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My elusive Sweet Spot
  • tdt422tdt422
    Posts: 43
    Following advice on the wiki, I've have searched all over my perineum trying to locate my sweet spot, but to little or no avail .
    Unless I am missing something, I do feel plenty of muscle beneath my skin.
    Could that be masking it?
    I do kegels exercises, does the extra muscle tone get in the way of finding it?
    I think the P-tab of my progasm does hit somewhere in the right spot just the same, most notable when things take off during a session.
    I want to find out where it is so that I could experiment a little in that area when an aneros session can't be had like during regular masturbation, etc.
    My journey continues....wished I'd learned about this before 50, but at this point it doesn't matter and it's so hot (sorry, I digress - LOL)
    Enjoy soaking up info I can on this.
    Thanks guys.
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,460

    I’m with you on this one, I’ve been hoping to find my ‘sweet spot’ for nearly two years now and still haven’t found it. The best I can say is that I’ve found a more sensitive oval area of my perineum about 1” long and ½” wide, but even this is only marginally more sensitive than the entire perineal area.
    If you are getting good results from your sessions, then it probably is not a significant factor and there is no need to worry about it.
  • tdt422tdt422
    Posts: 43
    I agree sweet spot or not, it all feels VERY good and that's what matters!
    It won't hold me back.
    Who knows maybe it'll just happen?
  • thhnthhn
    Posts: 426
    I have read the instrucitons on finding the sweet spot but like you have never been able to put my finger on it and say "oh, there it is"
    none the less, I have had great progress over my time (no super o) and have not tried to adjust the aneros in any way. maybe you are too concerned about finding a magic button to push?
    For what is't worth, I wouldn't worry about it and just enjoy the ride. Experience does seem to be the best teacher