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Enjoying but still wondering

Well I will say that I have been pleased with what aneros has bestowed upon me. I have had the chance on several occasions to start with the Helix, and work with it for an hour or so, achiving, great shutters in my body, very heavy breathing, pleasure definately, but nothing that "feels" like a penile orgasm. Have I missed the point here? I do love the feelings I get, (even though I find it takes a great deal of physical activity), I have on occasion had a magnificent erection caused by the stimulation, (although I knew of the erection only by brushing my hand against my penis, and not from the feeling of the penis), a good supply of precum, and an amazingly short time to feel the prostate pleasure, (sometimes within a minute of inserting the aneros). I do love the movement I find in the Helix, and as I said I can feel the gratifying effect very very quickly. I also love the feeling of the Progasm for it's size and the take charge feeling it seems to have over me. (I do love the full feeling).

So my question for some of you more expierienced people, I am looking for something that is not there, namely the same kind of feeling as a typical penile orgasm? I do love the feelings I have, but I guess from what I have read I am hoping for something more closely associated with the penile orgasm. No I will not stop doing my aneros, because while different, I do enjoy it. I guess the closest I guess I will claim is that I can have mini- o's (5 - 7 of them in a half hour,lasting from 30 seconds to a few minutes each [depending on how tired I get with the body shutters]) rather easily, but I am wondering if I am still to look for more or not. I know you guys have already answered this question before, but please do it again for me? When I have more time I will write a much more detailed description of my session.

mwhoim

Reader Comments

Posted on 2007-12-19 22:00:13 by Ashlen

[quote]So my question for some of you more expierienced people, I am looking for something that is not there, namely the same kind of feeling as a typical penile orgasm?[/quote]

I've only experienced it twice so far, but there is an orgasm very much like a penile orgasm, minus the penile part. Prostate spasms, anus thrusts uncontrollably, and the pleasure hovers at an intense level. All very similar to ejaculation.

The two times I've reached it, basically I tried to nurture the pleasure I was feeling until it just hit such a high level that it automatically started a chain-reaction. I'm still trying to figure it all out, but I think the main key for me is sustaining pleasure and figuring out how to let it grow.

I honestly believe you are close, you are showing the same signs I was showing before it hit me, if not more often than I was. It kind of just happened out of the blue the first time, when I wasn't really expecting anything to happen that session, so don't stress about it, it'll come to you soon enough.

Posted on 2007-12-23 08:41:14 by mwhoim

Ashlen

Thanks so much for your support. I have to tell you I read every word that you write, and try everything you suggest, even the "new" things you have tried for yourself, although I have not been nearly as successful as you seem to be.

Still having trouble with my alone time, and have to admit that the cleaning both before and after seems a bit tedious. Oh I make sure all is clean and ready both before and after, but there is parts I guess I do not enjoy.

I have though about the anal thrusting you have described, and haven't even had a bit of that, that I know. To nurture the feeling is also a challenge because I am not sure yet which pleasure I want to keep going and there are several, but they seem to work independantly of each other.

I am glad to know that I do seem to be on the right course here, and was very pleased to know that I might still move forward. Being on the older side, I was wondering if I was already past the point of making things happen. You seem, although you have never stated, that you are younger, and that you are more able to adapt to what aneros has to offer. So I will continue to enjoy the benefits I have found so far, and just let anything more that might happen, just happen.

Was in hopes of having a session this morning but that was spoiled by visitors. So this evening when things get quiet again, I am planning a good long session.

Again thanks for the comments and support, and I hope you return to your MMO (not real sure what that stands for)

mwhoim

Posted on 2007-12-27 19:00:41 by Ashlen

"Thanks so much for your support. I have to tell you I read every word that you write, and try everything you suggest, even the "new" things you have tried for yourself, although I have not been nearly as successful as you seem to be."

I'm glad that my experiences have been beneficial to others, but I wouldn't worry if your results aren't as successful as mine, it took me 5 months to get any results, so I have a little extra time under my belt, by the time you get to 5 months I think you'll probably be sprinting laps around me :P

"Still having trouble with my alone time"

Yeah, I have the same problem. However, I started trying to get results while outside of Aneros sessions and that is where I really started to advance, since I don't need to be so secretive about that. I merely laid on my stomach while watching a little erotic video with my door locked and headphone on while contracting muscles, if someone knocked I could easily turn off the TV and unlock the door. Later the nipple stimulation seemed to be another great method that I could easily erase all traces of if someone knocked.

"and have to admit that the cleaning both before and after seems a bit tedious. Oh I make sure all is clean and ready both before and after, but there is parts I guess I do not enjoy."

Same here, it all seems like such a chore that I almost dread my sessions a little because I don't feel like dealing with it all.

"I have though about the anal thrusting you have described, and haven't even had a bit of that, that I know."

To be honest, I haven't been able to recapture this event, it has only really happened to me twice. However, I did notice that I was having mini-os and not even realizing, my prostate would spasm and I could feel a pulsing in my penis. I usually got mini-os are a build up of pleasure, the pleasure itself would cause more and eventually I'd get to a very high level that felt like I would ejaculate, that is when the thrusting seemed to start, but I've been there quite a few times since and haven't been able to reinitiate the event, so I'm still learning how it all works. I just know that once you start noticing the small events, they start to happen more often and easier.

"To nurture the feeling is also a challenge because I am not sure yet which pleasure I want to keep going and there are several, but they seem to work independantly of each other."

Yeah, that is a hard one. There seems to be two distinct pleasures that can bring me to mini-os, I described them in a blog post recently, I think one is the prostate and one is the perineum, not exactly sure. As for nurturing, I usually can only focus on one pleasure, so I pick whichever is more powerful and mainly focus on that one. I've found that just holding a contraction seems to increase the pleasure until something happens, however it can be hard as my legs want to twitch, which seems to break my concentration and causes me to lose my momentum.

"I am glad to know that I do seem to be on the right course here, and was very pleased to know that I might still move forward."

There is no "might", you will continue to move forward, it is only a matter of time and practice, trust me ;) I think confidence is a very good way to get things really moving, once I believed I could get there, that is when I started getting there easily. So try to believe in what you are doing and it should be easier and better.

"Being on the older side, I was wondering if I was already past the point of making things happen. You seem, although you have never stated, that you are younger, and that you are more able to adapt to what aneros has to offer."

I don't think age really has an effect upon the process as a lot of members are older and some are young. Myself, I'm 27, so I'm still fairly young.


"and I hope you return to your MMO (not real sure what that stands for)"

Male Multiple Orgasm, just another name for Non-ejaculatory orgasms or mini-os, dry-os, super-os, etc...