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Posted by on 2007-01-23 18:01:00 Session Length: 10 Minutes - Hurt too much!!!! Models Used: Helix
| I just got my Helix today and...nothing. I can feel it inside of me but there is no pleasure at all. I removed it, relubed and inserted. Again nothing. Tried it a third time and this time it actually hurt. I'm using water based lube (Wet). What am I doing wrong? |
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Posted on 2007-01-24 08:48:14 by charlie
I suspect that you are not sufficiently relaxed and that is why you experienced discomfort. You have to let go of any negative thoughts and taboos regarding anal penetration before your body will relax and accept the pleasures that are ahead of you.
Maybe a semi-strenuous workout followed by a long hot shower or soak in the tub will help you relax. Follow that by preparing a warm, comfortable, and private place for your session. Take your time and don't rush things. Lower your expectations. This is a journey, and the guy who orgasms his first time is an exception rather than the rule.
Do not insert the aneros until you have followed the recommended breathing exercises. Be sure that you apply a liberal amount of lube to the unit, too. Don't start any contractions until your body is relaxed. Once you start your contractions, be very gentle. You really don't need to push very hard.
I suspect your disappointing first experience was more mental than physical. If I'm wrong, however, and you still have discomfort, stop. The experience should not be uncomfortable. Hope this advice is helpful. Take care and good luck,
Charlie
Posted on 2007-01-24 16:37:16 by skeptimo
Posted on 2007-01-24 21:13:48 by skeptimo
Posted on 2007-01-25 04:54:08 by Buster
There have been others that have been bothered with the tab digging in. There are threads in the forum about it. The one that I remember right off the top of my head that I thought was interesting had to do with getting a ping pong ball and cutting a hole in it and putting the tab through the hole so the only material touching your skin is the other side of the ball and that should spread out the area a bit that is under pressure. It is certainly a cheap potential fix. Dont give up. These things are remarkable when everything comes together.
Buster
Posted on 2007-01-27 20:06:57 by skeptimo
Posted on 2007-01-28 07:54:10 by Buster
That sounds like a significant step you had. I also had a step similar to that within the first couple of months of my journey. It is interesting to note that at that point, the lube I used was such a large factor, and now, I barely use any lube at all. I find now that a liberal coating of vaseline is all that is needed. What that shows you is that what helps you along changes as you progress.
Keep going with your experimenting. Also, what others are doing and trying can be very helpful as well.
Take care.
Buster
Posted on 2007-01-29 14:23:33 by charlie
Keep at it and let us know where your journey takes you.
Best wishes,
Charlie