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If Aneros is journey, is anal sex, pegging, analfingering 2?
  • MyTurn
    Posts: 447
    Hi,

    I hear how using the Aneros is a journey and how "results" are not to be expected first time. Can the same be said for anal sex, pegging, analfingering, etc? How can THEY be different journeys if they are essentially stimulating the same area (probably less, leaving out the perineum)?

    I don't want to go into graphics and stuff, but say, would a gay passive man or a hetero guy interested in pegging have to learn to like the experience?

    What is the difference then? Is it because we are doing it purely by muscles?
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,254
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    MyTurn,

    The time spent in the process of learning to achieve a (see) Super-O experience is the ‘journey’ referred to here in the Forum. The methods by which one achieves this experience can be quite varied. Anal sex, pegging and anal fingering are all possible methods to achieve the Super-O. The focus of this Forum is employing the Aneros prostate massagers to achieve that goal.
    As individuals, we each have preferences for the environments (both psychological and physical) and methods we may employ to reach the Super-O. IMHO it doesn’t matter whether one is homo, hetero or bi sexual in orientation to enjoy this unique phenomenon.
    As far as differences go, obviously pegging and anal sex involve the participation of another person which brings with it a whole plethora of complex psychological interpersonal relationships that can have a significant effect on the achievement of a Super-O. IMHO, there are far greater differences in the psychological aspects than in the physical aspects of the three methods you asked about. Muscle involvement is only a small fraction of the overall experience.
  • MyTurn
    Posts: 447
    Thanks.

    But I am not just talking about the Super-O but also any pleasure at all. Like, there are many here that have to learn how to use the Aneros - is there some similar situation with pegging, fingering, etc? Coz it seems not. WHen a man goes to the ..um, prostate doctor and gets a digital insertion, he is probably not open to it, reluctant, unrelaxed, but may still ejac all over the floor (I hear), so why is the "Aneros journey" (not just the Super-O journey) so different?
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,254
    MyTurn,

    The short answer is there is probably not much difference between the learning journeys in conceptual terms.

    I can not speak to the circumstances of anal sex or pegging as I have not experienced either act and don’t have any desire to do so. My own experience with anal fingering probably occurred pre-puberty when I found many areas of my body could experience pleasurable sensations from different touching techniques. It was not a case of ‘learning’ to like it, the touch was either pleasurable or it was not. I have over the years learned varying techniques for enhancing this self pleasuring but the pleasure itself is not a learned phenomenon, it is either there or it is not there.
    IMHO, the biggest difference between pleasure derived from internal prostate massage and other forms of sensual massage is the fact one needs to penetrate the body cavity to effectively massage the prostate. This is a very intimate act and one not commonly engaged in within western society due to encultured taboos against many sensual/sexual practices. This activity is one which necessitates resolving potential conflicting enculturation values, so in this respect there is essentially no difference between the “Aneros journey“ and learning techniques associated with anal sex, pegging or anal fingering.
    It should be noted, however, that anal sex and pegging are not focused on prostate massage, the massage occurs only tangentially to the act involved. Anal fingering, may be directed as a massage (as you described, a doctor performing a Digital Rectal Exam or massage to express prostatic fluids) for therapeutic or pleasurable (perhaps both, simultaneously) purposes.
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    What a fantastic question to ask MyTurn!
    The logic of your question makes perfect sense.

    So it was enjoyable and informative to read Rumel's responses.
    Thanks! :)

    Love is Peace
  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,474
    Love_is said:

    What a fantastic question to ask MyTurn!
    The logic of your question makes perfect sense.

    So it was enjoyable and informative to read Rumel's responses.
    Thanks! :)

    Love is Peace



    Agree completely Love_is!

    I experienced penile-anal sex a few times, as both receiver and giver, in my teen experimental phase with a close male friend decades ago. It was anally pleasant but did not stimulate my prostate in the same way my improvised missile dildoes and my fingers did in the same era.

    Rumel you are "right on" that sex with another brings many layers of complex issues, and that too effected my experience then. I found that my responses and interests were mostly heterosexual, although I found nothing "wrong" with the homosexual experiences I had then. See Zola's thread "Strap-On Recommendations": http://www.aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=2093

    Anal fingering from my youth onward over the past six decades has been a great source of pleasure in solo practice (largely focused on Super-T-ing, before I knew that term :lol: ,), butt has become utterly astounding in the mutual prostate practice my wife and I have developed in the past two years, along with my Aneros and KSMO techniques.

    IMHO, Aneros can lead to Super-Os and beyond and our journeys can be very different based on many factors, which in my own case, I am still discerning... As I've mentioned in previous posts major injuries mean that Super-O-ing can bring on real pain for me, not at the prostate or rectum, but musculo-skeletal pain of serious proportions. What are now defined in our Glossary here as Calm Seas Orgasms were also said to be "above and beyond" bliss states also achievable through Aneros rewiring, and that is where my body/mind wanted to go and went!

    Nevertheless, I do Super-O and most of the time that is from dear mrs.a's fingering during our lengthy mutual prostate massages, and when she wants us to finish with a Super-T I will often have several Super-Os and some spasming, laughter and tears before exploding into the Super-T finale. Mrs. a gave me my first Super-os (yes multiples) with her first fingering, and many happy returns!!!

    So, my practice has involved a thorough mix of Aneros, Key Sound and mrs. a learning the delicate fine art of anal fingering; quite atypical. I described some of this in your "KSMO question" thread Love_is: http://www.aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=3508

    My blog has more detail for those interested: http://www.aneros.com/displayblog.php?id=3544 There you will see the next phase of our journey into bio-electric energy orgasmic ecstasies!

    MyTurn, given your other questions, have you explored your anal/rectal world yourself with your finger(s)? It is a very worthwhile journey, and here I and some other posters may differ with Rumel slightly, in that the pleasure may not come to the foreground immediately and it may take a bit of time a rewiring to become fully sensitized, butt soon you will be able to clearly sense and identify your prostate and prostate pleasures... Ahhhh... That is soon you can also learn to call them up and fully experience then without direct contact from anything...

    BTW, mrs.a and i also have me loaded with my MGX or Eupho for several variations of great mutual pleasure! Thank you Aneros!!!

    all the best with your journeys guy

    artform