Posted By: benwillard | posted: 2004-10-07 08:59:23

Hello all,

Where do I begin ... I have never felt such pleasure, ever!

I am a gay man, and I have always assumed the role of a top. The concept of anal/prostate stimulation never really occurred to me. Of course, I have heard of prostate massage, and have tried it several times with my finger, etc. but lost interest very quickly.

A few months ago, I heard about the Aneros on a Yahoo group, so I went to the local "toy" store in town and purchased one. Unfortunately, my schedule is rather full, and I do not have that much time to spend alone, until the begining of this week. As I was reading the posts, many have different positions. My favourite one is to actually ride it; using a cushioned chair or a pillow. I have not had a problem with the abutement tab ( I hope I am using the right terminology. It is the tab that faces front), but on occasion I get sore, so I move it slightly to the left or the right). I enjoy riding on an over-stuffed arm chair, dining room char sitting backwards, kneeling with several pillows, surprisingly: the car seat, sofa, etc. I find that a chair that gave me pleasure last night does nothing for me the next night, etc. I use a circular motion with my hips; lifting up slightly while moving forward, then downward while moving backward (hope this makes sense).

I can't begin to tell you how much pleasure I receive from this. The feeling to 'pee' is common at first, but then the pleasure takes over. Just when I think I can not go any further along the continuum of pleasure, I keep it up and have an absolute wild Super-O! The contraction of the muscles do not stop, and when they subside, I slow down, and start up again. It is hard to describe the feeling, but the best I can do is to say, it is incredibly intense, it is a whole body experience, waves of pleasure start from head to toe; then toe to head. I can have 4-6 "super" and several slightly less than "super" in one evening. Every pore in my body tingles. I can touch my arm and it feels pleasurable! AND ... all of this happens without a traditional penile orgasm; and actually, without a full erection and without touching myself. Also, I can not believe how vocal I have become. I sound like a wild man; so-much-so that on occasion I have a raspy voice the next day! I usually finish off with a combination of an anal and penile orgasm (the penile orgasm is so intense that I can shoot five feet! honestly!). Timing is important and keep concentrating on your body's feelings, so that you can achieve both at the same time. They will not lead you wrong! I feel like I get the wind knocked out of me, and I can't move for a few minutes, but that tingling sensation that is all over my body lasts for sometimes 12-14 hrs. after. Today is Thurs., and I have used my Aneros three times, already, this week. I have no soreness or any negative feelings/pain.

For any of you starting out, or men without any success yet, keep on proceeding. Get your mind into it. Don't say this isn't working over and over, simply concentrate on whatever slight pleasure you are getting. At first, I did not like the feeling at all, but after doing some contractions, I actually felt some pleasure. I guarantee that pleasure will increase. Try different positions. Do some expansions and contractions. Deep breathing is really beneficial, too. Sometime I can have a Super-O after 10 minutes; other times it may take 1 1/2 hrs. For lube, I use just plain-olde Vaseline--but not too much, else one's Aneros becomes a projectile when doing expansions and contractions -- it flew across the room! Relax ... relax ... RELAX. Did I say relax. Concentrate on what you are doing, and not the meeting you have to go to tomorrow. Get yourself aroused. I have a good video and DVD collection as well as pix off various groups (I may have ca. 20,000 from the days when newsgroups were the wave of the future (remember alt. ... ?) up to today)

I have found this quote used several times, and I would like to reiterate it here: The body's primary sexual organ is found between your ears and not between your legs.

Many mention not using alcohol and drugs, while others have said they do. I usually enjoy a glass of scotch and a toke (only one of each is enough to get me in the mood and to switch gears from commuting/office/professional mode). Do any of you also do this?

Is there a group of people that actually get together, talk and maybe play? I would be most interested in that. Straight/gay/bi does not matter in any way.

In closing, I've got to tell you about my purchase at the toy store. When I went in, there was a woman in her mid-twenties at the counter. When I brought the Aneros up to pay for it she said, "good for you. Finally, a toy for men that actually works. I have seen as many straight men as gay men buying this."

Enjoy the day.

Ben.

Posted By: Dalton321 | posted: 2004-08-26 19:26:21

I just received my Aneros in the mail today. I had read the online instruction manual and felt that this would be a waste of money but took a leap of faith and purchased. I am gay and used to anal stimulation on a major scale so when I opened the package I thought that the size of the unit would preclude any effective stimulation. After insertion and several minutes of deep breathing I began to be extremely stimulated. Again, this was the first experience with the unit and I achieved the "super O" within the first 15 minutes. I relaxed and had my second within the next 5 minutes. My toes curled and I shook so physically I thought the bed would fall apart. My hat is off to the designer. I can only say that this would seem to replace my need for a rapid ejaculatory experience any day and hope that I can repeat. Thanks again to the designer.

Posted By: kic | posted: 2004-04-25 03:18:03

Hi, I am a hetero male who has been into prostate massage for about a year now. I bought the Aneros about a month ago, after reading all the good things about it. I thought it was okay, until about 20 minutes ago, When I finally reached the point of release. First, I left the Aneros in for 10 minutes, without making any contractions. Just concentrating on breathing. After about 10 minutes of this my anus started to react to the aneros, at that point, I began the contractions.
I started doing deep contractions to the prostate, occasionally doing a few anal contractions when needed. When I started getting fluid drips from my penis, thats when I knew I would soon reach a climax point. So I started focusing and working on the prostate with deep contractions, when finally, when I felt I would explode (or feel like I have to urinate or ejaculate) I would do one giant push of an anal contraction. Fluid gushed out of my uretha, and I almost got the wind knocked out of me. I kept this up for about 10-20 minutes and filled a shot glass with prostate fluid until I finally brought myself off with an ejaculation orgasm. Keep in mind it took me almost an hour to reach this point and I never once touched my penis, but it was well worth it. My body is still reeling from the experience even as I write this. If your aneros came with directions, follow them closely, if not, than this site has them. This is the key. To all the skeptics, keep at it, I too was starting to become a skeptic until tonight. This thing will drain you. Good Luck!!

Posted By: art | posted: 2004-08-13 10:29:27

!!!WOW!!!

i will reply to my own initial post with a follow-up.

so i found some fine time alone to experiment again--and it all happened. it's literally a lifechange.

i began again to rehearse excitedly what i had tried earlier with similar results, but i decided not to do the back thing with the pelvic motion. i wanted to experience it in a calmer way so i really spent some time relaxing after i had lubed up plenty and inserted my friend. i decided to follow the online instructions as closely as i could. i just lay on my side and breathed and waited. there were pleasant waves as before. i finally gave up expectations and just lay there. i almost forgot it was in, forgot about what i was doing, when something started happening that i had not felt earlier. it was like butterflies in my bum, that's all i can say. at first i thought i might have gas or have to move my bowels. it grew and spread warmly to my perineum and then to my balls and then to my dick. it became a huge involuntary contraction as if i were going to cum huge, but it just lit my dick on fire and kept getting more intense. it's like the initial contraction of orgasm that doesn't end, just keeps on going higher and higher. it was really enlightening in a real sense. i felt really at peace and overwhelmed by this orgasm. it was a different kind of orgasm but it was definitely intense orgasm. i can feel it as if it's going to repeat even now many hourse later, just thinking about it. what had been really pleasant waves during my first experiment became real now. i am not sure how long i let this happen? i am sure it happened about 10 times. each time was different as it seemed to spread to different parts of my body. new experience in life is so rare and this was new and incredible. i began to feel and understand what my body was doing playing with what was in it down there until butterlflies would start and then contractions. my rectum seemed to know exactly what to do and all i had to do was respond subltley. if i did too much too soon with my anus it stopped the buildup.

after a while i started to roll over onto my back but it was too intense. i stopped halfway over with one leg extended and one leg tucked up in the "seated" position that i had been holding on my side. the biggest erection ever happened and very light touching was enough to drive me insane! i was touching one end of my dick and was aware that something was playing with the other end of my dick down in the root. i brought myself almost to shooting off several times each time stopping it from happening with some anal contractions. these added strength and intensity to the whole buildup. i still can't believe what was happening. i decided to let it shoot off and then i caught it and made it happen with hard anal contractions. no thick semen, no shoot off, but a lot of clear prostate liquid pouring out of me with each anal contraction, ending with some thin milky stuff. a whole lot of this stuff.

and all i can say is WOW! this was new and wildly intense. it feels like it has changed something in me, awakened my prostate, anus, perineum and other parts of me, got them all communicating. and i am a different person. does that make sense? to be different in some real way after this experience? it is as if i am sexual all the time now with this inner conversation happening? that's how it feels. it also feels that some type of congestion has been cleaned out physically and mentally. i am still wondering what happened and how. like this is a huge secret! i feel pretty privileged. i want to tell everyone but it also feels very personal and private. not sure how to describe a lot of my thoughts and feelings about what i experienced.

so...for those newbies like me who wonder whether this all works--be patient. it's worth it. i am expecting newer and different horizons as i experience this regularly. as a newbie, if i could give frustrated newbies some advice:

be patient. enjoy what it is while it is.

let it happen. i feel like it is something new to learn that for me was foreign to my previous sexual experience. it doesn't feel like something that you do, it's something that you experience.

learn to respond to subtle things happening and they may just surprise you by becoming way more intense than expected. it's like sex for the first time in a new way. i look at myself as a student of the experience, not the teacher. it's not just jerking off, making my body do something. it only really happened for me when i gave up and gave in to it. don't work at it. play with it.

relax, relax, relax. putting something up my bum was new to me, so strange, even if i was willing. for me the one thing that still hurts is taking it out though. not nice no matter how much lube there is. i must have a really small anus is all i can say? soft rhythmic breathing and forgeting about my expectations seemed to be a key.

this has become pretty long but i could write about it all day and hourse later still feel it happening like echoes.

see ya.

Posted By: Self Stimulator | posted: 2003-09-26 15:22:59

I'm not sure if I'm filling this form out correctly, I can't seem to find how to post my initial message so I'm using the reply form.

Well guys I've got it in and I'm sitting here in front of my computer reading some of your comments. Am currently doing the deep breathing and beginning the contractions. SOMETHING IS HAPPENING! It's getting warm down there and I can definately feel the pressure on my prostate!!!!! Tried rocking back & forth & that feels great as well. I'll let you know what cums next. Got to go now before I lose control!!!!

Posted By: B Mayfield | posted: 2004-03-20 12:11:26

Dear Intrigued,

I too am heterosexual and over the years have tried various different methods of prostate/anal stimulation; fingers, dildos, vibrators etc., but never got what I was looking for. I do know precisely what you mean, that on occasion, upon removal of one of the devices or a digit, I would notice some of what I can now term as "involuntary" contractions. However, they never lasted very long and were never of the magnitude that I would term as orgasmic.

What makes the Aneros unique is that it is able to stimulate your prostate, anus and perineal accupressure point (the "sweet spot" as I call it) SIMULTANEOUSLY! YES, the Aneros will enable you to feel a great deal more than you've experienced before AND THEN SOME. If you enjoy anal play, (and it sounds as if you do) you will enjoy the Aneros right out of the box, either alone or in conjunction with a partner (inserted with intercourse). Furthermore, if you are willing to spend some time and do some new learning there is a "redefining" experience that awaits you. I'm talking about the "non-ejaculatory" orgasm or Super O (as I call it). What makes them "Super"? Well for starters the intensity of these orgasms are such that they can be a "whole body" experience, add to that the fact they can last several minutes each and can occur in multiples (my record is 12 in one 80 minute session) and you have something that is nothing short of life-changing. If you read some of my threads and threads and postings of others in this forum you'll get the picture.

Check it out!

B Mayfield

Posted By: Luv Irish | posted: 2003-08-17 16:51:42

I was doing a google search the other day for a website I could no longer remember the addy to on milking the male. I found several sites that made mention of a new sex toy to stimulate the prostate gland. I am familiar with stimulating my prostate and have done so for some time with vibrators etc. But this was supposed to have some medical-scientific research behind it so I checked out some websites and read up on it.

I found the main site, aneros.com and checked it out and after reading decided to immediately purchase one!!! I got it the other day, very fast shipping, and proceeded to lay down and give it a try. I was really excited and lubed my asshole up with vaseline, my preferred lube for ass play. I lubed up the aneros and started sliding it in my ass. I was suprised at how easily it went in, as the design and shape are smaller that a vib or dildo and shaped to immediately reach and stimulate your prostate gland.

Having used vibs before, I know how to guide them to my prostate BUT I didnt have to do that with this toy!!! It guides itself DIRECTLY to your gland and immediately stimulates it!!! I couldnt believe the feeling and the ease with which it worked!!!!

I am not kidding , as soon as i had it all the way in I got the familiar feeling of having to pee and IMMEDIATELY , my cock started leaking the milky prostate fluid!!!! I could not believe how much dripped from my still flaccid cock!!! I have always been able to stimulate and make the fluid come, BUT never this much so quickly!!!

FUCK,i was in seventh heaven and the thing had only been in my ass about 1 minute, I kid you not!!! After the initial spurts of cum, my cock swelled only slightly and continued to produce large drops of fluid which I always taste and enjoy.

I was so fucking excited, I got up as we were going to go out to dinner, and walked into the shower with it still buried in my ass!!!! WHile in the shower, I started slowly stroking my cock, getting it good and hard. I brought myself close to orgasm several times, each time stopping when right at the brink, and would just look down at my cock and flex my spincter muscles, moving the toy in my ass . Each time i did so, trickles of semen would flow out of my swollen cockhead!! I did this a few times until i couldnt hold out any longer and stroked myself to a huge orgasm, easily shooting doulble my average ejaculation!!!

YOU guys that are into this have got to try one. I cannot believe how much different it was than a vib or dildo!!! lets hear some more. email if you have questions.. NEEDless to say, I have myself worked up after writing this and plan on going in the bedroom and taking my time tonite with it!!!