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Genital bondage...? or something like that.
  • wohdin
    Posts: 42
    I've had this kink, so to speak, for a while - of taking something, like a lace or a cord, and sort of tying my penis and testicles off. It's definitely a part of my teasing/denial fetish, and I've yet to find anything like it for enhancing solo play. (I'm so uninformed as to the actual names of these practices, but I don't really care - I enjoy them nonetheless!)

    For instance, I can take a flat shoelace and tie off my penis at the root, then take the strip around my balls, adding another single loop knot, and then bring the two ends up by the center, seperating the testes and wrapping them back downward to pull them apart and tie it off again. When I do this, it seems as though just having an erection itself is intensely stimulating - but at the same time, mildly enough to allow me to simply ride the crescendo of arousal instead of approaching a climax.

    Does anyone else do/have tried this? What are your experiences? Do you think it's dangerous? Have you actually hurt yourself doing similar things?

    What about doing it in conjunction with Aneros use?

    I'm going to give it a try tonight. Still, I'd like to hear what others have to say about it.
  • newbie2009newbie2009
    Posts: 267
    Plenty of commercial versions out there. Check for constriction bands, lassos, cockrings, ball cages and various bands with and without snaps and buckles. Leather, stretchy rubber, plastic, steel, bronze and sterling silver (with or without gold plating -- your initials can be engraved etc.) :shock: :twisted:
  • wohdin
    Posts: 42
    I have a rubber cockring - but it's rather small and tight, and I don't like the lack of control I have with it. It really starts to hurt after a while. 8<
  • Mindgasm
    Posts: 31
    I believe you need to be careful if using a constricting wrap like string or a shoelace, as it doesn't allow for expansion very easy. As a result you could damage the works by the following: tying everything off, getting aroused and becoming erect due to enough blood flowing in, however now erect you strain against the constriction which doesn't allow the blood to drain, the extra tightness around your penis or testicles could then lead to possible nerve or arterial damage.

    I believe however that is the point of cock rings and similar - they keep the penis engorged for longer periods of time. However, I think for erection control, a lot of bands sold nowadays have quick release features in case you become so aroused that you need to release the tension. Also I've seen some that do not go all the way around, leaving the more sensitive underside exposed (sort like a cock-clip) so as not to damage a nerve bundle there. This is where I would see the problem with a string/shoelace is - if you become so engorged and tight against it, you may not be able to release it in time if needed.

    Of course, for some people, they enjoy that side of things (S&M/B&D) so YMMV. Be safe and don't damage the works.
  • wohdin
    Posts: 42
    I'm typically careful of that - I don't constrict myself too tight, just enough to feel it. And I don't keep it there long really - 30 minutes at the most.

    I'm good at working the knottings, and there's typically a part that I can pull to undo the entire thing, either by knot or slip.
  • esfenoides
    Posts: 58
    what about self bondage. You just reminded me of something I did a few times ween I was a teen.

    I would tie myself up and the key would be stored in some sort of giant ice cube, and I couldnt get free until the icecube had melted.
  • wohdin
    Posts: 42
    I don't think I would be into the full body bondage, truthfully. I prefer to actually be mobile.



    Bad news bear: I probably can't do this during an Aneros session. About 30 minutes into last night's session I ejaculated. It was more of a drizzling ejaculation, but it was a T nonetheless. :shock: Definitely not the direction I want to go.
  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,481
    Hi wohdin and all!

    Interesting thread.

    When mrs. a and went to shop for my first Aneros (MGX) and her first G-spot toy and other things, I also got a set of cock rings (flexible nitrile). Before that I had used an eyeglasses braided cable (for holding a second pair around your neck) to double loop and strands make a simple and easily loosened lasso. I like my balls restrained from retreating inward as things approach peak excitement, particularly solo.

    In the scissors position with mrs. a, and with the focus on energies exchanging, the more skin contact the better, so up and away with the balls and the scrotum skin dancing cheek to cheek with the labia lips and we are Fred and Ginger waltzing up that Stairway to Heaven (and many other tunes!) :lol: :lol:

    Butt, just like you wohdin, I found that I didn't want that added stimulus/distraction during Aneros sessions unless and until I was going for the Super-T. Stretch those cremasters boys and soon we all swing low sweet as we dance.

    I know of a guy who stretched his scrotum and cremasters to the point he used his full sack for double penetration with a partner, and personal anal penetration! :shock: :shock: :shock:

    now just relax...

    artform