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Practicing involutaries without an Aneros

Just a note for anybody needing a tip on how to get involuntary contractions started. I can't say this will work for you but it's working for me. I didn't understand all this talk about "partial voluntary contractions" but after watching more videos and spending a little time listening to my body I think I can explain a technique that produces involuntary contractions ... at least in me.

Relaxation is key, of course, but once you're in a comfortable, relaxed position, here's the motions I've been using: Pull up a little bit with your sphincter, then pull back like you're trying to stop yourself from peeing. Hold that for just a moment or two and see if you don't feel a twitch or a flutter or something.

These contractions can be very subtle. At first I thought I was only feeling them at the base of my dick. Then I felt around a little bit, first touching my perineum to see if I could feel my prostate through there. I was surprised to feel a more or less continual pulsation when I was pulling "up and back" even a little bit. The twitching was much deeper than I thought. Then I reached around and lightly touched my hole and was surprised to feel it quivering with a definite rhythm.

I tried this "up and back" technique in a few different positions. To my surprise, the position suggested by the Aneros folk (lying on your side with one leg straight and the other bent) produced some pretty strong contractions. I say "to my surprise" not because I'm shocked the Aneros people know how their product works best but because previous experience with other toys in that position has been a bit disappointing.

I then rolled onto all fours. That's been my favorite toying position for years. It was harder to feel anal contractions this way though a touch of my finger confirmed they were occurring. The deep internal contractions were definitely strong.

Lastly I laid on my side and pulled both knees up toward my chest. This produced the best results yet. I felt strong pulsations and squeezes going both "up and down" and "back and forth" simultaneously with only the slightest hint of a voluntary contraction.

I felt nothing at all in my dick other than some involuntary movement. I didn't even want to touch it. The sensations were coming more from my prostate area or even a little higher up. I now have a constant sense that there's a pleasure button up there waiting to be pushed. Even when I'm not contracting.

I want to thank all of you who have posted videos of your sessions. I've learned a lot from them. Mostly "I want to feel that" but also how the Aneros appears to move when your body takes over. I still haven't had this thing in me but my hunger is growing.

Today could be the day, if my Progasm actually gets delivered and I find a little time and privacy. Otherwise it's going to have to wait a few days because we'll be on a long weekend with the kids. But I know what I'm waiting for and if I have to wait a little longer, well, I can.