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  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,196
    fellas-

    check out the mindful masturbation site: http://www.mm4m.org/

    (this is a spin-off of the Body Electric School and the Erospirit site).

    the main idea behind "mindful masturbation" is to focus all your attention on the erotic sensations your body is feeling, rather than on external fantasy (this relates very much to the "The five minutes leading upto a super-O" thread). and, of course, to use it to get into a protracted erotic/orgasmic state. this site focuses on the penis and balls as an avenue to getting there (while deferring ejaculation).

    lots and lots to be learned here.

    for example, he turned me on to an excellent new "sweet spot" which is where your penis meets your scrotum. just put pressure on it with a finger. goes all the way up the penis, into your balls, down to your anus and into your prostate.

    also, he is big on "loving" your body and marveling at the pleasure it can give you, that is, a kind of healthful self-worship. that sense of love is also powerful in letting pleasure rise.

    darwin
  • plantation
    Posts: 253
    good morning Darwin I know this site since lomgtemps it is great but I think that it is what we make masturbation with aneros mindful aneros qu ' think of it - you????
  • I seem to remember posting or asking something about Aneros on this site a while back and no-one seemed that interested. I don't know if things have changed with the increasing popularity of Aneros.
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Thank you darwin. I'm going to check out that web site.

    That's some good information you have passed along. I'll have to try that sweet spot.

    I think the "loving your body" thing really ties into "loving yourself" in general, which is really powerful in a lot of other aspects of life in addition to letting pleasure rise.

    Love_is
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello rorymuscle, :)

    Welcome back! That must have been a number of years ago. This forum is currently very active.
    Feel free to start a "new topic" if you have a question that is not related to what darwin is talking about here. There are many members here that will be happy to answer your question.

    Love_is
  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,196

    I seem to remember posting or asking something about Aneros on this site a while back and no-one seemed that interested. I don't know if things have changed with the increasing popularity of Aneros.



    love_is, rorymuscle meant that he posted on the mm4m site, not the aneros site.

    rorymuscle, i don't see a forum on the mm4m site???

    darwin
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Ahhhhh, ok. Thanks darwin. :) That makes more sense. I thought it was a bit odd that someone wouldn't answer a question here. :lol:

    Love_is
  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,196
    ok, i found the forum there:

    http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mm4m2/

    darwin
  • BigE
    Posts: 45
    I've been a member of the MM4M yahoo group since it's inception. There are a few of us Aneros users over there, but we seem to be in the minority. I've been telling them that some of the most mindful men I've ever run across on the internet are right here. Anyway it's a great group and worth checking out.