[MyTurn]

Hi,

If I enter into relationship, I want to incorporate Aneros use into our sex life as soon as possible (once I start getting pleasure from it, that is!). But it has to be done delicately and at the "right time". It has to be done early enough that the girl can decide to leave you if she is not comfortable, but late enough that she will not make a snap judgment.

I want to be upfront about Aneros usage. But, mention it too soon, and it could scare the girl off. When is a good time to bring it up? How soon into a new relationship is too soon?

[Geogio]

Communicate. My doctor told me about the benefits of prostrate stimulation and suggested HIH products, which led me to the Aneros line.

I researched a bit and had a discussion with my significant other, who was in total agreement. After a few weeks she was very pleased with the progress and totally supports this activity.

I couldn't imagine keeping this knowledge/practice as my little secret, especially in light of the benefits dervied from the theraputic use of these products.

We all have to communicate. It's important.

[brianadams]

I told my wife about it as soon as I ordered my Helix. When it came and I had used it once, I showed it to her and explained what it did. She was, and is, fully supportive. She has played with it while it is in me. She is aware of when I use it and helps out by stimulating me without penile touching. Helix + wife = bliss!

[artform]

Hi brianadams!!

63 here to your 53. I would say Eupho + wife = bliss... ecstasies... universal union...

Mrs. a and I went shopping together to the store for things for us both when I bought my first (MGX) Aneros.

Aneros + wife = bliss indeed! Congratulations to the two of you!! You might find some useful tips from my experiences with mrs. a as a couple in my blog: http://www.aneros.com/displayblog.php?id=3544

all the best to you and all couples exploring these equations here all

artform

[Billy11]

Shit!!!!!!!!!! Just wrote a reply to this and for some reason the browser decided to go to the previous page and I lost everything I just wrote! Was pretty long post and was only a sentence from being done!
Anyways.
I don't think there's really a right or wrong answer here. There's so many different factors that come into play that will determine when you will reveal your aneros usage.
One is how long you've known her before getting into a relationship with her. I knew my ex for over a year before hooking up with her (mainly because she had a BF). So by the time we did end up hooking up we knew each other very well. I'm not even sure whether I told her about my aneros usage before or after we got together.
My GF before that was a dead fish (one of many reasons I left her) and was disgusted with anything having to do with anal. So I never even bothered with her.

The connection you have with her and the quality of it will vary between couples as well as at what point into your relationship this occurs. This will have an impact on when you may reveal your aneros usage.

So I can't vote in this poll because there's too many factors that will decide when you decide to reveal your aneros usage. I never really even liked using the aneros during sex. I was actually more about my GF putting her finger (or two) in my ass. How bout that poll? How long before you ask your GF "honey will you stick your finger/fingers in my ass while we fuck? That turns me the fuck on!" Luckily for me my recent ex loved to do it and loved to feel my asshole spasm violently when I ejaculated. Funny thing about that though is that before we ever got together she had told me that she was not into anal at all. She said it with a "I hope this doesn't make you less into me" type of attitude. I didn't care at all that she wasn't into it because I really liked her as a person so much that it didn't matter. Eventually anal play just happened and she was so surprised at how much she enjoyed it. I never even forced the issue. I believe it ended up being her idea. Plus at that time I never had a girl put her finger in my ass while we fucked or while I had an ejaculation. I had no Idea how great it would feel. So really it wasn't even me asking her to do it. I believe it just happened one day.
All this just goes to show you really can't predict or plan on what is the best time to bring this kind of stuff up. It will happen when it happens. And that goes for a lot of things beyond just the aneros. No reason to over think it. It should all fall into place if you're with the right person for each other.

[IlyenaMiranda]

Actually, I am a woman and I have a bit of a reverse situation. I want to spice up my love life and am thinking of surprising my husband and purchasing one for him.

I don't think he has heard of one before, well he has never mentioned them to me.

I have recieved anal sex with him and in the past I have rimmed him and he does like a cheeky finger up the bum, but I've never actually milked his prostate. I don't think I had much technique to my cheeky finger, more groping around in the dark so to speak.

I came across this product by accident and reading the testimonies am intrigued. As many couples probably agree, seeing your partner turned on and having a great orgasm is a turn on in itself.

But I have to wonder, what would you think if your wife gave you such as surprise? Do you think I should maybe try and mention it before getting one?

Any feedback would be appreciated.

[brianadams]

Ilyena,

If your husband likes anal, I think that a gift of an Aneros would be very cool. It would say to me that you care about my pleasure and letting me experience some amazing things. I would LOVE it! That's my two cents.

Brian

[coolzeroo]

I vote for : Drop hints over MONTHS that you are on a MMO quest; gradually introduce her to the prostate, Aneros

[Helixer]

I voted within the first 3 months(although I'd probably bring it up sooner if she was playing the sexcard).
Coz after all, she has to know!

-that she can't get favors by luring with sex , since Super Oing is far better than any kind of sex she can offer
-so, she has to know that you are doing her a favor by fucking her
-at the same time isn't it consoling for a woman to know that you thus want her for MORE than just sex?

[Rocketman10]

I voted within the first 3 months(although I'd probably bring it up sooner if she was playing the sexcard).
Coz after all, she has to know!

-that she can't get favors by luring with sex , since Super Oing is far better than any kind of sex she can offer
-so, she has to know that you are doing her a favor by fucking her
-at the same time isn't it consoling for a woman to know that you thus want her for MORE than just sex?

That is so very true with your points some women think that they can simple manipulate us guys with sex and yes being on this quest does make us open and also shows them that we are with them for more than just sex

[ten_s_nut]

Hello, all.

Some interesting responses, above. I voted for the first 3 months. The sooner you tell your partner what's up, the better. My wife very much appreciates the improvements in my sexual performance due to the Aneros. There's nothing better than multiple orgasms while having sex. And, being able to have great solo Aneros experiences before, after or whenever is a big plus.

Cheers,

Dave