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zaneblue I need some help for a female friend of mine
  • Hi all

    I have a friend she has a problem in that she orgasms about 1-2 minutes after penetration and thrusting

    she can continue after orgasming for more sex after taking some short break of a few minutes

    she has orgasms very easily even just by thinking about erotic things sometimes. She often leaks a lot of fluids in her pants throughout the day

    she wants to know how to last longer before orgasming,


    I dont know what kind of orgasms she is having from what she has described to me some of her orgasms are pretty long lasting and full body

    however what she has described to me now seems like she may be getting strong clitoral orgasms because she has to take breaks between orgasms

    she is 18


    Zaneblue i am assuming you may be able to help me in this regaurd, with your vast knowledge on female orgasms but of course any help from anybody will be greatly appreciated

    thanks!
  • I have a friend she has a problem in that she orgasms about 1-2 minutes after penetration and thrusting

    she can continue after orgasming for more sex after taking some short break of a few minutes

    she has orgasms very easily even just by thinking about erotic things sometimes. She often leaks a lot of fluids in her pants throughout the day



    Sounds like the perfect girl to me! :D :D :twisted:

    Seriously...who has EVER complained of a girl not lasting long enough? :shock:

    Sounds like she is taking extremely high dosages of fishoil...but zaneblue should be able help if anyone would know its her....she has up to 45 orgasms a day....
  • hlaser99hlaser99
    Posts: 785
    Hi nervetweak!

    Your friend sounds very much like I was when I was 18 years old . . .
    I think this problem may very well take care of itself with some age
    and experience.

    However, I would start out with a check-up and discussion with her gynecologist,
    to eliminate any physical problems there.

    Another thing that comes to mind, is the possibility of her clit rubbing on her
    nice silky panties or something in her clothing that is rubbing or stimulating
    her clitty???

    The only thing left, IMHO, is a mental orgasm or a combination of mental and
    maybe movement in her chair or the tightening of her PC muscles or ALL of
    these!

    Hope this helps!

    Later, Hlaser99
  • She has a high testosterone level and im convinced this has something to do with it

    it almost sounds like psas to me (persistant sexual arousal syndrome)

    she was also on antidepressants before which i hear can sometimes do things like this
  • Well then maybe she should be taking estrogen to counterbalance it?

    On the other hand...where can I find some of those pills for my chick :D ...shes got almost the opposite syndrome lol
  • "On the other hand...where can I find some of those pills for my chick ...shes got almost the opposite syndrome lol"



    have her eat animal testicles or adrenals or more spicy food garlic, ginger etc

    but especially the testicles

    no joke it will work but im not sure if its good for her in the long run because it will raise testosterone levels
  • zanebluezaneblue
    Posts: 224
    Hmm....I orgasm pretty much on penetration but I can just keep going and have more. So it sounds like clitoral orgasms. Does she come this way just from oral (no penetration)?

    The simple solution for her coming too fast is to up the frequency of sex. The more clitoral orgasms a woman has, the longer it will take her to have them. You could also get her a vibrator and that will temporarily desensitize her and slow down her clitoral orgasms. Both of these suggestions only work if it's clitoral orgasms she's having. If they are vaginal, not sure--you could always switch to some foreplay and allow her to recuperate
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Nervetweak,

    It's fascinating how one man's meat is another man's poison. As you've seen, there are men who envy you for your relationship with your friend. As some men know, the opposite condition can be quite disconcerting to both partners. No matter, it is sufficient that this is something that she wants to change. As you've mentioned anti-depressants have indeed been linked to such conditions (as with Priapism in men) as has hormonal imbalance.

    If you are okay with the allopathic route, I would suggest consulting with a good internist or perhaps an endocrinologist. Outside of that, a holistic doctor would be a good alternative. In my area there are several that have medical degrees as well, which can sometimes give them more to draw from. But if she is pretty much in a constant state of arousal (as you've alluded to), I'd get this checked out.

    Of course you certainly might try Zane's solution while you're at it, (it couldn't hurt), but it seems to me like something else is going on here.

    BF Mayfield