[B Mayfield]

Pinkhawk,

Have you engaged in anal play together previously? It's possible that introducing some gentle anal massage, particularly at the right moment (when he's highly aroused) might be a prelude for some mention of the Aneros.

BF Mayfield

[pinkhawk]

Pinkhawk,

Have you engaged in anal play together previously? It's possible that introducing some gentle anal massage, particularly at the right moment (when he's highly aroused) might be a prelude for some mention of the Aneros.

BF Mayfield

Hi, and thanx for the response,
I have tried "some gentle anal massage" but I wasn't even sure he noticed it until I gave him the Aneros. Then he said he understood why I had been going "there" more.
I really want him to feel the things Ive been reading about, but maybe he's just not ready.
PINKHAWK

[beetsplease]

And it was a huge success. I have a very, very happy guy who is completely delighted with his new toy.

Now I can feel all smug that I'm such a good girlfriend, but unfortunately I can't brag to anyone about how great the gift I got him was. :wink:

[evil-zombie]

if men would let go..let theiir female partners fuck them in the ass..we'd all be happier...its not gay..we all love it cause it feels good..ur ass is like a pussy..it likes being fucked..we have done this for years...its no big deal..nothing gay..shit..its about feeling good
she likes it..i like it..omg...

[quaips]

Amy and Melissa,
It's such a pity that when a girl likes anal play during sex, her boyfriend objects.
I had a very sexually repressed childhood, the son of a nurse who was the most sexually inhibited person I ever knew and who was like a bloodhound when it came to checking if I had taken up masturbation.
Before I was five years old I began to derive pleasure from touching my bottom (anus). I was strangely thrilled to think of "putting my finger in my bottom." When I started school I would look to see if any little girl in my class had her hand up her dress as I would think she was putting her finger in her bottom. When I was seven I would slide my left hand up my short trouser leg, outside my underpants, until I was sitting on the palm of my hand. I would then crook my middle finger upwards and press it against my anus. Such a lovely feeling!
After I started masturbating at the age of nine I would finger my anus and then hold the finger against my nose and sniff it during the process while thinking that the smell was from a girl whose knickers I had glimpsed. I used to think how lucky their knickers were to be cuddled against their little bottoms. I often wished I could sniff around up their skirts.
I then started pushing a clinical thermometer up my bottom and wiggling it about when I masturbated and this was like heaven.
So here am I today, liking the smell of dirty knickers and the smell of bottom on my finger. I would love to "finger sniff" almost any woman's bottom. I must admit I do not like the smell of poo but I can put up with it if it is from a woman. I would just love to have a woman fiddle with my anus and insert an aneros Helix or a peridise up it. Similarly, I would love to do the same for her.
I love female hair, on the head and under the arms and in the genital area. I also like hair to grow low on the brow and temples and I love downy hair on the arms and legs. I love the smell of female underarm perspiration and I would love to have my nose touching the knicker crotch of a woman sitting on the floor with her legs arched up.
When having intercourse I like to have something up my bottom being wiggled and stroked in and out by my wife who, incidentally puts up and accepts my likings but does not share them in any way. In fact I feel embarrassed to ask her.
Summing it all up, I love to sniff dirty knickers especially when masturbating or having intercourse. I love having something up my bum. I enjoy having enemas and colonics and the feeling when the, (it must be a female) nurse inserts the rubber catheter gently into my rectum and then pushes it up inside me. I can masturbate anally using a rubber enema catheter and I do believe the orgasm is better than when achieved solely via my penis.
I have utterly accepted my sexual desires and believe I am very lucky to have such "gifts." I think most men are inhibited because they think they might be branded as a "queer" and because they think all body smells, be they from women or men, are repulsive. Some proof of this is the lengths women go to to ensure that they have clean knickers when on a date and that they have "freshened up."
One last little confession from me. I like the smell of a woman when she is wearing a large un-deodorised sanitary towel during her period. The smell is a lovely "cuddly fishy" smell and so sexy.
So there it is, off my chest. Many thanks for letting me write this. I intend to buy a Helix and a peridise soon but think that the ones destined to go up a woman's bottom are much luckier than mine will ever be.

[cottonpicker]

Jane,
You are a very wonderful wife.
Mine has not had intercourse since 1989, only some play every once in awhile. She had a historectomy in the '80's and I guess her harmones are gone. She won't even talk about sex or discuss anything that has to do with it. She does not care about how I feel or what I need.
I have purchased the Progasm but have not had any luck with it at all. Would your husband have any suggestions?

[Veronica]

Hi Jane,

I'm a 46 yr old wife and our marriage is in our 27th year. Our sex life has always been great and we do communicate openly about our sexual desires and interest in new toys. Things don't work as well as they used to and it is because of this that I stumbled upon Aneros while surfing the net. I am definitely placing an order as we speak! I think that my husband will be very pleased when I introduce him to Aneros... and so will I!

In reading all the feedback on Aneros, I sense that it will help in these areas of concern and much, much more. I enjoy anal sex (tremendously) and I have also explored him (limited) in this area. Lately the stamina has lacked and he cums before I get around to it. This also limits us in anal penetration, causing him frustration and I want to help. Because he takes medication for High Blood Pressure, I avoid him taking Viagra for fear of consequences.

I have always enjoyed fellatio and sometimes I can't really say which I enjoy most: oral or vaginal penetration. Yeah, I enjoy it that much and I completely enjoy swallowing. You mentioned that with the continued use of Aneros, even the cum taste has improved and that caught my attention. Not that I don't like how he tastes, I have continued to enjoy it ever since we were dating as teenagers.

However, does this mean that by him using Aneros, the taste of his cum will improve? How so?

I still plan to do more research on prostate milking to keep his healthy and free of cancer.

Anxiously awaiting your response.

Veronica

[B Mayfield]

Veronica,

Jane, the original author of this thread hasn't been around in quite a while now. I hope you don't mind someone answering in her stead. You may know by now that the Aneros was originally designed as a prostate massager. The gentle massaging action of this device increases circulation in the prostate and has been of aid to many with conditions such as prostatitis and BPH (enlargement of the prostate). Furthermore, the stimulation that the Aneros provides, assures an ejaculation of much greater volume,... the gland is really emptied. I remember quipping at one time that I felt as if I had let loose with something that was left over from my teen years! lol. Others have spoken about the Aneros really "cleaning their pipes".

The point is that prostate is more healthy when there is greater circulation in and around it. Does this make the ejaculate taste better? Well, you would have to be the judge of that for yourself. But I will tell you that several users have indicated that it is the case.

As an aside, I greatly admire your openness concerning anal exploration. How terrific it is that you enjoy this yourself...and that you want to share this with your partner. (Lucky guy!)

With respect to "milking" this generally refers to a forced extraction of fluids from the prostate. While I am aware that some have used the Aneros in this way, it was not designed for this.....and I do not recommend it. The fact is that it takes some training to safely "milk" a man's prostate. This activity carries some potential for harm if not done properly. Regular use of the Aneros by contrast is gentle and safe. It's pretty much impossible for one to hurt themselves as it is ones own anal contractions that drive the device. If you have any further questions, don't hesitate to let us know.

All the best,


BF Mayfield