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Posted on 2009-08-21 23:06:33 by artform
Have you read the B's Keys to the Backdoor Sticky thread at the top of the Forum? This is Brian Mayfield's guide for beginners and you can find very helpful advice there too. Are you doing a voluntary contraction and holding for a minute or two and then releasing? The key is to not be "looking" and having expectations and then frustrations. You may find tiny little sensations and wonder... Don't dismiss them and don't grab for them. Try to observe from the distance of your quiet executive function self. No ego or pressure. If these sensations grow and or move. Be open to them. Relax and allow without reaching. All kinds of things may happen and it may take quite a few sessions for this process to awaken and get going...