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Just some thoughts in the monring
  • Well, I woke up this morning and had a thought.

    Maybe we have this "journey" because there isn't any penile stimulation while using the aneros.
    Well, you know how people compare the prostate and the G-Spot?
    Most women can't get an orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone, they need the clit to be stimulated at the same time.
    So maybe, we NEED to stimulate the penis at the same time in order to get the full effects easier.
    This is not saying that it's impossible to have a prostate orgasm without penile stimulation, but rather that penile stimulation might do a great deal of helping out.

    Does anyone see where I'm coming from??
    Just a random thought in the morning....
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello mattiscool,

    That's an interesting thought. But it goes contrary to the experiences of men who have had success with the Aneros devices. Which has also been my personal experience. I did not start to have really good results until I stopped masturbating to increase my arousal. And also stopped masturbating during and just after an Aneros session. It tends to be difficult to train your body and mind to find pleasure from your anus and prostrate if you keep using your penis for pleasure.

    Therefore penile stimulation during a session actually makes it more difficult to find your way toward super-O's. Now everyones journey can be slightly different I'm sure. But from what I've read in the forums here, and my own experience, this tends to be the consensus. I haven't reached super-O's yet myself, just mini-O's. But perhaps once your able to reliably reach super-O's on a regular and consistent basis, you could add penile stimulation back into the Aneros session.

    What do the advanced users think?
  • Love_is,

    Oh I know, definitley! But, from what I can tell, more users have not had a super O than those who have actually had one. Which can be compared to women who haven't had a G-Spot orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone. I believe everyone can get this orgasm alone, including women, through practice...but the clit and penis might be a shortcut.

    Lol, gahh i have random philosophies :lol:
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    I see what you are saying.

    I guess in my mind I would see the clitoris and penis more as trail markers, rather than shortcuts, pointing to the possibility of a higher place. That higher place being the different types of vaginal orgasms for women, and super-O's for men. I imagine a lot of people don't choose to look beyond the sensations of their clitoris or penis. But that wouldn't be the people that participate in this forum. :D

    Lol, gahh i have random philosophies Laughing


    Not a problem. By all means speak your mind as you need to. Especially if it helps you to advance further in your Aneros journey.

    Peace 8)
  • I've had my Aneros for a month and to date I've had 3 Super Os that have included ejaculation. I must say they were wonderful, better than sex I've had with another person. I've also had more Super Os with no ejaculation and those also were very, very intense! I've also had several mini Os and "chair orgasms".

    Which ones were beter? At first I though the ones with ejaculation were gong to be but now I find them equal. I guess I'm saying that I revel in each and try not to compare them. I juts enjoy each for what they are, INTENSE PLEASURE!
  • Actually, i've read lots of documents regarding G-Spot orgasms, and in this case also, they mostly recommend to women to avoid clitoral stimulation for some time to increase the recognition of sensations coming from the G-Spot stimulation. Otherwise, it would be harder to see the difference between the two.

    They also recommend that the women be highly aroused prior to directly playing with the G-spot to make it easier to find it and get the best results out of its stimulation.

    I've not myself been successful so far with my girlfriend on that matter (we have 2 young childrens, that's taking a toll on our sex life), but i can't wait to start this journey with her.
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672

    Actually, i've read lots of documents regarding G-Spot orgasms, and in this case also, they mostly recommend to women to avoid clitoral stimulation for some time to increase the recognition of sensations coming from the G-Spot stimulation.Otherwise, it would be harder to see the difference between the two. They also recommend that the women be highly aroused prior to directly playing with the G-spot to make it easier to find it and get the best results out of its stimulation.


    That's pretty interesting Epicurien. It never occurred to me. But it makes a lot of sense when you compare it with what we've been talking about trying to achieve super-O's with the Aneros. So there are some similarities in the process that men and women have to go through to achieve greater orgasmic experiences.

    I wish you the two of you the best of luck in finding incredible pleasure.
  • For the first few months of aneros use I avoided anything even coming near my penis. It got me no where. I was also frustrated because I couldn't get stiff. By accident I discovered that touching the corona of my penis against the mattress during a session caused wonderful prostate feelings. I discovered that penile stimulation, mental imagery, mental state and relaxation allowed these feelings to be nurtured to grow into super o's with aneros use. Later I also managed to bring on super o without aneros from anal contraction and penile stimulation of a soft penis. I have been super o'ing now for 6 months with and w/o aneros. I do it by gently stimulating my soft penis head and doing my aneros thing or just contracting with no aneros. It is a careful balance of touching and contracting. Works every time.

    Early on I read that everyone is different and you need to find what works for you. Try different things and see where they go. Good luck.

    bigguy