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  • #16
    Up until today I have never been interested in gay porn. I am serious about my next question. I am not trying to jerk anyone's chain.

    I always wondered why a man would want another man to fuck them in the ass. My God.. wouldn't that hurt? A dick is a lot bigger than the finger my urologist sticks up my ass which drove me up the wall.. I just assumed that the man on the bottom was merely tolerating the pain to "pay back" for other favors. So what may now be viewed as a stupid question...does being fucked in the ass similar to the feelings I am getting from by aneros? As I write this dumb question it is occurring to me that it is obvious that it must feel good or they would not be doing it. da. Let me rephrase the question how is being fucked in the ass compare to the aneros experience? I am almost afraid of the answer. Let me guess... if I like the aneros so much (which I do) then am I going to start thinking about getting fucked in my ass? Hence an aneros user must ergo be a homosexual? I know that this can not be true. I suppose this is the point made in one of the above comments.


    I am at a loss to explain why I am asking about this in this discussion. I had nothing like this in mind when I posed my first discussion topic. But the discussion has turned to that and it has made my curious. I have never asked anyone about any of this. Maybe someone can bring me up to speed. None of this is meant to be criticism.

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    • #17
      @thick75 I dont think the discussion has turn to this but I am sure if you did a search on this site the question will have been asked many times. I have not looked but say it would have been.I cant answer what it would feel like but there is two things I have deliberately left out of my ramblings as it opens up a whole can of worms.
      Two very very powerful words.
      LOVE & LUST
      If your a man and you lust and love the other person your natural instinct is to penetrate them.
      This is why I believe a man may want to have sex with a man.
      If I am incorrect then any gay men please correct me?
      I say lust & love becauce of course you can love your brother , mother, child and not want to penetrate them but if there is lust as well that is when it all goes pointy so to speak!

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      • #18
        @thick75,

        Like you, I am firmly heterosexual and actually couldn't imagine having a man's penis in my backside. I too believe it would be pretty painful, but probably no more painful than a Progasm. This may be the reason why that Aneros model is not my favourite as I much prefer the Eupho.


        I must admit though, that I too, very much like the feel of the Maximus for a change and have had some wonderful orgasms from it. (Maybe it is time for me to revisit the Progasm)!


        Relating to your original post in this thread, my first reaction was to agree strongly with you that sex education in schools should include matters covered by this forum. (I have mentioned in another thread, that my greatest regret in life is that none of this knowledge (or equipment), was available to me as a young man. I feel I have missed out on so much in the 'bedroom' department and, even worse, because of my ineptitude, so has my wife. (She is a couple of years my senior and has frankly told me that, at 76, she thinks it is just too late for her). Damned shame!

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        • #19
          @Pommie said, "...my greatest regret in life is that none of this knowledge (or equipment), was available to me as a young man."

          "Knowledge is power, but real knowledge is freedom".

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          • #20
            I am a baby boomer who grew up in a small town in Northwestern Connecticut. My parents were Victorian. Sex was a taboo subject in our family until my sister got married in 1965. But still sex was not discussed in polite society. So I was kept in the dark until I discovered masturbation at age 13. The physician assigned me was a recently retired U.S. Navy doctor who was very uptight with me. I think he was homophobic. He was very disapproving of my masturbating.

            Yes "Knowledge is power, but real knowledge is freedom." I found answers to my questions on the facts of life in our town library. The library at the college I attended supplied many more answers to my questions. This was during the Vietnam years and the sexual revolution in our country with women's and gay liberation. Of course, when I hopped on the Internet on 1993, I had at my finger tips a flood of information for my quest of all types of knowledge.


            Boys and girls reach puberty several years earlier now than during decades earlier. Children learn the facts of life from their peers, even before they hear it from their parents. Sex education should be a staple for children in the schools in the same way good health and hygiene was taught to me in the early grades. The sex education that should be taught are the risks of pregnancy and STD's through unprotected sex. Mothers and fathers should support such education.


            A father teaching his son(s) the facts of life is an act of love and caring. Certainly such a lesson that could be taught is good prostate health and the risks of an enlarged prostate and prostate cancer. MMO's and the Kama Sutra may be suitable to older teens. I would think that the Aneros is really a toy for adults. What do you think?


            My thoughts on the matter.

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            • #21
              @bravenworld:i meant that its impossible to write a post on the net which is completely clear and politically correct for everyone. that was a perfect example.


              somewhat related to the sub-topic in here


              okay youtube seems to be blocked.


              "Authors@Google: Ogi Ogas"

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              • #22
                We've kind of strayed on the topic here. But it has been really interesting reading all the posts. I don't know what the answer is regarding whether young ones should be taught about Aneros prostate massage or not. I see good arguments on both sides.

                For those of you that have talked about or considered pegging, there is many men here like me that have gained interest in it as a result of our Aneros journey. But a number of us still consider ourselves heterosexual. Technically speaking, pegging is a heterosexual act anyways. Not that any of these labels matter much, you like what you like, and I'm respectful of other peoples sexual orientation. But us heterosexual men still deal with a lot of negative western cultural training that says if you stick something up your ass, society sees you as gay, or bi-sexual, which is really incorrect and hurtful. I have absolutely no sexual attraction towards men, yet the idea of a hot woman fucking me in the ass with a strap-on dildo is highly arousing.

                The use of Aneros over the years has changed my ideas of what arouses and feels pleasurable in my body, such that pegging interests me. But it hasn't changed my sexual orientation. Maybe it might for others, I don't know. Anyways... If you are interested, there is a pegging thread here in this forum:

                https://www.aneros.com/forum/discussion/10516/pegging

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                • #23
                  Now, regarding the 13-year old boy with an Aneros and would want to get transgendered, there's been a recent rash of young boys who wanted to be girls, and got transgendered, but as an adult, want to be changed back. Their actions had circumstances, yet they were obviously too immature to understand the consequences, and were sacrificed on the altar of Political Correctness. Now they have to go through another major surgery to reverse what they did before.
                  If you couldn't guess, I agree that an immature child should not be given the ability to enjoy this much pleasure from an area that still has so much stigma.
                  I had an English teacher in college who was a stickler for grammer, diction, and writing style. He would give out writing assignments and have them brought to him for a rough-draft evaluation. Mind you, I was a alternative student (about 8 years older than the rest in my program), in the last year of a four-year degree program, and while I was waiting for my turn, I could hear him tearing the previous student at least one new one; maybe three or more, it was quite brutal. The guy that came out, snuffing and rubbing his eyes, with his lower lip quivering as he stormed out. He was a senior in my program. When it was my turn, he just mumbled, did some jotting, agreed with some of my statements, and calmly told me I was doing a good job, and just needed to straighten out a few things. We got to chatting, and he told me that he hated two kinds of people: college freshmen, and college seniors. College freshmen are still suffering from High School Senioritus, where they thing they know everything, but know nothing. College seniors have College Senioritus, because they are seniors and are graduating shortly, and thus, think they know everything, but they still know nothing, because they haven't worked in the real world.

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                  • #24
                    this is a great thread with some great questions asked and discussed, really got me thinking about a few things

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                    • #25
                      I think we have reached a point in this thread where the great majority of us agree that this stuff needs to be disseminated to young men so that they can enjoy the advantages that the more senior of us missed out on for so much of our lives.

                      The big question now seems to be, "at what stage in a young man's development does it become desirable and before which he would be unable to understand or benefit from this knowledge or when it might be harmful"?


                      I guess I wish I had access to it by the time I had reached my late teens or early twenties and at the very least, before I took the plunge into marriage. Maybe our society needs some sort of "right-of-passage" for young men as is common practice in many tribal societies.

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                      • #26
                        @love_is yes the topic bounces around a bit


                        @pommie and all yes late teens early twenties would be what I think would be a good time.
                        A very cleaver and careful advertising campaign could also be done in young mens magazines which would defiantly spread the word. And at least sow the seed in peoples minds.


                        Full page ads something along the lines of
                        "Ok so your straight and you think you know a lot about pleasure and sex!
                        Ever thought to yourself "Is there something more?" Try Aneros. Better than you could ever emagine!"


                        These types of ads could go in FHM,penthouse,playboy.
                        Thats all I can think of. I am too old and not down with it now! LOL.


                        Ads in Womans Weekly for EVI and even the prostate massager. say "give your man more pleasure and make him a better lover! Get him Aneros. "


                        IT took many years for the sown seed in my mind to turn me.
                        I came across aneros on the internet from most likely a banner many years ago.
                        I was curious enough to look at the site, and it took me many years to actually buy one.
                        I visited the site a number of times during those years and the joined the forum shortly before purchase.


                        The problem as we all know is believing the adverts and testimonials.
                        They seem to good to be true and of course theres the thing that is most off putting besides putting it up your virgin bum. It does not work straight away for most persons.


                        Oh well I am sure the boffins at Aneros have a plan of how to take over the world!


                        I heard a saying the other day for guys which is a wast of time but made me smile.
                        When it comes to guy everything is better with bluetooth.
                        New model Aneros Now with blue tooth! LOL

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                        • #27
                          I came to Aneros through the health route. I actually found the HIH site first. Having discovered the health benefits of prostate massage, I then moved to the Aneros site where the mysteries really opened up.

                          Maybe HIH/Aneros could be advertised in mens' health magazines.


                          Maybe they already are!


                          Personally, I don't read men's' health magazines lol !!!

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                          • #28
                            This is an extremely important topic for discussion. Its implications go far beyond the use of aneros massagers and other male multiple orgasm techniques. What we are talking about here, is being at ease with who you are, and this includes being sexually at ease.

                            Many of the posts here are incredibly interesting, and give a tremendous insight into the ways of thinking, of perhaps the most sexually at-ease bunch of men on planet Earth. However, even some of these posts show the continued existence of fears about communicating this. I believe these fears come from the same stable of arguments that have been used by those who have sought to repress human sexuality over hundreds, if not thousands of years.


                            It seems to boil down to - if you are afraid of your own sexuality and where it may lead, then you simply reinforce a fear, that then communicates itself to the next generation, which perpetuates the fear, and so on. There would seem to be a need to break this cycle, so that we can banish fear, and move on as a species, and as individuals.


                            One of the things that I value about my aneros practises, is that it has made me look at sex and sexuality in a different way. It only works if you let it do its thing, and being relaxed and at ease is a pre-requisite. This IS a voyage of discovery. For years it has felt as if I could bully my sexuality to do what I felt it should do, but aneros use has shown me once again, that using your ego just pushes you away from where you get the most rewards. Once you have them, these rewards then bleed through into sex, and your sexual partner(s) also feel the benefit. Spiritual connection in sex (including connectedness and intimacy), only comes from this communicated honesty.


                            A lot of the arguments against communication of male multiple orgasmic techniques have their origins in fear of sexuality, and particularly for heterosexual men, the fear that they may have some latent homosexual tendencies.


                            HETEROSEXUALITY, BISEXUALITY, AND HOMOSEXUALITY
                            It is fairly well established that if people were free to express themselves without the potential judgement of others, then by far and away the largest proportion would be innately bisexual. A small proportion at either end of the spectrum would be exclusively heterosexual, or homosexual. Of course we are not free from the judgement of others. However, what we are most affected by is the judgement we have of ourselves, which is based on fear, and often far exceeds what would happen in reality. Fears have a habit of growing out of all proportion to the original problem. It is human nature to pull away from the source of such fear, to deny it, and to condemn it when it is seen, or even suspected in others.


                            SEX, MONOGAMY and FEAR
                            A similar problem occurs when we think outside the box with regards to relationships. The standard model is that we SHOULD be loyal and faithful to our partners, the assumption being that sex is the most important thing here, although many of us in long term relationships know this is not the case. A fulfilling sex life in a LONG-term and truly monogamous relationship is the exception, not the rule. There is an enormous list of dos and don'ts for relationships, all hinging on the somewhat inaccurate belief that sex should always be confined to a monogamous relationship. There are a whole range of legal, religious, and social sanctions that can be applied to re-enforce this, and personal fears about transgressing those rules, often lead us being our own biggest critics. It is important to ask ourselves why these rules should exist in the first place? If this was our natural state, shouldn't we do it automatically, without transgression? Obviously, the true story of human sexuality is not that simple.


                            Trying to "sell the sexual contradictions" that society places in our way, I believe causes so many problems in the world. Thick75 mentioned the problem of teenage pregnancy, and the germinating thought that teaching MMO practices may help alleviate that. I would go further and broader that that - we should teach/discuss/lead our young people (not just men) into thinking more broadly about sexuality and relationships, so that they are equipped to enter the world of adult sexuality with more of a rounded view about what it all means. The problems that young people have, come from the contradictions they see, and a failure to express their sexuality adequately leads to frustration, obsession, and even more problems for themselves and society. I don't think this means we need to provide them with details of how to do the techniques, or how to interact with others, but I do think that the implications of the existence of these techniques go far wider than just sex, and they should at least know of the existence of the alternatives.


                            As a young gay man in the 1970s, I was given sex lessons at school - pretty radical at the time - but they were so limited by their emphasis on the biological, and their avoidance of the emotional implications of sex, that they were effectively useless for me. No mention was made of homosexuality at all, and it took me another 7 years to even realise that the word "gay" applied to me. Then there was no information I could call on to let me know what that meant in terms of sexually interacting with other gay men. I had a small series of "relationships" with other men, that finished quickly, and had long gaps (usually of years) between them. It wasn't until I was 30 that it all clicked into place, and I felt at ease with my sexuality and relationships. It could all have happened a lot sooner.


                            I and others may not have known what to make of the information that male multiple orgasms can occur, but I would have stored it in the background, and would have had the ability to recall and expand upon that information when the time was right for me. The same would be true of any information about homosexuality, and perhaps more importantly, about how sex relates to relationships.


                            I feel it was a basic human right for me to have known about who I was becoming, and who I had the capacity to be. I feel let down by that lack of information.


                            Of course I am being very idealistic here. I don't expect the American religious right, or the Roman Catholic Church to suddenly develop a realistic approach to human sexuality. I think it is a terrible waste of human potential though, and if it needs saying, and if I upset a few people in the process, then so be it.


                            BUT, I am talking to "some of the most sexually at-ease bunch of men on planet Earth", and here I think we can make a difference. Guys - if you like anal pleasure, this does not make you gay. There is a small probability you are likely to have some attraction to men (as well as to women), although years of suppression won't make this easy to identify, and even if you are bi-curious, you may still loathe the idea this might be a part of you. There is a small element of self hatred in some of the posts here. As a gay man, I went through all of that BIG TIME in my late teens and early 20s, and this period of self loathing, exploration, enquiry, and finally liberation, has made me more content than I could have ever conceived. I needed to face my demons, and I am very glad that I did. Ultimately, the one person you need to be OK with is yourself. Other people's opinions do not matter, especially if they too are based on fear, and knee-jerk reactions. There is a need to identify who we are, NOT who we want ourselves to be.


                            My partner and I are now OUT to everyone, and we have received very little in the way of negative reactions, contrary to my earlier expectations, but we have had heaps of positive ones. Some say this is because we are confident with who we are, and do not apologise for ourselves all the time.


                            With all good wishes on your individual journeys of self discovery


                            Linum

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                            • #29
                              here are my thoughts on this thread:


                              1) does the aneros change our sexuality? yes, in many ways, as has been discussed in this forum countless times.

                              2) does it make us homosexual? while not necessarily good for aneros marketing, i am afraid that there is some evidence that it sometimes can in some ways. it leads to intense anal eroticism in which we can't control our fantasies. while many aneros users do not fantasize about male-male sex some who never did begin to do so. the reason is that the aneros helps us experience female style sex (gaining a great appreciation of what our women feel) and it is widespread knowledge that some men love to pleasure other guys' asses (while women rarely do), and that they have singular equipment with which to do so. it seems that few of the "converts" translate their fantasies into actual male-male engagements.


                              in my case, previous to using the aneros i had male-male sexual experience but never fantasized about being fucked nor about masculine men doing it to me. early in my aneros experience i had intense fantasies about having a vagina and since then i have become addicted to thinking about being fucked by a real man. (thus my visual blogs.) this remains in the realm of fantasy (i am married!)


                              4) should we teach boys that sex with other guys is ok? not explicitly. instead we should set an example of tolerance and in general be truthful about our preferences so that taboos are diminished.


                              5) should we teach boys about MMO? i think it is worth teaching them that orgasm can be separated from ejaculation, just so they know it. but i think it should be left at that.


                              6) should we teach boys how to masturbate? yes. they should learn that sexuality is about eroticism, respect, skill and knowledge. that can all start with a mature approach to masturbation. see: https://http://www.jackinworld.com


                              7) should we teach boys to masturbate their anus? yes, as part of the overall information they get.


                              4) should we teach boys about the aneros? no. they have enough to deal with in life without having access to a highly addictive sexual tool. the word will get out anyway,slowly but surely, especially given the internet, as somebody mentioned.


                              darwin

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                              • #30
                                OK NOW YOU HAVE DONE IT! YOU MADE ME WRITE THIS:

                                I am convinced that I am heterosexual. I had doubts once and put them to the test and came out realizing that I may have been curious. I satisfied my curiosity and realized that I am clearly interested in women only. It is with that attitude in place I began my Aneros journey. I never thought of prostate massage as being in the exclusive domain of homosexuality. BUT.. because of my very recent success with achieving unbelievable unrelenting extraordinary orgasms and the prior posts to this comment, I told myself I should see if I am missing out on the pleasures of anal sex between men. So for the very first time I looked at gay porn involving anal sex. I looked at maybe 10 different clips and reached a conclusion. These guys on the bottom did not even come close to having the pleasure I get now from my Aneros and heterosexual sex. I doubt that receiving a big dick in my ass, although admittedly it must be massaging my prostate, could possibly feel as good as my Helix. My current orgasms are so intense and all-consuming I could not take any more. I am really happy with what I have and not looking for a homosexual encounter. (of course if you can convince me that a cock in the ass is better, this becomes another matter. “It’s the pleasure stupid, not the sexual preference” (stealing from James Carville’s famous quote for Clinton)

                                The point of this is to respond to previous posts in this comment. I do not think that the Aneros journey by a young boy necessarily means he will change sexual preferences. But I do agree that it might cause him to experiment and consider the possibility. That, in itself, could be a problem. BUT I can say this confidently… if the young boy discovers the same pleasures I have had this week in the use of my Aneros, he would not want to do anything but stay in bed and orgasm every two minutes for hours on end. Think about the parents who have spent so much time teaching the boy about how he should spend his time studying, sports etc. The boy’s future planning would be limited to the next 60 secs when he hopes to get his next orgasm. He would race home from school and head for his bedroom. In fact, based on my recent experience he could just do this in the classroom, library, bathroom, gym locker room, riding in a car and even just walking around, all without the Aneros inserted. This to me is the primary reason for not exposing the boy to the Aneros. Not worries about his sexuality. Just simply that the experience is so damn good nothing else in life can compete for his attention. That is the best argument for not teaching about anal sex.

                                However all of the above deals with anal sex. There is one subject that is time dependent. The idea of doing penile enlargement during, not after, puberty. The odds are that your son will grow up with a normal penis without any enlargement. Do you want him to have his best shot as having an above average penis? This really raises a ton of questions. Does size matter etc.? Would the activity and focus on this penis cause emotional or unbalanced thought processes? I have not found any worthwhile literature on the internet. It is possible that doing the enlargement (mainly using weights and penal stretching devices along with vacuum tubes) exercises work better during the puberty period when he is already experiencing growth in his penis. Moreover, borrowing from the joke about Adam when he is ready to nail Eve for the first time., “Step back, we do not know how big this is going to get”. You might cause him to have a penis that is really too big. Before my penile implant surgery my penis was very thick and measured between 7 and 8 inches (hence my handle from pre surgery days was “Thick75”. Since the surgery I have lost about an inch (but I kept the handle since I use this to log in various sites.). But before surgery I never had to worry about hurting my partner. I could thrust and screw as deep as I wanted. If I had become even longer I would have had to change my techniques. Being too big is very possible with doing the penile enlargement during the stages of puberty. Hence another argument against my original post.

                                Interesting point (at least to me): With my new success with the multiple orgasms initiated by the prostate massage, penis size is probably irrelevant if it were not already irrelevant. When a man is experiencing strong almost uncontrollable orgasms that never seem to end, the woman is getting extreme pleasure and is not focusing on the minor issues of whether the man is thick or long enough. So I argue that with a successful journey with the Aneros, the man can throw away his concerns about his dick size. Any size will produce fantastic results. So again I may have made a point that a parent maybe should not think about encouraging his son to use penile enlargement during the puberty period.

                                Now there is one subject that a father can broach with his son. I think that just about every young boy in today’s times gets on the internet and watches porn. He is exposed to fucking from day one. But just about all the sex scenes on the internet show a man fucking like crazy thrusting in and out resulting in one grand orgasm on the girl’s face or chest. Men, I assume that all of you know this is not the way to fuck! This is the way I started out and for many years. By far the most pleasurable and rewarding for the woman are the practices such as shown in the Kama Sutra. Extended foreplay, a slow pace, focus by the man on serving the woman, managing his ejaculation or learning the MMO techniques are really nice. I seem nothing wrong with exposing the young boy to this very early on. This may be the only chance you have to talk to your son before he reaches that “Oh dad I now about all this” stage. As he gets older he may be embarrassed to continue his sex education from his father during his teen years. It is also a good time to point out that size really does not matter and be happy with what you already have. You are getting his head set straight from day one and I do not see any risks with this. Bottom line, give him a video or book on the Kama Sutra, a copy of Chia’s The Multi Orgasmic Man, and a convincing case on why size does not matter. Conclude by pointing out the masturbation is very normal and not to be ashamed of. But manage it so that it does not interfere with the rest of your life. Encourage him to talk to you at any time on any of this. He may want sex toys and you have no trouble with this. Point out that none of what you have said or taught him conflict in any way with Christian or Judaeo (?)views. It is not a sin to masturbate. But it would be a tragedy to get a girl pregnant. Etc. OK you are launched. Go for it.

                                OK I got carried away pointing out the obvious to some very experienced and knowledgeable men. I do not think that anything I said is original or noteworthy. I just had to say it for my own purposes. I will now stop my rant, BTW your posts above are really good. I am personally learning from you. So you are not wasting your time with your posts..at least as far as I am concerned.

                                At another time I want to tell you about my success in my Aneros Journey. Everything has happened within the space of one week and each night I conclude that I have maxed out in my development and very happy with my results. Then the next night occurs and I take it to the next level and I then declare that I have maxed out again.

                                Without all the details I can summarize thusly. For several years I would occasionally insert an Aneros really for the sole purpose of enhancing a traditional masturbation. Then recently I decided to really see if I could achieve a hands free orgasm. This last week has been my awakening.

                                As I speak now, after last night, I can now say that I can have more than 100 orgasms in a single night with such intensity that I can hardly stand. The night before I actually caused a muscle pull in the right abdomen and hip area as a result of the straining and contortions resulting from my intense orgasms. This night, last night, I had these orgasms even though my muscle pull was painful. So much for the concept that you have to be totally relaxed and free from thoughts that might interfere. I was fucking hurting and still had these great orgasms. THEN, in a rare case of discipline, while enjoying these orgasms I decided to stop the session and remove the Helix so that I can give my muscles a chance to recover from my muscle pull. My plan was to try to go to sleep and wait until another day.

                                I removed my Helix and returned to bed. WHAM.. I got the next orgasm. Nothing was different. WHAM again. All of this without my Helix. WHAM, WHAM etc. So I then thought about how to stop this. I COULD NOT STOP. The result was that at for at least the next 5 or more hours I continued with Aneros free MMO. I really got worried that I might not be able to stop this at all. Let me point out that I apparently can keep an orgasmic peek (as if I was actually shooting out my cum in a traditional orgasm) for as long as I kept my max contractions. Yes.. whereas a traditional orgasmic spasm may be one second in duration (bam bam every second for about 5 to 10 spasms) I was able to hold this spasm for minutes! I cannot time myself since I was so absorbed by my pleasure. But I can truthfully say that if I was so physically fit to hold my contraction for any extended time (yes e.g. an hour!)I could do it. Moreover as soon as this spasm ends (I am really cumming hard.. not the ejaculate.. just the feeling) the next spasm starts within a couple of seconds. This went on for hours. I knew that eventually I had to stop but I had no idea how to do it. I got up and walked around and I continued to have the orgasms. My fear was that the option of removing the device was no longer an option. It was already removed.

                                What finally worked was slow and took some time. I tried to concentrate of doing the OPPOSITE of what I had learned to get the orgasm. I tried to NOT hold my contractions. Since my contractions were essentially involuntary this was not small feat. But slowly the orgasms began to ebb in intensity and duration. Eventually I return back to a more placid state. Still feelings but not overwhelming. I then walked around some trying not to concentrate, attempting to fool myself that life is normal, what do I want to eat for breakfast, am I going to go work out at the gym, who is playing tonight etc. I calmed down and returned to bed. My session was drawing to an end. Finally I was free and not trapped by my desires . Remember that Confucius supposedly said “we are not totally free until we lose our desire for sex”. I really understand that now.

                                Here is the best part. Having said and thought of all of this, what was my pressing thought for the moment before arising from my bed? “Shit that really felt good, I wonder if I should keep going?”. Am I crazy? I just worked so hard to quit and I was to start up again? Yup. I realize that I may well be beyond redemption. Am I a pervert who needs treatment? I do not know the answer but my best guess is that there are many of you out there that have had the same question. So my way dealing with this is that I think I may be the luckiest guy on the planet.. a well-endowed dick that stays hard forever, an ability to have unrelenting continuous orgasms so intense it can bring me to my knees, a desire to please women, to have sex, and acquiring the skills to be a great lover.

                                So for those guys still on their journey. “stay calm and carry on” as the British say. It will happen for you.

                                I am aware that I may be making a fool of myself. But I just feel the need to “pay back” by telling others out there about my experiences for whatever value they may be. I probably have put most of you to sleep but there may be others who can relate to what Ihave experienced. To those interested I am willing to spend the time talking to you or messaging. I have not figured out how to chat or blog or send private messages. But I am working on that. In the meantime keep it up.

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