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    Hi

    My new life saver should arrive today, so in prep for teh past 3 days I had been gently using my finger and tiny smooth vibrator to explore and loosen up my muscles.

    However I now have a very achy bum and sphincter, so much so i would not want to out anything up there right now. My right cheek feels quite achy and when i press on the side of the opening it agrevates the ache.

    Is this normal in early on exploration into the underworld of my backside, or simply buised myself?

  • #2
    Update

    My MGX just arrived and although in a bit of discomfort something told me to give this ago.

    I only wanted to see how it felt for a few moments, so it was a quick session! The results - after 1 minute the butt pain went and I was left physically shaking, not sure from nerves or from the experience, but whichever way the bum pain went away and I was left with a feeling that I needed to pee, but when i went to the bathroom the feeling was more of an urge to ejaulate. As I wanted to save myself for a better experience with the highly supportive wife, I managed the will power to not.

    I am still very nervous in the use of such a device the thought of having to go to the doctors and explain how I injured myself is a bit of a passion killer, but I guess in time I will learn to relax more with it.

    I am of the mind set that things are supposed to come out of that hidden place not go up it, and my expedition in this has been brought on by periodic prostate symptoms although the doc says my Prostate is in good health and likely stress related. So I am putting down the bum pain to tension and the massager releasing this.

    I am sure I am not alone in being scared of its use, and I know i have to get over the fear that every little pain I now get is not due to some internal injury.

    Luckily my wife is more than open minded and this has been brought about for pain relieft but of course to enjoy it in a relaxed enviroment we intend to incorporate it in part of our regular love making, although based on what I just experienced the may be some of her watching on! Hey makes a change!

    apprehensive about damaging myself (yes read all related positive threads) but remaining open minded!

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    • #3
      Hello, sittingonagolfball.

      Welcome to the Forum, and sorry to hear you're hurting.

      You most likely did not use enough lube and also played too rough. If you're new to this stuff, go slowly, gently, and stop as soon as anything down there gets uncomfortable. It should feel good at all times.

      Cheers,

      Dave

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      • #4
        will see how it goes tonight, last thing I want is to become an internet medical marvel when rushed to hospital with some rare injury.

        Only thing other than today that has been up there is a finger (including doctors) and a very small vibrator, nothing pushed or used harsh. I guess I might just be that "tight arse"

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        • #5
          Hi sittingonagolfball!

          I too feel that I went overboard in anticipation of my new toy. I went from nothing-ever-but-a-doctor's-finger (actually two, but that took awhile and he was using a desensitizing lubricant) to a moderately-sized dildo (approx large banana in diameter...length is irrelevant as I was shooting for dilation, not depth.) I was fairly sore for several days afterwards, but this soon passed and has not been a problem since (well, once, but I was trying to sit on a new 'do; bad case of "eyes bigger than ass".) The only problem I ever encounter from regular Aneros use is that sometimes I sit in my reclining easy chair with it inserted. All fine for awhile, but then things start getting a little sore; I think it gets jammed into the prostate which does not like this for very long. Scratch that practice!!

          Just go slow, be thoughtful and careful, and when you think you've used enough lube... use some more!

          Karl

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          • #6
            Well first session will be tonight, wife gone and got some KY (warming) and after a bottle of wine I hope to put my fears of permenant disfigurement and midnight trips to ER out of my mind.

            Encouragingly with just a tiny vibrator I got an anal orgasm on first hit, so based on that I am expecting a lot My main focus is to get rid of this headache in my pelvis (catching a phrase from a book) my symtoms are very likened to muscle tightness rather than bacterial postitus. So if this cured the aches then I am a life time believer, if it gives me super sexual pleasure also then that for me for now is a secondary benefit which I hope to turn into primary.

            I am the guy that reads the side effects on a perscription and does not get the common side effects but instead the least reported. Everytime I take the tiniest particle of Lavitra (viagra family) I have panic attacks I will get the 1 in 100 million chances of going blind!

            so right now my bum hole is the size of a pin hole and hoping it will play ball.

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            • #7
              Not so sure about the use of warming KY. I'd suggest regular KY or a glycerin free alternative.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by sittingonagolfball
                Well first session will be tonight, wife gone and got some KY (warming) and after a bottle of wine I hope to put my fears of permenant disfigurement and midnight trips to ER out of my mind.
                Please do not use the WARMING type. IT is not meant to go up into the bum! I hope you get this message before you start your session.

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                • #9
                  yep got it, ok so on this late notice I have the following available

                  Durex play
                  vasceline
                  ID glide

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                  • #10
                    oh the toy company supplied a small amount of naturals glycerine free but its not a lot

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                    • #11
                      sitting;

                      I use Vaseline covered with Olive Oil. Works great.

                      Cheers,

                      Dave

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                      • #12
                        Durex play (not the warming, tingling or desensitizing version) is similar to ID glide. Either should be OK unless you're one of those people that is sensitive to glycerin (they both contain it).

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                        • #13
                          guess you cant beat good ole vasceline

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by RJT
                            Durex play (not the warming, tingling or desensitizing version) is similar to ID glide. Either should be OK unless you're one of those people that is sensitive to glycerin (they both contain it).
                            ID glide is what I used for my tester session bit runny so am thinking vasceline could be the best tool available for now.

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                            • #15
                              I may not be the best to comment about this, but I think the zero discomfort thing might be a bit of a stretch. I've completed the learning curve for the most part, and I still get discomfort. I have owned mine for approaching two years. In the interest of full disclosure, I have a very low pain threshold.

                              You should not use this post as an excuse to be a sissy. If I can take it, you can take it.
                              (yeah, I could run off with the sissy thing, but I have other threads to read )

                              But the point of the post was this:

                              warming lube = very very bad
                              chilling lube = not as bad, but still bad. Sometimes you have to use what is on hand though. (I kill me! LOL)
                              plain silicon lube = good
                              water based lube is good too. They seem to be a little slicker, but wear off faster than silicon.

                              I use ky intrigue presently, cuz you can get it at a drug store. And I'm just waiting for some cute cashier to be smart and ask me what I'm gonna do with it so I can tell her!

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