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Before the beginning

I've just ordered my first Aneros and while I'm waiting for it to show up I want to share my story.

I am a married guy in my late 30s. We have a happy family of 5. Unfortunately, my wife has a number of health problems which have turned our sex life into her occasionally masturbating me, and me wishing I could at least touch her. I have no interest at all in cheating on her but our sex life sometimes leads me to some very dark mental places.

Ever since I first discovered the concept of anal sex and prostate stimulation at 13 (thank you, Hite Report) I've been fascinated by the concept. This led me to the usual "am I gay?" questioning during my teens and twenties before I realized I wasn't attracted to men; I just enjoyed butt play. A lot.

My first hands-off-the-penis orgasm experience was when I was 17, by means of a taper candle used the wrong way around. I soon graduated to a dildo. I enjoyed the masssive feeling of it but it was too hard to move it in and out without pulling a shoulder muscle.

In college I worked up an elaborate device from scrap lumber, eye hooks, bungee cords, rope, and a length of varnished broom handle. By hooking the bungee cords to my bedframe and tying a rope around my ankles then passing the rope through the eyehooks then putting the broom handle inside me I was able to sort of stimulate my prostate enough to have more no-hands orgasms but obviously broom handles aren't ideal sex toys.

Even since we've been married I've had some bouts of butt itch. Every home has a toilet plunger, and boy have I been thankful for that. I'd heard of the Aneros before but never really investigated it until now. I wasn't sure it was my answer until I saw some videos of guys using it. It looks like it's going to feel fantastic and I think I understand how to make the thing work. I'm already practicing the contractions.

This won't be my first butt toy, obviously, so I'm moving straight to the Progasm. I've had some large, long toys (2" plug, 12" dildo) in me before and I love the feeling of being filled up so I knew this was the one I wanted.

My hope is that the new sexual experience will keep me from resenting the effect my wife's health problems have on our sex life. It will probably take me a few sessions to accomplish much with the Progasm. I may never reach the Super O, but I hope I do. I'd love to experience the "auto-fuck" too. I am most interested, though, in reaching hands-free orgasms so the only hands that ever touch me are hers.

Reader Comments

Posted on 2011-11-18 05:02:28 by paben

3rd 1 hours session tonight. First time I used, after 45 minutes involuntary moaning and realization my face and arms were 'tingling'. 2nd session - just good sensatons - one 'flash' in my head and spontaneous erection. 3rd session 90 minutes - about 1 hour in involuntary moaning an quivering of thigts briefly. I realize I'm fucking myself with the aneros. Really lubing this thing properly means a great deal towards comfort.

I'm going to go for session 4 tonight. I'm going to make it pitch dark and see if I notice any more 'flashing' in my head. Is it possible to work yourself out too hard? I'm starting slow for the first 45 minutes, but then move my hips to get deeper stronger penetration. Can you damage your protate by too much movement?

Posted on 2011-11-18 05:04:38 by paben

3rd 1 hours session tonight. First time I used, after 45 minutes involuntary moaning and realization my face and arms were 'tingling'. 2nd session - just good sensatons - one 'flash' in my head and spontaneous erection. 3rd session 90 minutes - about 1 hour in involuntary moaning an quivering of thigts briefly. I realize I'm fucking myself with the aneros. Really lubing this thing properly means a great deal towards comfort.

I'm going to go for session 4 tonight. I'm going to make it pitch dark and see if I notice any more 'flashing' in my head. Is it possible to work yourself out too hard? I'm starting slow for the first 45 minutes, but then move my hips to get deeper stronger penetration. Can you damage your protate by too much movement?