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    Hello gentlemen, it's Josh again.

    Let me just say, again, that this forum and the wiki are amazing sources of information! You guys are wonderful!

    Now, since I last posted, I haven't had too many sessions, but there are a few new things that I just wanted to share with you guys and get opinions on.

    First off: my nipples.

    Now, as a bigger guy (Read: Pretty darn fat) I've always been ashamed of my moobs, but these nipples of mine are now something I love. When I last posted, they were somewhat sensitive, but the good feelings seemed to go straight to my penis. But now? They are VERY sensitive, and the pleasure feels like it goes right to my prostate. Love it! I do not remember who it was on the chat, but thank you for suggesting the visualizing training method!


    Secondly, I think I'm messing up my sessions a little. I'm doing the noob mistake of trying to reach a goal (orgasm) instead of focusing on the feelings. I'm working on this, though, and chanting internally "Just relax, enjoy the little things". But what I wanted to question you guys about is this: I'm feeling butt buzzes even when I haven't used the aneros in days. I mean, I'm feeling it pretty strongly right now, sitting cross-legged on my laptop typing this and watching my roommate play Playstation 4. (I'm a young one, haha. 23) Thing is, I haven't had a session in almost 6 days now. But I can also experience the buzz by lying on my side with my legs together.

    It's a stupid question, I'm sure, but these are surely good signs, right?


    I appreciate any input you guys can spare! Thanks for reading!

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    Oh, also, one other important thing!

    During my sessions, I use the Do-Nothing method, and get some nice buzzing.

    So the other day I tried contracting, but got nothing.

    Should I just not expect too much while contracting, since I'm not used to it? Should I stick with only slight contractions, and avoid hard ones for a while?

    Also worth noting is I'm finally getting some high quality lube soon in a couple days, so there's that!

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    • #3
      I don't contract, a lot of people don't contract.

      This isn't about contracting your muscles to "get there" but relaxing your muscles and allowing the orgasm to happen.


      Orgasm happens when you are relaxed and your arousal is high.


      Light physical stimulation, mental fantasy combined with focused attention on the sexual feelings in your genitals AND MOST IMPORTANTLY relaxation will get you there.


      Check out posts by Crimson Wolf (boomarang technique).


      Read some of my posts as well (truth behind rewiring, myth of super orgasm). This, along with Crimsonwolf's posts, will help you understand what you need to do.


      Good luck!

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      • #4
        @JoshPodge I would listen to the advise and postings of @neros and @crimsonwolf and others. You will see which ones are able to articulate the how to's and their thought process. There is a tremendous amount of wisdom and experience there. I do however feel that personally, the contracting as per wiki in the very beginning of your journey is very important. I feel it helps you strengthen those sets of muscles down there that will eventually work on there own when your mind and your body are ready. For me it was not a consious effort to stop the contracting, it gradually happened on its own. The time frame was within the first 3-6 months. So now, yes, I would consider my technique a do nothing... but the reality is that the time is spent relaxing more than you could have thought you could relax and at the same time be thinking of arousal thoughts. Each time I thought I was relaxed, I found a new lower level of relaxation and a very peaceful place.

        As far as the Buzzing, were all different and I would think that may be many of different things that you may notice on your journey. What you notice now, may transform as the weeks go by. I would caution about overdoing it. (the contracting) For me, I had what would descibe as out of nowhere lightning strikes. Also, as far a nipple stim, it was all new to me at age 50. Up to this point, I wasn't aware to this point that there was any connection for me. But as time progressed, they are now very very connected. At first I don't think my body knew what to do with the new found open pathway. So I would describe it as a old fashion pinball game where the ball zigs and zags all over.

        As far as the lube, I use certified organic Coconut Oil extra virgin. a little scoop, put it in freezer or refrig for few minutes and its ready to insert. Then I slight lube the Aneros with Pure Shea butter. Both products are inexpensive and found at vitacost.com

        PS. Dont be surprised if your journey has you starting to live a healthier life. Like eating wiser and exercising. I believe all of that helps. May I wish you well on your journey!

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          PS. Dont be surprised if your journey has you starting to live a healthier life. Like eating wiser and exercising. I believe all of that helps. May I wish you well on your journey!

          I second that.

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            PS. Dont be surprised if your journey has you starting to live a healthier life. Like eating wiser and exercising. I believe all of that helps. May I wish you well on your journey!

            I second that.


            PS. Dont be surprised if your journey has you starting to live a healthier life. Like eating wiser and exercising. I believe all of that helps. May I wish you well on your journey!

            I second that.




            Weird how all the videos on the net are of older less 'fit' shall we say gentlemen. Haha

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            • #7
              Thanks for the advice gentlemen! I'll be sure to let you guys now how the next session goes once I get my new lube!

              And work just gave me a bonus today so I'm thinking of giving the progasm a try!

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