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Is this progress or am I doing harm?!
  • Diesel2215
    Posts: 105
    Ok so here goes! I am a newb and have had very limited amount of sessions. I have the MGX and I love the feeling. Perfect fit :) ,
    I had a problem staying aroused while having the MGX inserted and needed to find my feet. First I wanted to reach a normal O before I delved into the technical side of things.
    So I put on some porn and managed to keep my erection and came nicely. Yesterday I did the same but this time with a difference. I caressed my self until i achieved an erection. then with very little manual stimulation to my penis I slowly worked myself to a point where I could feel my self peeking, (if that makes any sense) working my way to an orgasm. I then stopped any penile stimulation and used the Aneros to do the rest. Funny thing is when I stopped stimulation I was no where near ejaculation, but the Aneros kept it coming (excuse the pun) I hand involuntary contractions and came very nicely.
    I guess my question is simple, is it ok to do it this way (re-wire) or am I cheating and loosing the plot.

    Cheers

    D
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Diesel 2215,

    Doing any harm? No. This is what I've called a Super T (T for traditional...i.e.ejaculation). In essence an ejaculation mediated by the Aneros. I should tell you that there are many advanced Aneros users who strive for this experience as well. I say, enjoy your ability to do this, but don't go overboard with it. If you focus on the Super T too much, (particularly at this point) you may end up training your body to associate the Aneros' prostate stimulation with ejaculation, (remember ejaculation is the dominant response). I'm sure that you understand that you will have to change your technique if you wish to go down the non-ejaculatory path to the Super O. My suggestion is to focus on that and keep the Super T in your back pocket for occasional use only.



    BF Mayfield
  • Diesel2215
    Posts: 105
    Thank you so very much for your response. I really appreciate it. One more question if I may. Is there a technique i can use to stop myself from Ejaculating, in other words take myself up and down the graph so that I can prolong the sensation?

    Thanks


    D
  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,195
    diesel2215-

    to answer your latest question: that is a bad question.

    as b said, only do the trick you are doing on rare occasions. you are just edging and then contracting the aneros to go into ejaculation.

    in most sessions, you should stop the penile stim, and focus on pure aneros stimulation. it is far subtler, but, to start the process that is what you have to locate and pay attention to. it is a biofeedback kind of thing.

    darwin
  • Brian is extremely correct about this. Believe me you don't want to start making it a habit of ejaculating with the aneros in because it's going to be very hard to break it. It took me to finally lay on my back and not use the stomach technique anymore due to that leading me to many wonderfully intensive super-T's. I wish I could go back to my stomach, but I know now that my body was getting in a habit of any contact it could get to bring to ejaculation.

    It sounds like you're making remarkable progress already as you've explained everything that matches the description of Super-T. Now you just have to keep your hands off everything and let the aneros take you on a whole other journey. :)
  • Diesel2215
    Posts: 105
    Thank you Arctic Woves and Darwin for your honest and helpful advice. I will definitely take it seriously.

    Thanks

    D