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    I joined this website a couple of years ago but had little privacy to work with the aneros. During those years I worked with my nipples at various times when I could in the privacy of my business and home. As a result, I learned to send sexual energy and P waves all over my body that I enjoyed tremendously. Basically these were LESS sessions and still today, my less sessions are more productive than my aneros sessions.
    When my son moved out of our house in June and vacated the upstairs, that became my compound/mancave to do aneros work in the early morning. Since June, I have made some advances and have had a couple of sessions that approached mini Os. These were times when my prostate was pulsing, I was breathing hard, pleasure was rising from my groin and precum was flowing before the pleasure stopped.
    I need your help. I am hooked on working my nipples to feel anything pleasurable as far as P waves and the build up of pleasure. I see posts by guys who stated that their journey to the super O was thru prostate pleasure alone with the aneros working thier prostate and no involvement of the nipples. For me, without my nipples, I would be dead in the water on any pleasant feelings working with the aneros.
    So after 10 weeks or so, I am wondering if I am going about my journey to the super O in a misdirected fashion. The Wiki does mention nipple play as a way to get arousal and build up going. But I get the sense that most guys start their journey with anero prostate stimulation with nipple stimulation being a peripheral or secondary help. Am I wrong to be so involved with my nipples in seeking to be rewired? My nipples are more erogenous than any other part of my body now midway into my sixth decade.
    Thanks for any input.


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    @turnrow There are ways to get to that satisfying super O feeling. Its a very easy step to do but hard cause of the will to touch. But to get those same sensations without touching the nipples is to not touch your self at all. I say get you some nice aneros mp3 listening or I found that crashing ocean waves really get me started. To just let the waves run through you naturally will make you feel so good.

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    • #3
      But to get those same sensations without touching the nipples is to not touch your self at all.

      So Oluver, are you recommending that I not touch my nipples and go wtih the mp3 listening? Thanks for responding. Please clarify.

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      • #4
        Serving suggestion only:
        • Prepare for an Aneros session (get the device and lube, clean yourself out, etc.)
        • Start session by getting yourself to an excited state, sitting, doing nipple/breast stimulation. (Don't forget the whole breast can be erogenous too.)
        • Insert the Aneros device and lie down with it in. Get comfortable. If you're on your back, your arms should be at your side but not touching the body, and legs slightly apart. Put a pillow under your knees if it helps.
        • Relax. Don't touch the nipples. Relax more.
        • Breathe into the belly (diaphragmatic breathing). Concentrate on doing slow, drawn out breaths. Do not hyperventillate -- you don't want to get light headed from overdoing the breathing.
        • On the exhales, gently bear down with your diaphragm and abdominals. The rectal, anal and PC muscles should be allowed to adopt their natural relaxed state.
        • Try to clear your mind. If you want, repeat a simple phrase in your head, eg. "I am relaxed. This feels good." Just concentrate on the breathing and don't try to influence what your body is doing (relax your control).
        • And that's it. If nothing is happening after an hour, stop at that point. If (as I suspect it might) you're starting to get interesting little twitches etc. do continue until they subside.
        • Resist the temptation to "help". Your only task should to keep breathing. The body must be allowed to do its own thing.

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        • #5
          Thanks Twlltin.
          Seems like I have gone at this all wrong. I have had some good sessions, but all of them involved nipple stimulation.
          Any other comments out there????

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          • #6
            I also have always had very sensitive and sexual nips and use them primarily (along with the other erogenous places) and the aneros, to get intense p-waves. The nipples are even more erotic than touching my penis. I've been self conscious about using them during sex in the past because most men that I know don't touch them to get aroused (I'm gay). If I didn't touch them, it would be much harder to get aroused and I would have to use my penis. Definitely use all your erogenous places (except your penis in the beginning) to go for the big O. I haven't gotten there yet but doubt I would have gotten this far without my nips. Use all the tools that you have. You're very lucky to have sensitive nips.

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            • #7
              @turnrow yes don't touch. you don;t want to become to dependent on the nipples. If you do they may become numb pertaining to sexual acts then you won't have them at your use any more. So I say don't touch. Go to @euphemistic and ask for some of his mp3's or @rumel

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              • #8
                Good questions, Turnrow. I tried every approach I could imagine for over 6 months at the first before I read about a suggestion to tickle my nipples to get sensations started. Up to that point, my nipples were about as sensitive as a piece of rock, but within a very short time, tickling my nipples after I'd relaxed about 10 minutes with the Aneros in while holding gentle PC muscle contractions--that is a gentle pulling in contraction like you're holding in your urine, not pulling with your anus--really got things started. Now, all I have to do is tickle my nipples for a couple minutes with my Aneros in, and incredible orgasms start. On occasions I've been so "ready" for prostate stimulation (which after awhile you can "feel" inside) I've gotten orgasms to start without tickling my nipples, but it's such a sure fire way for me to get feelings going that I use it often and suggest it to others.

                Actually, throughout my sessions (which are about twice a week and relatively short, usually no more than 30 minutes) I keep up fairly steady gentle nipple tickling. It makes the orgasms come with higher peaks and last longer and thus has simply become a part of what I do. The little electric feeling "shocks" that go straight to the prostate when you first starting tickling them in a session feels fantastic too.


                I don't think that using nipple stimulation as a "secondary" means of getting feelings started is a wrong approach at all. I hope you have some success as you continue. Just remember in each session, whether you feel a lot or a little to simply relax and enjoy the interesting feelings as they come. Getting up tight in any way or holding some expectation at any given time is a sure fire way to kill any good feelings that start.

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                • #9
                  ... I get the sense that most guys start their journey with anero prostate stimulation with nipple stimulation being a peripheral or secondary help. Am I wrong to be so involved with my nipples in seeking to be rewired? My nipples are more erogenous than any other part of my body now midway into my sixth decade.
                  The Aneros WIKI does address Nipple and breast stimulation as aides to arousal and many men have included nipple stimulation as an integral part of their practice from the beginning. IMHO, 'BigOluver' may be overstating a potential numbing effect, I think that is likely to occur only if you use too intense stimulation for too long a period. I think your use of nipple stim is a perfectly valid approach to elevating your arousal level but if it seems to become less effective then perhaps ceasing for a short time would be advisable. I don't think it will help to increase the intensity of nipple stim in hopes of increasing your arousal level.
                  Good Vibes to You !
                  rumel

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                  • #10
                    As I expanded in chat, my thought is that Turnrow is now so sensitive to nipple stim that it's overpowering the more subtle sensations from the prostate. Hence my suggestion which should allow space for that to blossom.

                    Use nipple/breast stimulation to generate initial arousal, then move on to the session proper.

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                    • #11
                      I guess I can be proof that we are all built differently!

                      A couple of years ago I went through a phase of being interested in nipple stimulation and even felt I was actually getting somewhere with it, receiving some mild pleasurable feelings from it. At that time I had some communication with the guru of nipple orgasm, @Wuerstchen. After a couple of months I began to feel that nipple stim was actually becoming distracting and so I gave it up.


                      That is about the position I am at today. Whenever I have tried it lately, it seems to have produced no response at all, so I haven't pursued it.

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                      • #12
                        I thought that I was doing too much nipple stimulation at the wrong time. See, I never knew that my nipples were sensitive at all until I read about it here. That was shortly before I got my first Aneros (Helix Syn). I've been doing ALOT of experimenting, and I came to the same conclusion. A little (little) before you insert the Aneros is good. Generally, none during a session is best. If you remove the Aneros while still horny, you can use nipple stimulation with another technique (hard to describe but I read something similar about it here) to basically piss out all your precum. That will leave you with a strange mix of satisfied and a strong need to finish. If you don't finish, you should be able to go a few more days. This is just personal observation of how my body reacts.

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                        • #13
                          I agree with Ponnie, we are all built differently. I sense that my nipples are directly connected to my prostate because I am immediately aware of sensations from my prostate when I first touch my nips and the prostate arousal is directly proportional to the duration and intensity of the touching. The effect is different when touching the left or right nipple, and is very much magnified by touching both at the same time. I have to be careful not to irritate them so I use a lot of lube on them. They have only become more sexually arousing in this way. I do switch off, when I've plateaued, to other erogenous places. I've discovered that for me switching from right to left hand changes the quality of the sensation and renews the arousal effect. My sense is that since I started using my nips to get aroused in my teens, I've actually hard wired them to my other erogenous places including my prostate. So now for me it's more unthinkable to abstain from my nips to get aroused than my penis. They're all connected, at least for me. I have had no negative effects from stimulating them if i take care of them. If the prostate and the area around it are the nexus of arousal and the path to the super O, then for me that path seems to lead directly through my nipples! Maybe for others it depends on whether you've developed them as a source of arousal and how far along you are in developing them. If you haven't done the work, then maybe you should concentrate on other sources of arousal. But if you haven't discovered them yet, don't be discouraged by the negative talk about nipples. Do at least try them.


                          On the other hand I can't say that I've had any kind of orgasm by nipple stimulation alone but I don't hold that against them. Like the prostate they all play a role.

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                          • #14
                            My nipples are wired to my penis, my prostate, my scrotum, and basically my whole body. I can use my mind to direct the sensation from nipple stimulation to a particular body part or area. Sometimes I have whole body orgasms where there is a wave of pleasure throughout my body from nipple stimulation. I had the experience a few weeks ago where I had been doing some lengthy yard work, cutting grass with a manual lawnmower for over 2 hours. I paused for a break, sat down, touched my nipple and immediately felt orgasmic pleasure, with ejaculation imminent. I felt this for over a minute and had to suspend all motion to keep from going over the edge. This happened again a couple days later. What shocked me was how quickly it happened. It was like a fast car going from 0 to 90 miles per hour in a couple of seconds. I was working, not even thinking about sexual things, until I stopped working, sat down, and touched my nipple. My scrotum has also become much more sensitive to massage and holding, feeling. Allowing my mind to absorb these sensations has been a great experience of expanding my consciousness to feel how erotic all parts of my body are. I occasionally suck my toes, and when I stim my nipples at the same time, it is awesome, as I feel pleasure from head to toes, literally. At age 58, I am learning that I really know very little about sexual pleasure. I want to spend more time in meditation, just relaxing, just being.

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