[MyTurn]

I have a low libido for a 27yo. It may be to do with the decade-long depression I went through as a teen? It seems higher now than my teen years, but that isn't saying much.

I have to wait almost a week to get horny enough for an Aneros session that may have any benefit - even though they don't. .

I am going to try:

- masturbating NOT to ejaculation, on non-Aneros days. Just to fill the prostate a little.
- watching porn on non-Aneros days.

But my question: Will any penile stimulation just "undo" any rewiring taking place? I've wondered if people with a gf/wife will rewire faster/slower/at the same pace as a guy who just uses Aneros and does not masturbate?

Females that "rewire" to have vaginal orgasms still have clitoral orgasms during sex, so I wonder how much of a backseat the penis must take in all this??

Thanks.

[artform]

Hi MyTurn!

I cannot answer your poll, which is a great poll question, because of the combining of masturbation and coupled sex. I believe from both personal experience/experimentation and reviewing comments related to this issue here and at KSMO over the last three years, that masturbation can slow or withhold the rewiring. I believe that one will make better, more rapid and more sustainable rewiring progress by allowing a day after each Aneros session without masturbating. This "day after" is also a time to allow any spontaneous After Effects to manifest while your body is rewiring and testing that new circuitry. After Effects are one of the surest signs of active extensive rewiring, and rewiring success, IMHO.

At the same time, I believe that fully developed/developing m/f sex anytime while developing one's aneros practice is not such an impediment. That is because the the exchange of yin and yang energies in hetero sex can itself assist the yin energies development in the male, that is part of prostate awakening and male multiple dry orgasmic capabilities. So if your poll had separated sex(couples m/f) from masturbation, I would vote that sex is positive, while masturbation can have a slowing or negative effect.

all the best with personally sorting this issue all

artform

[Love_is]

Hello MyTurn,

A good question and poll you posted here. I didn't vote though, because I think this will vary depending on the man's age, possibly relationship status as Artform mentioned, and disposition. For myself at 38 and single, I can seem to get away with one ejaculatory orgasm per week with little set back in Aneros session results. Any more ejaculation than that, and it can take a few days afterwards before I seem to be able to build any arousal and desire for an Aneros session. I don't have enough experience in partnered sex plus Aneros usage to reliably say what it's effect is.

For yourself, you have to find what works for you. And it sounds like you are starting to get an idea of that. Try and push yourself to two weeks, or however much longer you can manage of ejaculatory abstinence to see how it effects yourself and your Aneros sessions.

Love_is