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Rumel`s Ruminations - Part III

The following is a copy of the Personal Message I try to send to new Forum members.
"Hi Guys,
Welcome to the Aneros Forums, your best source of information for learning about the multiple benefits and joys of using the Aneros prostate massagers. There is a wealth of information to be obtained on this website. If you are not familiar with the concept of multiple orgasms (dry-O's), I encourage you to view these two videos by Dr. Joy Davidson discussing "Ways for Men to Have Multiple Orgasms" (see Part 1 & Part 2.) While she doesn't mention the use of Aneros massagers as one of the methods a man may employ, the information presented was accurate and informative for men seeking this level of experience and is completely in line with the techniques we discuss on this Forum everyday. Additionally, you may find these two videos "Learn to Do a Prostate Massage" ( & "Learn all the enjoyable things to do with his Prostate" ( informative as well. Hopefully, you will be able to avail yourself of this knowledge by tapping these resources and won't be shy about posting your thoughts concerning Aneros use or asking questions that haven't been addressed in the Aneros WIKI ( or the threads listed below.

This image (see - ) accurately depicts the proper insertion location of your Aneros massager.
The tip of the Aneros (while inside the rectum) pushes against the prostate gland. The walls of the rectum are very flexible and elastic, they will easily stretch to accommodate the shape of the Aneros. When the anal sphincter muscles are contracted, the Aneros with its P-tab arm are pushed up into the prostate and thus massages it. The P-tab also acts as an anchor/fulcrum/pivot point. When the contraction takes place the Aneros will rotate slightly about the center point of the P-tab thus pushing the tip of the Aneros forward into the prostate for added massage action. With both the Helix & Eupho models it is not necessary (nor really practical) to attempt to insert all the way to the "T" junction.
Upon insertion of your Aneros the proper orientation occurs automatically and naturally. The Aneros are already designed with a forward canted shape to be directed at the prostate, the P-tab assures correct orientation and alignment. Pinpoint accuracy of prostate engagement is NOT necessary. It does NOT require much force or pressure to stimulate the prostate sufficiently to generate the P-Wave phenomenon. As you become more experienced with your massager you will find it requires less and less pressure to generate P-waves, to the point you will be able to generate them without the Aneros present at all.

Here's my spiel to newbie and/or first time posters, in hopes that it can 'jump start' your learning process and save you some frustration and disappointments :

A.) If you haven't already done so, I would recommend that you read the sticky Announcement's – These are threads of ongoing relevance containing posts from many users with interesting ideas or experiences relating to Aneros use. Of particular importance to the 'newbie' user is 'B Mayfield's threads ”B's Keys to the Backdoor”( & ”B's Best of the BEE-Line” (, these threads contains many valuable tips, techniques and insights from an acknowledged expert on Aneros practice. You can access these discussions on the upper portion of the General Discussion Forum Main Page. The Aneros WIKI – The core reference here, contains a wealth of knowledge and information distilled from diverse sources and extracted from the posts of veteran users and experts such as 'B Mayfied', 'darwin', 'Pan', 'artform' and others. Of particular interest to new users are the "Aneros Basics", "Getting Started" & "The Super-O" sections, please take some time to familiarize yourself with these sections as they will answer many questions you have yet to formulate and save you a great deal of time during your learning process. You can access the The Aneros WIKI from the main menu bar at the top of the page.

B.) The Learning Center (, there is an abundance of interesting information to be gleaned from reading all of the topics provided in the Learning Center pages. Please take some time to edify yourself with this information, it will enhance your appreciation and understanding of these marvelous little devices. Additionally, there is a link to Frequently Asked Questions( Every new user is encouraged to first read the FAQ ( section before posting subsequent questions to the General Discussion Forum, your question may already have been answered in the FAQ section. Instructions – Basic instructions (actually introductory guidelines, definitely NOT RULES) may be found in the Aneros Learning Center pages. You can find these at The instructions are just a suggested list of beginners guidelines (not rules) for starting the learning process or "rewiring" as it is frequently referred to here on the Forum. The path/journey toward the Super-O is more than the attaining of a certain state of sensual/sexual/physical arousal. This process involves your "awakening" your prostate (see, listening to your body, becoming more attuned to the many subtle feelings being generated and then gently nurturing those feelings into heightened physical and emotional states. Each person is unique so the steps along the pathway will differ for each one of us, there is no ONE formula for progress.

C.) The General Discussion Forum - The information from the posts of the users on this Forum will be enlightening, interesting, intimate, humorous, honest, open and occasionally irritating. This is the raw data from which most of our knowledge has evolved. Most new user's questions have been previously discussed on the Forum, taking some time to read through some of those threads will prove helpful as well as opening new avenues of thought and practice options. You are encouraged to make use of this expanding knowledge base as a resource through use of the Search function. The Search function button is located near the top right hand side of the page. As you progress along your path, the questions you pose on the Forum may be answered by others who have shared your experience and can offer helpful advice to advance your learning. Especially note the responses by the Forum's 'Experts' (veteran and very knowledgeable users) such as 'B Mayfield', 'darwin', 'Pan', 'Buster' & 'artform'. You may find attending the real time, live "Chat" sessions fun and helpful as well. Chat Sessions – Open, live Chat sessions are available 24/7 as well as occasional, themed, Aneros Co. hosted Chat Events. These sessions allow new users to get real time feedback and discussion of issues surrounding their Aneros practices as well as tips for improving their own personal sessions. You can access The Aneros CHAT Center from the main menu bar at the top of the page.

D.) The time frame for this process of "re-wiring" can vary widely from individual to individual, some users have gotten to a Super-O almost immediately, others have taken more than a year or even two to reach that goal. Nearly a quarter of the men using the Aneros took longer than a year to get there (see the user Poll - ”HOW LONG BEFORE YOUR FIRST SUPER-O?”). In any case your journey is going to be unique for you, what you will be learning about yourself will be valuable and enjoyable, the process is very much worth the effort. You can find additional information about other members Aneros usage in the Community Polls Forum. The Community Polls Forum is a collection of user generated polls covering a range of Aneros related topics. This is a good place to find out how you relate statistically to many of your fellow users in your practice. Go ahead and add your vote to a Poll and help us establish a good data base, add any comments you feel are appropriate and relevant. The Community Polls Forum may be accessed from the Categories column located on the left hand side of the Main Forum Page.

E.) You should be aware as you start upon this journey towards the Super-O, the use of the Aneros can be very addictive once the 'rewiring' begins. 'Mistress Aneros' siren call can torture you with pleasure during your journey while consuming large blocks of precious time as you remain under her seductive spell. If you are interested in learning about other members' individual journeys or wish to start documenting your own journey, read the BLOGS. The BLOGS – The Aneros Blogs are the written accounts of individuals thoughts, techniques and experiences related to their ongoing journey of learning. New users are encouraged to establish a personal Blog so you can record and chart your progress in this journey, not just for yourself but for the benefit of others to follow. Reading about the history of other users may spark ideas to help your own journey or let you know about techniques which proved helpful or counterproductive for others. The BLOGS can be accessed by clicking on the "BLOG" button in the upper left corner of the page.

F.) Learn to relax both your mind and your body. The meditative practices of deep breathing, muscle relaxation and clearing/calming the mind will serve you well as you allow your subtle inner sensations to manifest themselves.

G.) The most important tip I can give is to suspend expectations of results, relax and enjoy the ride for the pleasing sensations you do receive. Be patient with yourself, open to the new feelings and nurturing in your attitude, these feelings and sensations can NOT be forced or otherwise coerced to occur. Give yourself permission to release egocentric mental control. Just " Let Go ! " to allow your body to generate this phenomena for your pleasure and enjoyment.

H.) "Tune In" to yourself, prostate massage leading to prostate orgasms is very different from traditional masturbation with your penis. The sensations initially generated by your massager are very subtle and easily overlooked or even dismissed as "nothing happening", this is a huge mistake. It is very important for you to tune into these subtle sensations, acknowledge and welcome them into your Aneros experience. these are the building blocks for all your future pleasures so the sooner you "tune in" the sooner you will get to the Super-O zone.

I.) Before asking for help on the General Discussion Forum, I suggest you check the FAQ section of the WIKI for some typical answer help. When asking for help via a posting it will aid your responders if you could provide answers to the questions posed at the beginning of the (FAQ) section. If providing this personal information seems too revealing, you may consider messaging privately with some of your fellow members. Private Conversations/Messages – Registered users can send and receive Private Conversations/Messages to each other. You have the option to have multiple members involved with these messages. To send or receive Private Messages click on the "INBOX" tab/button located on the Main Menu Bar (, then click on the START A NEW CONVERSATION button.

Welcome to YOUR journey ! Enjoy the Ride !

P.S. You're automatically a member now of the Super-O Society for the pursuit of earthly pleasures via the Super-O (don't worry, your name is not put on any "list" and there are no dues or any obligations whatsoever). Finally, here's a little self-serving, crass commercialism, I invite you to sample my "HypnAerosession" guided Anerosession (available at and also available through the Aneros Web Site), it just might help propel your initiation into this wonderful new journey.

Reader Comments

Posted on 2010-03-04 10:01:08 by artform

Congratulations R! Re-energizing your blog and incorporating your famous PM greetings/guide to newbies here is perfect!!! I look forward to your ongoing updates in Part II...

This three part system is a great innovation too. Inspires me, as you have in other ways in the past, to think about some way to organize the materials and ideas in the chronological shambles of my blog...

all the best with actively blogging here


Posted on 2010-03-05 22:35:47 by LivingLarge

Nice post! On target.