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  • Oh, good grief! In spite it possibly being true, aside from his horrible deception, the projectile results were hilarious. It looks like he learned a lesson about lube selection and quantity, not to mention how to treat people, the hard way. Kind of reminds me of the vomiting episode of The Family Guy, as well as the drinking episode between Leonard and Penny, vomiting in her bathroom after drinking several bottles of wine and a bottle of Peppermint Schnapps on The Big Bang Theory.

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    • The wife and I have had pretty good success over the last couple years with pegging. She currently uses a very sturdy, leather harness (don't know the name but dropped a couple bucks for it), and we have a Tantus Charmer dildo for the business end. The Charmer is a woman's g-spot dildo but has very nice ribs that work well on the prostate. Our favorite position is missionary with my lags wrapped around her back. It's a little awkward at first but once you both find your rhythm is great for mini-0's! We also found a cheap wedge pillow on Amazon and it can help things a lot.

      I love my Aneros and my journey is progressing nicely. My wife loves the effect the Aneros is having on me in the bedroom. Pegging was a way for us to bring the two together. I'm currently looking for a double ended strapon but am not having much luck. I've been looking at the strapless types but i know we will still have to use the harness and i'm having a hard time deciding which one to go with. We purchased the Share and when we took it out of the box, we were both amazed at the size and have no intentions of using it.

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      • Hello, Pbmazda32.

        Sounds like you and your wife have had experiences with Aneros and pegging that are similar to ours, except we started out with Fun Factory Share, which was a mistake. Our current dual-ended pegging rig is documented in this thread a few dozen posts back. We're still learning and have the goal of getting her to have big Os during pegging. So far, all she's been able to achieve is lots of mini-Os. I guess we need more practice.

        Best of luck to you guys,

        Dave

        Pegging Survey (please vote)
        http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
        Tool comparison photo:
        http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/...s-feedoe-vice/
        Wet HFO by strap-on:
        Sdms-837 part1 (straponed male orgasm) - XNXX.COM
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        • argyle -
          Sounds like a very nice first experience for you both. You are right - it gets better with practice! Thanks for sharing your story.

          Pbmazda32 -


          I love my Aneros and my journey is progressing nicely. My wife loves the effect the Aneros is having on me in the bedroom. Pegging was a way for us to bring the two together.
          I love hearing stories like this. When anal exploration ends up improving a relationship - yay! Thanks so much for sharing that with us.

          If you are looking for a double-ended strap-on - one option is to use the Outlaw Leather harness that will hold two separate flare-based dildos, one in you and one in her. I have experience with this set up and particularly enjoy the dildo that has a bullet vibe inserted in the base of it. Most dildos that have a vibe in them are not positioned correctly for contact with my clit, because the dildo is in my partner and the vibes only come through the base, which is often too high. The Outlaw harness has a dildo that is in me so the vibe is right in the perfect position. Plus - you can each choose which size you want! Yes, the Share is pretty huge...plus the double-ended dildos are hard to manage without a harness - even the smaller ones are definitely not a beginner's toy. Mainly because you have vaginal muscles competing with anal sphincters and the anal sphincters are going to win every time. So the woman often finds it hard if not impossible to keep the toy inside her - requiring so much effort and concentration that any pleasure she might be experiencing goes right out the window.

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          • I've been lurking this thread for quite a while, mostly because I don't have any personal experience to add. I want to say to Ruby that your advice and insight has been most welcome and appreciated. I have a double that I was thinking of using when I find the right partner, but would have never thought about the competing muscles. Instead, I will look into a good harness and leave the dildo selection up to what I hope might be a very fun night with someone special. Of course, this will all happen when the time is right in my life.

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            • rikaaim, Thanks for your kind words. Glad you came out from lurking and joined the ranks of the posters!
              Doubles can be awesome for solo play, too - the bulb end is like a handle and (I hear) it works well.

              For everyone else - I have been working on a piece of writing that may appeal to the members here - it's about how porn's portrayal of pegging scares people (of both genders) off from wanting to try it. You might enjoy it. "How Porn Ruins Pegging"

              Happy Pegging,
              Ruby

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              • Ruby, I had one pegging experience with my ex girlfriend. She bought a "beginner" strap-on set long before we met and was planning on using it on a woman, but plans changed, and we had a go at it. The phallus part of the unit was immensely huge and very uncomfortable. I was able to ease into it after a while. Anyone who knows me around here knows I'm no stranger to anal toys either. I was using double dildos solo and plugs of all shapes and sizes before I met her. For me to say that this phallus was too large in girth is a statement. The experience for me was utter bliss once everything got moving. I wrapped my legs around her back and just held on. She was standing on the floor, and I was partially off the edge of the bed. The position was perfect. I could have easily cum hands free. There are two reasons we didn't try again. One, this is a spur of the moment decision on her part, and I couldn't clean fully. So, there was a little "residue" on the phallus when we were done. Two, this beginner strap-on had no insertion on her part, either with a bulb or any extension from the harness part. We looked into the Share and many other models, but I think the first reason sufficiently grossed her out enough that she just wasn't up for trying it again.

                I have a double dildo that I like to use in the shower and plant one end into the rail holder and then insert and ride the other end. I very much enjoy Aneros, but love to be able to ride and get pounded by a strap-on or my double dildo. I tried once to use this double dildo with her, but the mechanics were hard to work out with the angles and such. Frustration lead to giving up. This is why I was appreciative of you mentioning double dildos with couples play. Maybe next time I can achieve more.

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                • rikaaim -
                  Always best to start with something reasonably sized. I consider that to be about 6" long and 1.25" in diameter - no larger than that. For men who have more difficulty opening up to accept a toy - maybe 5.5" x 1". There are undoubtedly many men who can claim to have taken a large toy right from the start but most men need to ease into the larger size dildos - and some are satisfied with the beginner sizes. I wouldn't go any shorter than the 5.5 or 6 because it can tend to fall out when thrusting.

                  I'm so glad once you got used to it that the result was "utter bliss". Nice!

                  There are people who are very sensitive to "messes" with pegging. Sorry to hear she was so put off by it. I'm sure you have probably explained this to her but I'll say it anyway...if she understands that it was only because it was the spur of the moment and you were not cleaned out - perhaps she might be willing to try it again. I can personally testify to the comparison. I pegged a man without his cleaning out beforehand and there was indeed a little bit of residue on the toy and a bit of smell. The following time he took the time to clean out - just with a bulb syringe and there was no smell, no mess - nothing but pleasure and nice clean pegging.

                  The double-ended dildos are really advanced toys and not advisable for beginners. They often set people up to fail, unfortunately. They are difficult to manage without a harness - and even then still a bit tricky. If she is looking for insertion on her end - consider the Outlaw Leather harness, which will accommodate two flared-base dildos - one in her and one in you - you can even choose your own sizes...

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                  • Hi there,

                    Just got an Tantus O2 revolution dildo to try the pegging.
                    First session i wasn't able to get past the inner ring of the anus,i guess i must relax some more.
                    Don't have problems with the progasm but tantus is a bit more so i have to slowly get into that.

                    Some time ago i bought a sex machine,mini stallion from orgasm alley around 1100 dollars for my fleshlights.
                    Amazing being fucked with that with a heated fleshlight.
                    Now i've tried to use the same holder with the Tantus and if i put some cloth in the holder it stays put no matter what.
                    So next time i do this i'm gonna let the machine slowly touch my anus,can control speed and depth,let it go further or faster in a way that it stays comfortly.
                    This way i can just relax and not do the pegging myself.

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                    • Hello, valliant.

                      Good luck with the machine fucking. I hope you are REALLY careful. There's enough power in that thing to hurt you.

                      Best Regards,

                      Dave

                      Pegging Survey (please vote)
                      http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
                      Tool comparison photo:
                      http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/...s-feedoe-vice/
                      Wet HFO by strap-on:
                      Sdms-837 part1 (straponed male orgasm) - XNXX.COM
                      Strap-on image gallery:
                      Strap-on Images

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                      • Just ordered the johnny vixskin to do the pegging because it looks softer to begin this journey.
                        Later will get back to the tantus O2.

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                        • valliant;

                          Please let us know how the Johnny Vixskin dildo works for you. I suspect the physical qualities of the material matter a lot. Even the various silicone dildos we have vary tremendously in feel for me and controllability, from my wife's POV. I think the huge variety on the market is in part due to the huge variability among users. Too bad it's a trial and error process. The costs can add up fast.

                          Best Regards,

                          Dave

                          Pegging Survey (Please vote)
                          http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
                          Tool comparison photo:
                          http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/...s-feedoe-vice/
                          Wet HFO by strap-on:
                          Sdms-837 part1 (straponed male orgasm) - XNXX.COM
                          Strap-on image gallery:
                          Strap-on Images

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                          • valliant -
                            You chose the only two skin-like dildos (Tantus O2 and Vixskin) that are sterilizable and non-porous - good choices! I'm interested to know how the Johnny Vixskin works, too...

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                            • Still waiting for Johnny vixskin,maybe tomorrow.
                              From the introduction movies i've seen it's seems an amazing product,softer than TantusO2.
                              Maybe easier for anal play?
                              Still having problems to enter the Tantus past my inner ring but i am very glad i bought this dildo.
                              This is high quality product,like i hope the vixskin will be.
                              Putting the progasm in is no trouble at all,maybe i don't get the Tantus slik enough to put it in.
                              Is shea butter wrong,is there better for pegging?

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                              • I would like to find a a smaller diameter dido, current dildo 1 1/4 " , would like a 3/4" silicone. I just would like something smaller to get warmed up for a bigger one. I see the pics of guys handling HUGE dildos and I cringe. Just wish to feel not quite so full. Wife suggested pegging me the other night and seeing her get harnessed up was really incredible, I am blessed and I know it!

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