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Wanting More

I have had my Aneros for one week now. I have tried everything from popping 1600 mg of ibuprofen to aid in my relaxation to having a few glasses of wine and also breathing techniques that relax me so well I fall asleep. I have lubed up very generously inside and out and have gone the whole night with it inside. I wake up dry. I have not even really felt a quiver or a wave.
I have felt a bit of pleasure from the Aneros sliding in and out with my strong pc and sphincter muscles. That is all. I pretty much end my sessions by "taking matters into my own hand" and ejaculate through a penile orgasm. I want something NEW!!!!

I have seen men use the Aneros on xtube.com and I envy their ability to produce a flow of precum. I dont even drip a pea size drop. I have tried everything with the SGX model and I found out it was designed for the smaller Asian male. I'm a 5'10, 250 pound 33yr old latin male. Could it be I'm using the wrong model? Please someone help me...

I am so looking forward to my Super O!!!!

I have even thought that maybe I don't have a prostate. :-(

I am seriously considering on purchasing the Progasm. Am I making the right decision here??

Reader Comments

Posted on 2010-03-08 22:48:45 by rumel

vitocchondo,

Forget the reviews you have read, as tantalizing and awesome as those other men's experiences seem to have been the problem is they are not your experience. Your experience will be unique for you!

Forget about the videos with men whose penis' are exuding copious amounts of precum or are sporting rock hard erections. These are possible reactions but not probable ones for you, your reaction will be unique for you!

Forget about using your penis (for awhile anyway, not forever), a prostate based orgasm is very different from a penile based orgasm so if you want to experience something NEW you need to drop your associations with the OLD traditional orgasm/ejaculation protocol. You have barely begun the the process of learning just what your body is capable of from the prostate based approach and your impatience is exceedingly evident.

You are obviously frustrated you have not experienced any of what you had “expected” to occur and are anxious to have your new toy perform to your expectations. Well, there is good news and there is bad news for you.

The bad news is you will need to change your mindset, your thinking, your expectations and your desire to control the outcome to be successful with your new massager.

The good news is you can accomplish all of those things if you so desire. Now, unless you are a woman or a genetic anomaly, you probably have a perfectly normal functioning prostate which has been asleep 33 years. You just need to go through the gentle awakening process. While the SGX may not be up to the task of arousing your slumbering prostate, I am not convinced sledgehammering yourself with the Progasm will do any better. If you purchased your SGX through the Aneros website you can get a 100% money back guarantee (see http://www.aneros.com/guarantee.php )if you are not satisfied or you can trade that model in for the MGX model which may prove more effective for your learning. Either way you won't be out the money.

Did you read the PM I sent you when you first joined?

I said “This process involves your “awakening” (see - http://www.aneros.com/benefits_awakening.php ) your prostate, listening to your body, becoming more attuned to the many subtle feelings being generated and then gently nurturing those feelings into heightened physical and emotional states. Each person is unique so the steps along the pathway will differ for each one of us, there is no ONE formula for progress.”

A little further along in that PM I told you “The time frame for this process of "re-wiring" can vary widely from individual to individual, some users have gotten to a Super-O almost immediately, others have taken more than a year or even two to reach that goal. Nearly a quarter of the men using the Aneros took longer than a year to get there (see the user Poll - http://aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php? ”HOW LONG BEFORE YOUR FIRST SUPER-O?”). In any case your journey is going to be unique for you, what you will be learning about yourself will be valuable and enjoyable, the process is very much worth the effort.”

Then later I said “[The most important tip I can give is to suspend expectations of results, relax and enjoy the ride for the pleasing sensations you do receive. Be patient with yourself, open to the new feelings and nurturing in your attitude, these feelings and sensations can NOT be forced or otherwise coerced to occur. Give yourself permission to release egocentric mental control. Just " Let Go ! " to allow your body to generate this phenomena for your pleasure and enjoyment.”

There is a great deal of information available on this website to HELP YOU, but it is useless if you choose to ignore it or don't bother to seek it out and assimilate it into your practice.

Posted on 2010-03-09 03:44:15 by vitocchondo

RUMEL,

You just bitch slapped me. LMFAO!!!! Yes I read everything and other blogs already. It just seems crazy to wait such a long time for the super O. But I promise I will follow diligently and I will LET GO!

I purchased the sgx model at an adult store. I am interested in purchasing mgx model through this site. For now I will continue with the sgx for a while and then I will move on to the mgx.

I thank you for the sclolding and advice. LOL.

Have a great One.

Posted on 2010-03-09 23:44:35 by LivingLarge

Hey vitocchondo, it took me quite a long time but I'm so glad I found the Aneros site. Enjoy the ride.