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M/F Couples Mutuality: Mutual Ejaculation Orgasms

Mrs. a and I are so charged and thrilled with the erotic > ecstatic energies and the floating bliss we have discovered within us together on this Aneros/KSMO "training wheels" adventure.

The times when our energies combine to create a full "flowing waters of the goddess" ejaculatory orgasm for mrs. a, and we then bring me to a rollicking rocking rocket of a Super-T, and "we all flow together when we flow" as we did about a week ago a few days after the Full Moon Club, are so swirling and mutually engulfing and energies sharing inside and outside that they are always a highlight for weeks and months, even if we do not specifically pursue them in most sessions. They can be physically exhausting and are NOT still-body floating! – they are active body soaking!!!

For example, our ecstatic Full Moon Club session previous to this latest Super-MEOs (Super-Mutual Ejaculation Orgasms) event, after some initial jumping Super-Os, was ssssoooooo.... such beautiful and all-enveloping bliss ecstasy energies that as we returned to Earth, there was no need, desire, or thought of Super-T-ing and we carried that still-body flowing joy with us for several days, even into the Super-MEOs session above.

At our age the still-body flowing joy is such a gift and where we seem to fly more frequently. Yet we always love to visit the full flowing waters and semen, and touch our youth from time to time...

For couples, how can there be anything better than this!!! Both of these profound experiences cum from our "mutual prostate practice" of honouring and attending to each other's orgasmic bio-energetics at the G/P spot in each of us simultaneously, and the resulting looping loopy love. We are so deeply grateful for this life defining experience for couples and relationship...

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Full Moon Club parade of orgasms

J4 and a bunch have launched the Full Moon Club, where members, anyone who cares to join, all have sessions at (about...) 9:00 pm local time on the night of the full moon each month. The idea is to see if there is any resonance from/between all these orgasmic energies being loosed like a wave around the planet. A great P-wave circling the globe in 24 hours...

Mrs. a and I began later about 11:00 pm EDT (March 11/09) and after wonderful warmups found ourselves in mutual prostate massage and ultimately in the Wedding Band position, each digitally caressing the other's P/G spot... better than ever... parades of Super-Os repeatedly (and the old bod calling for more! not avoiding them!)...

butt then up, up, and away into the floating bliss of the Calm Seas Os!!! Twice I briefly left orbit and touched down on the planet for a few seconds butt right back up onto/into the endless oceanic bliss... Those two trips back down and back up were new and very interesting in themselves, like a ride in a new glass bubble elevator on the outside of a tall building, butt not the same in other ways; more like my being being stretched painlessly, even pleasantly, like a gooey yardstick of existence. Ahhh! so much... so many... so everywhere...

About 2:30 am EDT this morning (March 12/09) we came back to the home planet, cleaned up, and floated blissfully off to dreamland...

This was a peak experience in our mutual prostate massage practice and the Wedding Band position! Thanks perhaps to the Full Moon Club resonance.

I had a 30 minute lovely Eupho session earlier yesterday (11th) about 2:00 pm ending in a BPH "clear the pipes" session, which no doubt also pre-warmed the circuits for the grand adventure above.

all the best full mooning all (or is that part of the stage show of the Aneros Ecstatic Male Chorus??!!!?

artform

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A Four Hour Orgasm....

Last night getting to sleep, the walk down the steps into Hypnagogia was great fun. Have you or your partner ever broken into laughter while halfway to sleep? The lower steps were almost completely covered with brightly coloured kitsch teapots shaped like little cottage cabins. Hypnagogia itself was a riot of images, colours, interactions, flow...

Mrs. a and I had had a fun discussion in bed, but were too tired for a lengthy session and went right to sleep.

This morning we woke up and, after morning ablutions, got back into bed and were reading and talking when I suddenly got a significant and persistent energy bloom in my lower abdomen, right perineum, testicle, public bone area, and growing!!! I felt the possibility of it expanding and tried mentally to open to that, or encourage the expansion.

Sometimes when I do that the energies are not strong enough or there is some blockage, and they just dissipate away... Butt not today!

After a brief pause when I thought they had disappeared, softly and in scattered points of energetic flares they started up, all around and throughout my body, at first most clearly in the extremities, around the perimeter. In a few minutes I was in the throws of a full body, campfires everywhere, Mitochondrial Orgasm again! Hallelujah!

At first I put my book down and closed my eyes to relax and allow this, to see where it would go. It intensified and saturated my whole body/consciousness. I reached my hand over to mrs. a and she knew to put hers on mine, palm to palm, as we have tested whether the energies were focusing/focusable, as we have many times in the past year or more. They were not moving from the overall body distribution but pulsing more powerfully, yet no exchange was available.

Then I recalled what I had been reading! Jill Bolte Taylor's book: A Stroke of Insight, which I posted about when it was first reported in the NYT last year. I'm early in the second chapter on the science of her experience looking at a brain cross-section and visualizing her descriptive passage. Suddenly I remembered just how similar this is to the triggering of the first MO! Recounted in this earlier post from here in the blog: http://www.aneros.com/displayentry.php?id=261

A later post here recounts another MO as the most powerful Day-After Effect I have had the day following and Aneros solo session. These are one of the best, richest orgasmic energetic solo experiences above and beyond Super-Os in my experience. And this one, like the first, brought on as an aesthetic response to a reading/visualization/imagination event and excellent aneros "training wheels" skills and memories!

As I continue to experience these, and other energies that feel directly mitochondrial, and follow medical science research, I am more convinced that much of this depends on synchronizing with our mitochondria and their "collective" signalling intelligence. Ant hills, bee hives, termite mounds and the like are forms of collective social communication/intelligence, also known as Super-Organisms. You can see where I'm going with this, eh?

I have talked elsewhere about the quantum hive mind potential dimension to our mental life and the current lab research tending to confirm the quantum dimension of consciousness. So these MOs could be described as Super-Organismic Super-Orgasms!!! Six hours now, and though reduced and down to the level of Butt Buzz, it has been an extraordinary day...

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Sex and Death

The following is quoted from a post of mine in The Tao Bums Forum. I believe that it reflects another dimension of the life force energies we are working with in their orgasmic and ecstatic forms here and connects us all to the poet's long held assertion of the union of sex and death:


My mother in her mid-80s had two surgeries for a life threatening condition; the first emergency to stop the condition and the second to repair temporary elements from the first. She had thought out her choices and intention long before and had prepared a living will.

After recovering from the violent hallucinations induced by the morphine given her after the second surgery, she talked quietly with me and said that she could not continue this medical path, and invoked her living will with absolute, crystal clear intent.

Soon she was transferred to a palliative care ward. It was cramped and noisy; restless and uncomfortable for her initially. That evening she manifested many symptoms and several nurses and her doctor attended. My brother and his partner and my wife and I were there. At some point she escalated into severe coughing, mucus, and cramping; sitting up rapidly and falling back repeatedly.

My brother and I were on either side of her bed at this point and the nurses and doctor standing by, not having any particular diagnosis or treatment at that moment. My brother and I were each holding an opposite hand and elbow of our mother through this sitting up / falling back in an effort to cushion and stabilize her motion, while talking to her to comfort and elicit her reports of what was the problem /what was it she needed.

Both of us began to feel a great sense of heat/energy/scintillations in our hands, going deeper and deeper and rising in power. With this she relaxed and remained resting for a few moments and the nurses took over again.

Astounded at this phenomenon, and having that energy remain pulsating rapidly throughout our hands we went out to the corridor where our partners were watching all this and waiting. We asked them to put their hands out in front of them face up, and then hovered our hands just above theirs without quite touching. They could feel very palpable persistent energy/vibrations/warmth from our hands, after wondering why we asked them to do this. What was that?

As she was able to relax after this episode, but not having died then as seemed to be where things were headed that evening, she then slipped any medication out the side of her mouth and never ate or drank again, but agreed to me, my brother or our partners swabbing her mouth with a moisturizing gel. Fortunately she was able to be transferred to a private palliative care suite and lived relaxed, in and out of conscious lucid dream states talking but not in clear words to those in the dreams, and to us simultaneously for several days before going into a sleep/brief-waking/sleep cycles and then into a coma, until after my brother returned from a long-planned trip with his son, of about ten days. The next day with both my brother and I in her room with her, and after days of no movement and coma, she stirred, lifted her head the little she could and worked her desiccated mouth as best she could, determined to articulate what we heard as: "Thank you...", with the attempt at a smile as far as her body could then do that, and left her body then and there.

These energies exist. If you aren't open and/or if you intend not to sense them, you likely may not. That does not prove they do not exist. Because they do not fit our model of the electromagnetic spectrum, or tickle our sensing instruments does not mean they do not exist.

Although I have sensed and worked with my energies for some time, her emanations that evening took me completely by surprise and were so powerful, at first I did not equate what was happening to anything like chi.
The doctor and nurses showed no interest in discussing it.

It is salutary that just as physics thought we were finally approaching the Grand Unified Theory of everything physical/energetic, we found that the Standard Model and related variants only explain about 4% of reality and 96% is labelled Dark Energy and Dark Matter, two categories about which we can currently only begin to speculate.

this is a good time to be enfleshed here

artform


In another thread there the following questions were asked by another poster

In cultures all over the world there are beings who guide the newly deceased safely to their destination, whatsoever that may be. I know that some humans are called to the same path.

Is any one here experienced with guiding the dead to places? What spiritual practices can loved ones perform to help those on their last legs?

Yours humbly,
James


and I replied with the following including the excerpts from the above:


<<<Soon she was transferred to a palliative care ward. It was cramped and noisy; restless and uncomfortable for her initially. That evening she manifested many symptoms and several nurses and her doctor attended. My brother and his partner and my wife and I were there. At some point she escalated into severe coughing, mucus, and cramping; sitting up rapidly and falling back repeatedly.

My brother and I were on either side of her bed at this point and the nurses and doctor standing by, not having any particular diagnosis or treatment at that moment. My brother and I were each holding an opposite hand and elbow of our mother through this sitting up / falling back in an effort to cushion and stabilize her motion, while talking to her to comfort and elicit her reports of what was the problem /what was it she needed.

Both of us began to feel a great sense of heat/energy/scintillations in our hands, going deeper and deeper and rising in power. With this she relaxed and remained resting for a few moments and the nurses took over again.>>>

I have no doubt from that experience we were doing what we could to assist and communicate while she was attempting to leave. That lifeforce projection by her, for I cannot think it was anything but powerful intention driving it, was her first effort. A very determined and self-assured person, she had come very close to dying from a childhood disease when she was about six years of age.

<<<As she was able to relax after this episode, but not having died then as seemed to be where things were headed that evening, she then slipped any medication out the side of her mouth and never ate or drank again, but agreed to me, my brother or our partners swabbing her mouth with a moisturizing gel. Fortunately she was able to be transferred to a private palliative care suite and lived relaxed, in and out of conscious lucid dream states talking but not in clear words to those in the dreams, and to us simultaneously for several days before going into a sleep/brief-waking/sleep cycles and then into a coma, until after my brother returned from a long-planned trip with his son, of about ten days.>>>

Throughout this period, I was there daily and other family and the family minister visited from time to time. She cheerfully conversed with us and gradually also with her ethereal visitors, but in increasingly garbled speak as her vocal tract was drying and diminishing. Yet she continued to find meaning in our interchanges and joy. I brushed her hair regularly, which was one her great comforts. Through a period into the sleep to coma phase, she expressed discomfort and small doses of morphine alleviated that pain and through this virtually all talking stopped. I sang old favourite songs and hymns of hers. Occasionally she seemed to try to smile or hum...

<<<The next day with both my brother and I in her room with her, and after days of no movement and coma, she stirred, lifted her head the little she could and worked her desiccated mouth as best she could, determined to articulate what we heard as: "Thank you...", with the attempt at a smile as far as her body could then do that, and left her body then and there.>>>

We talked and sang to her gently through this until she came out of the coma briefly. We hugged her and kissed her and brushed her hair again as she was leaving and assured her we would be alright. "Everything that can be done will be done.", I said and looking into her eyes you could see her peace. It was an honour and a privilege to be able to be there throughout.

all the best to you

artform

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Life Story Factors Influencing Your Practice

As things have progressed forward with my/our practice, I get taken back and aback by the old life story elements that reappear as having effected rewiring and other dimensions of the practice.

Here we begin at the beginning (from a post in a Community Poll):

I was a sickly child and a difficult birth, raised by my mother and nurses mostly for at least the first two years at times in quarantine. My father did not get to hold me until I was two or a little more. I was raised on doctor-prescribed phenobarbitol and atropine for my first six years and had abdominal surgery during that time. I suspect that those drugs over that time had probably pre-rewired me early in several ways!

I was very tall and thin for my age as I grew and was quite shy early, growing quite intellectually adventurous and outspoken in the later pre-puberty years. At one point I declared my interest in yoga and planned "to develop the skill of lowering my large bowel through my anus inside-out as the East Indians do to clean it". I was not strong and still ill on and off during those years and at school was bullied and taunted: "four-eyes!, girl!, fag! etc.", partly because my family were prominent businessmen and community leaders. This, even as I was dating a girl and partying with others before high school...

About this time I was sent to a boys summer camp for three summers, which covered the last full year of pre-puberty, the year of puberty itself and the first year of emerging from the transition year. This was 1959 -1961 I think. Sacked out in our tents in separate wooded sections of the site based on age, we all yacked about sex, in our ignorance, in the first two years. We went from being shy to occasional group nudity without is being sexual. One of the louder campers expounded at length on how he was going to "screw his girlfriend's ass" when he got back home, and meant her anus. I'm not sure he knew about vaginas at that point! Through the second year and into the third I suffered from serious ulcers and was treated for months with a medication that again had atropine as a significant ingredient. More chemical rewiring during puberty?!

I am not promoting any kind of psychoactive drug use, but some of my experiences lately seem connected to some of the effects I experienced in my youth in conjunction with the medical prescriptions above. More on this here soon. Gotta go now...

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Day-After Effects: The Best So Far

From early in my practice, Day-After Effects have been a very significant part, beginning with Butt Buzz, expanding over time into the day of joy in the O-zone, where mini-Os and greater dry-Os (hlaser's Chairgasms/Cargasms) begin as spontaneous, become more regular and then are available at will when you choose out of the that delightful background O-zone buzz.

The best and most unique Day-After Effect so far though goes beyond these. In a previous post here I described the Mitochondrial Orgasm and at first that seemed like it might have been a one-time experience or interpretation.

And yet that experience was so wonderful and affecting that I felt a yen to "get back there" and also to try to research the possible science of this if the M-O was name was anything more than a metaphor. Because of my earlier interest in Tantra and Tao and the recent readings and interpretation of the results of my practices with Aneros and KSMO, I joined The Tao Bums this past January but got little response/feedback there until August and since then have really enjoyed the discussions there, which are by no means primarily sexual as the basis of Taoist practices.

By late September, after getting smaller events that had the same millions of tiny campfires sensations, I had the first purely Aneros Day-After Effect full Mitochondrial Orgasm and posted the following in the Forum here:

<<<Today I had the strongest singular aneros after effect yet (a day of Butt Buzz in the O-zone being a frequent favourite!), two days after a great session with my Eupho, ending with a BPH treatment, cleaning the pipes! This morning as I was resting in bed after waking, I began to have a familiar feeling...

It was the energies rising and the campfires lighting up at all the key points throughout my lower abdomen! For over an hour and quarter the scintillations spread throughout my body and especially down my legs and down my arms and into my hands until they felt like they were radiating powerfully. This was another in the series of Mitochondrial Orgasms I have been having, but this was the first that was purely based on an aneros session. Here is my blog description of the first of these: http://www.aneros.com/displayentry.php?id=261

The focus of most intensity shifted as each area: perineum, prostate, sacrum, navel and below, and scrotum! And then, without any engorgement, my penis lit up like the most spectacular morning sunrise and glowed inwardly with an unbelievable intensity, while staying perfectly still. This light filled my whole body and slowly subsided until this astounding dry orgasm, "above and beyond" but experienced inwardly, slowly levelled out to soft and contented landing...>>>

One of the members who shares this interest in the science of male multiple orgasms and the quest for spiritual orgasms is Drew Hempel at The Tao Bums. In response to my blog there, which is essentially the same with minor variations as here and at KSMO, he posted a great link to the ongoing scientific research on mitochondria at : http://www.biophysj.org/cgi/content/full/91/11/4317 .

You can copy and paste this link in your browser, or there is a live version of it in a post in my thread Two New Polls: Day-After Effects and Orientation in the General Discussion section of the Forum. ALSO!: please visit these Polls in the Community Polls section of the Forum and vote and post your experiences and thoughts!

Mitochondria generate our cellular energy and can behave in synchronized pulsing of energy as shown in the scientific paper above in all our vital functions such as heart beats. Are we tapping into coordinated mitochondrial energy patternings in these wide-ranging orgasmic energy responses with Aneros and KSMO?

And this opens further questions about the full potential of these practices. Does knowledge sharpen intention and is intentionality a key to more effective practice after the initial openness required to acquire the rewiring and skills of the adept? Does more detailed intellectual engagement and the sense of understanding and being at home in your body enhance the skills and range of possible orgasmic energetic responses?

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Beyond Words...

This is my most recent KSMO Blog entry. These words are inadequate but I am at loss for others for now:

>As I mentioned in last Saturday's [KSMO] Chat, mrs. a and I had another amazing advance/adventure a few evenings ago...

multitudes/multitides

Beginning in the Yabyum and foreheads "kissing", the energies were flowing easily and, after a good while and then briefly experimenting with other possibilities, we fell into our favourite Scissors, with still times, gentle G-spot massaging thrusting, still times, back and forth as intuition suggested...

The energy flows were all-enveloping, soothing, energizing, blissing us out...

Jack, this was the return of "through-the-body-travel" and the first time ever with a partner. Absolutely indescribably astounding!

...to be back in something like the IOs, but very different and age/body/relationship generated new and so so...

communion with all

... dimensionless infinite love...

beyond body

cosmic clouds of light

warmth

poetics

silent symphonies of total gentle ecstatic music

we, physically united in our bed but beyond that awareness, in disembodied union with all

then 2 hours later

awareness refocused for both about the same time together still, still in bed...

and a celebratory ecstatic prostatic orgasmic completion of this consciousness altering voyage

of being bliss embodied... of being in/throughout the universe/multiverse

of love without end...

and yet these words convey so little of it...

this journey is it

who knows what can be next?

many thanks to all

artform
as we rewire
we are all reconnected

PS After that "three hour tour" who knows? Jack, you'd like the fact that "multitides" was my subconscious spelling slip/intention when I began writing this post. So I kept it with its original intended; multitudes! Multitides is perhaps the best word in this whole piece that does approach describing key feelings from this incredible experience/union. Thanks again.<

Here at Aneros, any questions or comments from anyone are most welcome. I am particularly curious about thoughts from those who have had similar "spiritual", "beyond" orgasmic experiences. As I said in a related post in another thread on the KSMO site:

>My journey has been one of mixing and merging Aneros (which is a godsend for my chronic Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia![and everything else!]) and KSMO: maybe that makes it KISMET!!!<

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Micro-cosmic Orgasm!: A Mirror Intellectual Orgasm?

The following is a recent post I made in Tantricguy's wonderful Forum thread Rewiring & Women's Orgasm:

"Johntrevy, I have come close to what you describe [becoming a disembodied or transformed wholeness-of-being], but rather than the strict geometry of a sphere, it is more amorphous, like a cloud, for me. It can be part of the floating bliss states and frequently is, solo or with my partner.

Alana, thanks so much again! What a wonderful set of vivid, imagery-enhanced, cosmos connections. These recall my IOs of my youth, which keep whispering from behind some thin veil now, as I/we explore and rewire, or more accurately for me apparently, reconnect the experimental circuits of youth and middle age, from IOs, yoga breathing, inner body visualization and healing, Tao and Tantra, hypnagogic voyaging, "touch-for-health", chi gong, and others to those of a lifetime of periodic prostate massage.

A couple of days ago, the morning after mrs. a and I had another great couple of hours of bio-electric coupling to bliss and bliss union with all, we were reading and chatting in bed. I showed her a diagram of the typical structure of a neuron in a recent article on the huge expansions in neuro-sciences lab results and theories. Aesthetic triggers have worked for me for years to set off erotic energies, but this seemed like just a simple even homey diagram...

HOWEVER! Gently at first, but very insistently and spreading from the point of origin in my lower front abdominal wall, unlike earlier small clusters or clouds of energies forming and moving through the body during after-effects orgasmic events, this was like millions upon millions of nano-campfires lighting up and radiating powerfully given their scale! Within about ten minutes this had engulfed my whole body and yet the feeling was one of deeply relaxed serenity mixed with a sparkling joy and great lightness (not the same as "floating bliss"). I said to mrs.a; "Maybe all my neurons are happy to be recognized, or are laughing about this 'portrait'! Either that or its the mitochondria (our energy-source co-species, living in our every cell and energizing us) holding a festival!". It was a very powerful new form of ecstatic energetic experience. A micro-cosmos connection?

In some way, maybe this was a mirror-IO, ecstasy triggered by intellectual activity/poetics. This great gift lasted almost an hour and the memories still trigger chi flows, a different energetic response...

George Lucas has midichlorians as the cellular symbionts and a Force-source in StarWars. I felt like I was the forest planet (or moon) Endor, with a vast planetary Ewok festival lighting up, surging and singing for a whole evening their time!

Johntrevy, this was not the same as the cloud bliss events I mentioned to you above, but had some of the same effects. I find that powerful, exceptional orgasmic energy events have the effect of generalizing my consciousness and opening these universal linkages or mergings, much like what I think you are seeking, but without explicit de-bodying imagery. All the best on your journey and the paths you find."

That thread has several contributors, including Alana and Johntrevy, whose most recent posts are being responded to in mine quoted here. The thread is getting to the heart of the matter opened by our Aneros practices and KSMO, and other sexual energy ecstasy traditions and techniques.

The IOs of my youth, described in earlier posts here in the blog, were powerful, formative experiences: after effects from my early prostate massage practices that resulted in orgasmic energies powering visionary integrative condensations, mappings of the wholeness of life and being in the cosmos.

This Micro-cosmic Orgasm, triggered by intellectual/aesthetic inputs and built on our orgasmic energy training here and at KSMO, resulted in a unique bio-energetic orgasm or network of orgasms more peacefully integrating and celebrating the poetics and powers of our bodymind, our energetic being as integral in the wholeness of being. Is this a mirror of the early IOs?... ...for a late-middle-aged/early-maturity/senior child of planet Earth?

I look forward to other developments for me, solo and with dear mrs. a, and others on similar journeys that link and integrate the intellectual, the emotional, the spiritual, the wholeness of being through these creative energies...

What do you think? Who else has a path leading in this direction? Comments, questions, suggestions always welcome here.

artform

a later Post Script: I don't want any confusion between this whole body, including the whole head, whole mind, super scintillating distributed orgasms (SSO!), which I have labelled Micro-cosmic Orgasm, to be confused with the Taoist practice of the Microcosmic Orbit; the cycling of chi energies up the spine, through the chakras, around/through the head and down the front of the body and around key chakras and internal organs to return energies to the seat of kundalini. That too is an amazing experience, but this was a very different (seeming?) phenomenon. Life is full of such mysterious and wonder-filled gifts!!!

eh!

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Tantra and Bio-Electric Sex

We recently acquired Davis and Ellen Ramsdale's book Sexual Energy Ecstasy, a wonderful compendium of information and experience. We were really taken aback when we came to page 304-307, "BIO-ELECTRIC SEX", and found such a detailed description of essentially the practice we have stumbled into intuitively during our explorations with Aneros and KSMO.

Many of the benefits explained here have certainly worked for us, with no prior knowledge or expectations, no "belief" or debate!

The "Scissors" position recommended and illustrated for bio-electric is our favourite over many years, as it minimizes the stress and distraction of pain from my old injuries etc.

After reading about this, my wife and I had a great session of energy generation and sharing based on the techniques I've developed with my Aneros (MGX alone initially) "polishing the knob" and its extensions, and with the Key Sound to trigger, amplify and direct the orgasmic energies tied to the aneros muscle memory training. The reading has helped her sense of this energy generation feeling and she generated significant energy that I could feel happening and that we could share!

This information and the much related material in the book are wonderful help for couples on a Tantric and/or Tao path with Aneros. Here is more detail from a recent post on my KSMO Blog of the same title:

<In scanning it initially, pages 304 to 307 jumped out at me. This section, Bio-Electric Sex, so closely described what mrs. a and I have been experiencing and its profound sense of satisfaction, transcendence and peace.

Bio-Electric Sex is the Ramsdale's digest of Dr. Rudolf von Urban's work and theory. Von Urban was a doctor, psychiatrist and Tantric pioneer whose patients reported many "cures" for various medical problems and other very positive effects, including exceptionally deep relaxation, all from a particular form of intercourse. After a search, I found a reference to von Urban in Michael Murphy's great compendium The Future of the Body: Explorations into the Further Evolution of Human Nature. Murphy notes von Urban was a student of Freud, and follows von Urban's thought through poet Peter Redgrove, essayist George Leonard and others.

Also illustrated in the Bio-electric section is the Scissors position for intercourse. It is our favourite and has been for years since it minimizes the pain and other distractions of my musculo-skeletal injuries' remnants and some just plain aging effects. One of several lasting practices from our early 1990s tantric explorations is our appreciation of times of holding still, and of very slow gentle sex. We have incorporated this more frequently over the last year and a half in our explorations of "mutual prostate sex", including our couples path through both KSMO and Aneros.

Our related interest in the Slow Food and Slow Cities phenomena and the general approach of the Slow Sex movement is another thread in all this. See Carl Honoré's book In Praise of Slow: How a Worldwide movement is Challenging the Cult of Speed with its chapter on Slow Sex.

In our early attempts and learning here and at Aneros we had the desire to have a traditional intercourse grand finish of ejaculation to every session. Gradually we found we did not "need" to do this and we let the sessions take their shape from our energy levels and intuitions. Increasingly we have found far more profound relaxation, mutual ease and satisfaction, and a higher level of very positive energy from our lovemaking by intuitively focusing more and more on the "energy exchanges" I have described in earlier posts here. Some of the best of these exchanges, in addition to the periodic "jolts" and many "tickles" by intention, are the wonderful subtle senses of "flow", the stillness of "sharing" and the transformative "micro-buzz" energy of still "exchange".

It turns out this is very close to von Urban's therapeutic intercourse formula of:
* in the scissors position, the male gently being welcomed in erect or flaccid or in-between, (We have deliberately recently experimented with flaccid entry and it works very well and has its own unique joys!),
* the first 30 minutes stay still and have your minds focused (we say "meet") at/in your genitals and sensing the energies exchanges,
* the second 30 minute of thrusting intercourse staying in the Scissors position, ideally without male ejaculation, and
* a further 30 minutes of stillness if ejaculation does occur.

We have never timed ourselves. We are too focused on what our bodies are telling us and each other! We are too delighted to follow a formula, because we get the results promised and more intuitively.

Von Urban's theory is that male "bodymind" cells and female "bodymind" are of opposite electrical polarity and that by prolonged contact of moist skin there is an exchange of these bio-electric potential energies, which produce the manifest positive results, including ecstatic experiences.

This may be the time for science to take up the detailed study of this phenomenon. All we can say, having stumbled upon it intuitively, is Hallelujah! for the whole thing. It is now the centre of our "mutual prostate" practice, with ejaculations an occasional continuing joy, but just one in a growing panoply of possibilities.

Hope this is helpful on your journey in some way. All the best to all.

artform>

Later I had a solo session that began as BPH therapy (the original purpose of Aneros {HIH}!) with my Eupho. Standing, walking, stair-climbing and the like are another form of aneros session that I like and find very rewarding, and that is what this session started as... Always exploring, I tried several forms of exercise, including toe touches. WOW!!! does that have the Eupho really playing out its vaunted mobility and astounding pleasure sensations! It also triggered energies that I did my best to "store" for later use or "composting" into other forms.

Anyone else using any aneros models in exercise, streching, rotations, yoga generally, chi gong, etc?

This bio-electric approach was developed by the late Dr. Rudolph von Urban M.D., about a century ago. We are very curious about exploring this further. Anyone else here, our experts, Alana, know about von Urban's work and/or any ongoing research on his theory and its practice?

We look forward to any comments you might post here. Thanks in anticipation.

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A Neuroscientist's Stroke as an Unchosen Path

Here is an amazing story unfolding...

From my recent KSMO post: The New York Times story on Jill Bolte Taylor, and her happening upon nirvana as a result of a stroke, provides some interesting reflections on the depth of "rewiring" we work toward or stumble upon ourselves with our methods here and at Aneros...

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/25/fashion/25brain.html

Her experiences and descriptions are so much like the early Intellectual Orgasms I experienced and the more recent drops into lucid dreaming and hypnagogia in conjunction with KS erotic and transforming energies.

It sounds like "full body" experiences...

Her book should prove interesting.

It will be fascinating to follow how she pursues this phenomenon and her life with it.

It reminds one of the Stendhal Effect, the over-powering aesthetic response, which can act for some as a positive dry orgasmic trigger.

And there are other connected phenomena...

What is your experience that this story connects to?

artform

as we rewire
we are all reconnected

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