and that was the end. Soon I learned to squirt as quickly as possible, oh what a mistake - as a premature ejaulator too quickly the pillow looked better than my girlfriend - coming who came up with that term, more appropriately it should be going. Anyway the quick coming or rather going took me a long time to unlearn, however, the pillow still looked better than my girlfriend but just some time later.

    Now as a 57 yo adult and with the aid of the Aneros I have found my pre puberty multi orgasmic state again, orgasm over orgasm, with no erection and no ejaculation, and I know that I am not alone in this experience. Now all that remains is to surprise my girlfriend and show her that the pillow does not look better than her.

    This brings me back to the question, does ejaculation rewire us in our early years in such a way that we forget that we are multiple orgasmic?

    The answer is yes, that is IMHO, and what wonderful news for all young boys and men, but society and religion have to change their view on sex and masturbation, there is nothing evil, dirty or forbidden! We should teach our sons (and daughters) early in their life and reassure them that there is nothing wrong in loving our own bodies and exploring the pleasures it can give and that squirting is not the aim. Just imagine the joy of two young lovers, both who are comfortable with their own pre-explored solo sexuality and both knowing that male ejaculation is not the aim.
  • Yes i have the same problem i blow too soon when really aroused not even two minutes i will last
    well this is just too bad when i get a gf as i dont want to dissapoint her, leave her sexually unsatisfied
    and wanting more of my trobbing penis trusting in and out of her vagina i want to be able to satisfy myself whilst at the same time giving her a couple of orgasms she will never forget dammit it just isnt fair why cant i last like ten minutes or a bit longer much like a pornstar see look i am not so selfishly self absorbed after all, so how can i put and end to my premature dilemma once and for all
    somebody plz give me some advice, oh yeah and by the way alv good hearing from you buddy
    does your username alv stand for alvin? Or am i just plain wrong?

    Cheers the clit licker i mean the theclitta thecritta

    :D :D :lol: :lol:
  • alvalv
    Posts: 179
    thecritta said:


    does your username alv stand for alvin?



    I googled "alvin" and learned what cute creature Alvin is - rest assured had I known this before I would have used "alvin" as my username.
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,604
    alv said:

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    This brings me back to the question, does ejaculation rewire us in our early years in such a way that we forget that we are multiple orgasmic?

    The answer is yes, that is IMHO, and what wonderful news for all young boys and men, but society and religion have to change their view on sex and masturbation, there is nothing evil, dirty or forbidden! We should teach our sons (and daughters) early in their life and reassure them that there is nothing wrong in loving our own bodies and exploring the pleasures it can give and that squirting is not the aim. Just imagine the joy of two young lovers, both who are comfortable with their own pre-explored solo sexuality and both knowing that male ejaculation is not the aim.



    Yes! However, I think our multi-orgasmic nature predates puberty and may be inborn.

    As babies, young children and kids we enjoyed being raised to heights of pleasure, giggling and near hysteria by nuzzling and tickling, first offered by our parents then by siblings and friends. We learned how to raise others to extremes of pleasure, sometimes to the point of exhaustion. We learned how to tease and be teased. Learned the joy of trusting and being trusted. Those lessons laid the foundation for our favorite foreplay patterns.

    Then, as well said above, ejaculation triggered the hormonal flood that obliterates ecstasy. It became a goal unto itself as we wired into being procreative animals.
  • This is part of my problem as well. My wife needs a lot of stimulation to relax, SO by the time we get to intercourse I tend not to last long. This isn't the biggest problem for me since I have a really short refractory period, minutes rather than hours. My wife actually does not mind so much, because I always finish what I start. I long ago got used to going down on her after I have come inside of her(I can't say I really dig the taste of my own jizz, but I do it for her). This is actually a huge turn on for her. I do wish at times I could last for long periods of time though.
  • alv said:

    The reason I ask this question, is that as a pre puberty young lad I vaguely remember I used to masturbate for very long time and really enjoyed what I now presume to be a multi orgasmic elevated state. This lasted as long as I masturbated there was no real defined end with me playing with my pleasure giver at some time or other I would end, go to sleep or resume play.



    YES! I remember those days! :wink:
    I was just talking about this very subject with my girlfriend. How everything went down the crapper after I had my first ejaculation. My first response was, "What is THIS?!" and then, "Why can't I get that great feeling again?". I remember it well. :cry:
  • alvalv
    Posts: 179
    Crit and Osterman, do you know that before ejaculation your testicles get really pulled tight to your penis, so if you grab them and pull them away (or get your partner to do that) you will delay your climax. This is a well proven tactic that worked for me, at the same time it is advised you could also squeeze you PC muscle but personally I found that triggered ejaculation instead of delaying due to the prostate stimulation.


    Possibly you could also try a sort of a testicle ring (as opposed to a penis ring) that keep your testicles far way from your penis - I do not know if this works but I read somewhere that it does.
  • Osterman said:

    This is part of my problem as well. My wife needs a lot of stimulation to relax, SO by the time we get to intercourse I tend not to last long. This isn't the biggest problem for me since I have a really short refractory period, minutes rather than hours. My wife actually does not mind so much, because I always finish what I start. I long ago got used to going down on her after I have come inside of her(I can't say I really dig the taste of my own jizz, but I do it for her). This is actually a huge turn on for her. I do wish at times I could last for long periods of time though.



    That is beyond disgusting.
  • Osterman said:

    This is part of my problem as well. My wife needs a lot of stimulation to relax, SO by the time we get to intercourse I tend not to last long. This isn't the biggest problem for me since I have a really short refractory period, minutes rather than hours. My wife actually does not mind so much, because I always finish what I start. I long ago got used to going down on her after I have come inside of her(I can't say I really dig the taste of my own jizz, but I do it for her). This is actually a huge turn on for her. I do wish at times I could last for long periods of time though.



    That is beyond disgusting.


    newtoforums-

    I hope we can keep this a judgment free forum and next time you will keep these kind of opinions to yourself.
    Bishop
  • tokertoker
    Posts: 128
    you would not hesitate in getting a blow job after you have had your cock in a woman so whats the difference its just fluid not into it myself but who am i or you to judge if you are on this forum you already do something that a lot of people would frown upon by using a prostate massager :wink:
  • Toker, Bishop: thanks for the support.

    Just saying, it is something I do for my wife. Trust me if your girl asks for some more head after you have made a "deposit", nothing will kill the mood more than you asking her to go wash her kooch because you think it is too nasty.
  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,488
    Hi Guys! :D

    Another great question alv!!!

    First though, Osterman congratulations. Your generosity to your wife is both natural and commendable!

    How many guys here, at least in their youth, have not been curious and tasted their own semen? How many couldn't help tasting it since your youthful shot range forcefully splatted it all over your face and upper body anyway!?! :lol: If you are going to expect your gf(s)/wife to taste it and your pre-cum, what can be so "nasty"? What are you afraid of, that you might be gay if you don't mind the taste? :lol:

    If your gf/wife has been down on you during love-making, do you refuse to kiss her when you progress to higher levels together, or make her go and wash her mouth out, before proceeding?!!! Get real men! :shock:

    Let's grow up beyond the very nasty one-dimensional macho-male socialization/enculturation, "The Rolling Poison of the Playgrounds", we have all endured or participated in. :twisted:

    Apologies for my strong opinion to anyone offended.

    Now, alv, back to your question:

    My own life experience also says YES! We are wired very early for this multi-orgasmic capacity and its fullest potential from earliest days. I found it too in my early puberty transitional years through prostate massage back then and the astounding Day-After Effects back then, which I called Intellectual Orgasms: http://www.aneros.com/displayentry.php?id=205

    I have found their equivalent through Aneros/KSMO in the Spiritual Orgasms possible here: http://www.aneros.com/displayentry.php?id=269

    In my case, I think easy JOys and the "seed-planting" bio-pressures and the family-forming imperative simply took over my focus, and the prostate massage reduced to Super-Ting most of the rest of my life;:? until Aneros/KSMO reawakened me!!! :shock: :lol:

    Oh to be a teen again and have these techniques available!

    all the best whole being integrated orgasmic ecstasies and insights at any age all

    artform