Posted by Love_is on 2010-03-15 12:02:00Session Length: Can't remember, maybe two hours.Models Used: MGX
So I've been almost exclusively using the Helix since the beginning of November 2009. This started because the Progasm which was my almost exclusively used Aneros for almost a year stopped giving me pleasure. I've since then only had one good Progasm session in the handful of times I've tried it again. But a few days back it occurred to me that if the Helix suddenly works well for me as one of the smaller Aneros models, I should try out my MGX again to see how it feels. And boy am I ever glad I did!!! I had a pretty amazingly pleasurable Aneros session with the MGX last night.
The more aggresive P-tab really works for me. As I find that focusing on the sensation of the P-tab touching me tends to amplify and progress further pleasurable sensations. The Helix with it's smaller and less aggressive P-tab tends to not always give any, or enough touching pressure on my perineum depending on what my anal muscles are doing. I'm feeling like this is an important part of progressing my Aneros journey. Plus I like the difference in how the MGX massages my prostate over the Helix. The Helix gives me a sort of finger tip poking into my prostate feeling. Where as the MGX has more of a underside of a finger length pushing up and lifting against my prostate. The beautiful thing is that it used to be that the MGX was internally painful on hard anal contractions both before and after I removed the handle/tail. Now there is no discomfort at all in it's use. I don't know what has changed in me, but it is the same case for the Progasm also.
So my thought is...
For those of you that have cushioned your P-tab with something. I'd remove it and start getting used to and focusing on the sensation the P-tab gives you as it presses into you. I used to get sore from the P-tabs on any of my Aneros models, including the Progasm. This is no longer the case. There is something really important about feeling the direct pressure of the P-tab against your perineum.
Posted by Love_is on 2010-03-12 13:21:00Session Length: N/AModels Used: N/A
So I just placed an order for the Feeldoe more double dildo, and the Spareparts Joque dildo harness.
I can't wait to practice on my own with the Feeldoe. But more importantly (no pun intended), to find a pretty lady that is willing and excited to peg me. :D I'd advertise here... But's it's probably like 99% men here. LOL Wish me luck! :D
Posted by Love_is on 2010-03-04 10:09:00Session Length: N/AModels Used: N/A
Now here's something interesting... a couple days back I hadn't had an Aneros session in a few days and it was late at night. So I figured I would just have a no-Aneros session looking at porn online before I went to bed. Wow! That was some session! I started getting some of the same pleasurable prostate sensations that I've got in Aneros sessions, which was surprising. Very, very pleasurable overall the session was. The only problem was, afterwards I couldn't get to sleep until 4am!!!! Gaaaaaaaaahhh!! So I ate a meal and watched TV until I tired.
Now here's the good part... The next day, I could totally tell that my prostate was very much awake and activated from that no-Aneros session. Later in the day I was watching the somewhat recent “Pearl Harbor” movie on TV. And as the action would get intense in the movie I could feel hot energy coursing upwards in my torso to the top of my head in waves several times throughout the day while watching this movie. It wasn't a pleasurable feeling, but neither was it painful or uncomfortable, except that it made me hot temperature wise. It was very unusual, as I don't think that I've felt that experience before. There definitely is much more to this Aneros experience and journey than just pleasure.
Posted by Love_is on 2009-11-28 22:24:00Session Length: no ideaModels Used: Helix first, then Progasm
So I've been in somewhat of an Aneros lull lately, likely due to events going on in my life right now that are stressful. So I've hardly had any Aneros sessions all month long. And likewise have not masturbated very much at all either. So today I felt aroused enough to try an Aneros session after looking at some porn on the computer. My Progasm strangely hasn't been doing much of anything for me lately. So I experimented by starting with my Helix in hopes that a different model would produce some pleasurable sensations. And boy was I right!
Something has changed during this lull that I don't think I noticed until today. I basically haven't been having any tingling in my perineum or butt buzz like I've normally been having both within and without a session for many, many months now. But today I noticed when I started looking at the porn and getting aroused. I felt this new energetic sensation in my prostate that was different than what I've felt before. And when I started my Aneros session with the Helix, I found by just relaxing and doing absolutely nothing, this pleasurable energetic sensation would grow and gently radiate through me. It was a very nice feeling and had none of that sense of urgency to make it "over the top" in terms of orgasm/pleasure. I just relaxed, enjoyed it, and eventually dozed off, and felt very rested when I woke up. I found myself surprised that there really was something to the relax and do nothing approach! LOL
After the nap, I thought I would try the Progasm to see if it would spark some new pleasurable sensations. And here's where I noticed the change not long after insertion. It felt to me like the Progasm was far too blunt of an instrument on my prostate. And it didn't generate any pleasurable sensations. Where as the Helix just subtly and gently tickled, and stimulated my prostate. So after almost a year of the Progasm being my favorite because it generated pleasurable sensations every time, the Helix now seems to be the one that does that. Funny being that this was the first Aneros model I ever bought. I'm somewhat surprised that my body has changed in the journey to like one Aneros model over another. The Progasm worked well for so long, that I though it always would.
One other change I've noticed recently is that often times when I experience fear, I feel it as an unpleasant and mildly painful energetic sensation in my prostate. It's pretty bizarre. Has anyone else experienced this? And if so, what is your understanding of this phenomenon? It sure is an interesting development. Although it has been useful for me to identify created mental false fear when I don't mentally recognize it. As I notice it physically, which I immediately observe what I am then thinking and realize I'm just needlessly scaring myself over nothing.
Posted by Love_is on 2009-10-13 01:57:00Session Length: I don't knowModels Used: Progasm
So it seems that I've moved on from what I was doing with rubbing my penis lightly during my Aneros sessions to achieve dry-O's. It was a useful experience. But now I find that it is too much of a distraction from the prostate sensations. And in my more current sessions seemed to become too much like edging.
So my last session I did not do any penis stimulation, and just concentrated on the prostate and energy sensations while deep breathing and relaxing as much as possible. I would hold that slight voluntary PC contraction that hits the sweet spot of pleasure on the prostate, and concentrate on growing that sensation through putting my attention on it, and also thinking really exciting fantasies.
I had enough moderate success with it to think it is a good path to follow for a while. No orgasms. But really nice pleasure that I liked. And there was very little distraction from sensations in my penis as it hardly even got erect at all. Which thankfully did not give me any desire to stimulate it. I felt my prostate swell with arousal quite a bit. And it was a much more calm session. Less movement, more concentration on relaxing. Very meditative like. Even though I still had smaller involuntary anal contractions occurring. I can now understand what other users have mentioned about interfering with the process by contracting to hard. As I noticed that as I held that slight PC contraction, as the pleasure increased, it was far to easy to unknowingly contract harder, which seemed to have the effect of making the pleasure disappear. That was difficult to be aware of and not do. It will take some practice.
Every step is worthwhile and a learning experience on this path. I know that a few times I have felt that I have taken a wrong turn. Only to find out later on that it was a necessary step in my understanding and development on this journey. So I embrace all these good experiences. :D
Posted by Love_is on 2009-10-01 16:45:00Session Length: Who cares? :DModels Used: Progasm
I just had the most amazing Aneros session. :D
But let me step back a moment in time today. When I woke up this morning I was feeling kind of frisky from a dream. So I figured I might try an Aneros session. Helix first, which never felt comfortable. (I'm starting to think that maybe I've gotten used to how a particular Aneros model feels in me.) So after a bit I removed that, and inserted the Progasm. I just didn't have much results at all. And noticed that I wasn't having a lot of success with the sexual fantasy thing. So it was probably a pretty short session.
Fast forward to later in the day...
I decided to look at some porn for the heck of it on the Internet. I read some erotic stories first, and then looked at some pictures. But it was the stories that really got my imagination going, and my prostate was feeling really, really excited. So this one story really effected me, I read it three times and it excited the hell out of me each time. So I quickly shut off my computer and went to my bed to have an Aneros session with my Progasm. My GOD!!! Many wonderful dry-O's were to be had! Both from rubbing my penis, and some from not. Although the ones without penis rubbing were still low in pleasurable sensations, but still good to experience. Anyways, after many dry-O and probably mini-O's, I edged just a bit too much rubbing my penis, and ejaculated a little bit. So I figured, what the hell, I haven't ejaculated since last Sunday. So it's been about four days. Well let me tell you that was the most amazing super-T and ejaculate spawned orgasm I can ever remember having. The intensity was really, really high! But what really got my attention was the duration felt like a long time! I remember thinking maybe about halfway through it, I can't believe I'm still orgasming! LOL :D And then I looked down and saw the biggest pool of cum on my belly I think I've ever seen! Good God! I feel very relaxed, calm, and happy at the moment. What an experience!
The point of this post, is that in my experience I really need a good sexual fantasy to bring with me to the Aneros session to really get highly aroused. In this case it was the story. In others it has been my own made up fantasies. When I am unable to envision something that makes me really aroused, I don't have much success. Something to consider for those of you that are still working your way towards pleasurable sensations and super-O's with Aneros use.
Posted by Love_is on 2009-09-28 21:26:00Session Length: approximately 1 hourModels Used: Progasm
Ok, so I found out tonight that I was able to repeat the multiple dry-O experience many times again! Yeah! :D Although I think because I did not wait a day in between sessions, the orgasms didn't seem quite as intense. But they were still enjoyable. So I didn't super-T this time. And no ejaculate came out at all, but a heck of a lot of pre-cum much like last time. I also noticed much like last time, that I got very hot and sweaty during the session as soon as I started orgasming. Again, there were some orgasms that definitely felt like I was edging and had to stop rubbing my penis otherwise I probably would have ejaculated. But other times were I could rub it right through the orgasm with no problems. I'm no longer sure about the correlation I made between being erect making me more likely to ejaculate while rubbing my penis. It didn't seem to be the case this time around.
In hindsight I probably should have used a smaller Aneros than the Progasm, as I was a little sore from the previous days session, and it seemed like when I got really aroused and during orgasm that my prostate swells so large as to interfere with the movement of the Progasm. But once again, perhaps that was more of a problem because I didn't give myself a days rest in between Aneros sessions. I'm not entirely sure about this. But I will experiment as I remember.
The really interesting part of this session was that I found that maybe three out of the many times I dry-O'd, through experimentation I was able to get the orgasmic response of the unconscious anal contractions taking off like crazy and my hips bucking without any penis stimulation at all. It was just fantasy sending me over the top. Now the thing about it, is these were not all that pleasurable compared to when adding penis rubbing to it, very much night and day. But what I find encouraging about this is that it shows that I can get over the top into orgasm without penis stimulation. And that perhaps over time these orgasms will increase in their intensity, and hopefully duration also if I can let go of needing to rub my penis to orgasm during an Aneros session.
I can feel my prostate aching somewhat in a sore way, as I type this. I have to be careful not to over due it with these sessions. But the pleasurable sensations that are occurring in my anus and prostate are difficult to ignore. LOL Plus I just had to see if I could reproduce the same results from the last session! :D
Posted by Love_is on 2009-09-27 17:41:00Session Length: I didn't keep track. At least an hour I'Models Used: Progasm
So I think that I am making some progress towards achieving super-O's. And thought it would be prudent to post my experience and thoughts just after my Aneros session. I was inspired to have a session without looking at porn prior, and just knowing that my body was ready and/or accepting of an Aneros session by Cockadoodle's new thread.
Not that I personally think that porn is bad for you. But it was more of just learning to trust that I could be, and/or make myself aroused without it. So I went into this session not particularly aroused, somewhat tired, and at the tail end of recovering from a hangover headache. Certainly not the best circumstances to go into an Aneros session. So I was quite surprised with the results.
Now the funny thing is, is that what I did during this session goes completely against Cockadoodle's penis not philosophy. For some time now I've not been a strict follower of rules with Aneros play. As I've found that following my pleasure is more important. Although I have for the most part in the last few months adhered to the no penis touching during an Aneros session, and practicing ejaculation abstinence to increase arousal.
The reading I've done here in the forums has shown that other users have success achieving super-O's with different techniques. Woodsman's thread is a good example of that.
And I know I've read a few other posts with similar techniques.
I didn't have a whole lot of sensations going on in my Aneros session. So I thought that I would just gently rub the sensitive backside spot on my penis just below the head. Something I've learned recently is that there is either a muscle I can relax, or just learning to relax the pelvic tension associated with erections that keeps erections at a minimum and disrupts the potential of ejaculating while doing this. The rubbing was just placing my first two fingers on the area and gentling and minimally rubbing in an up and down or circular motion. And sometimes just touching the area without rubbing was enough also. Basically what I was able to achieve was what I believe to be multiple dry-O's. It was a short orgasmic sensation much like I experience while ejaculating. And I had them all within what I would guess to be a five or ten minute period of each other. (I wasn't watching the time) I stopped counting after the sixth one. But I'd guess that I had a little over ten of these dry-O's.
I know it wasn't just edging because for probably about half or more of them I was able to keep rubbing right through the orgasm with no ejaculate coming out. One of them I ejaculated a little, but stopped rubbing as soon as I felt like that was going to happen. The times when I had to stop rubbing for fear of ejaculating, I was surprised to continue to feel orgasmic sensations for a little bit after. At one point I did ejaculate a tiny amount but stopped before it went any further, and was able to keep having dry-O's after a short break. I did at the end super-T. I started ejaculating a little bit and figured what the hell, might as well go for it! LOL A very pleasurable super-T it was! But it made me wonder if I had not followed through with the super-T if I might have perhaps been able to keep going with the dry-O's even though I had ejaculated a little bit.
There appears to be a connection between the times when it seemed a was likely to ejaculate and being either fully or somewhat erect. The times when I was able to keep rubbing my penis right through the orgasm was when I was completely flaccid. So it almost seems like the goal is to completely relax to thus not allow myself to get erect if possible. Although, it seems to be a bit of a contradiction, as I'm also doing some PC muscle squeezes. I didn't have to do any anal muscle squeezes. They occurred on their own. Surprisingly quite forcefully during and just after the orgasm. I also noticed that many time my hips would start bucking uncontrollably up to the onset of the orgasm and through, but not always. I think I made a lot of uncontrollable moaning too. I hope I didn't bother my neighbors too much with that. LOL
The really fascinating part about this, was that each time I got close to orgasming, squeezing my PC muscle, hence pushing my prostate against the Progasm helped a lot. But it was always envisioning a really exciting sexual fantasy that sent me over the top! That blew my mind to recognize that! LOL I also noticed that as I become more experienced at it, that the last three to four orgasms lasted slightly longer than the first bunch of times. And the orgasms did not all feel the same. There were differences in the pleasurable sensations. Some were more intense than others. Some had more extreme unconscious anal contractions along with pleasurable anal sensations of the Progasm moving in and out. But I kept wanting it to keep going. Which is why I orgasmed so many times. :D I suspect this is only a step on the road to achieving super-O's. As I hope at some point it will not be necessary to rub my penis to dry-O and more. My experience in this long journey has been that very rarely does anything stay the same. There is always some new discoveries and changes at some point.
I don't know if this information will help anyone in their own Aneros journey. As I know that so many guys have documented their technique to achieving super-O's on this web site. And none of it particularly helped me besides the moral support and reading that it can be done. I'd guess there is a certain inner learning and knowing that has to occur through regular practice before we get there. But I felt it was worth while to document my experience.
Posted by Love_is on 2009-09-11 01:38:00Session Length: I didn't keep trackModels Used: Progasm, and the larger of the advanced Peridise
So last night as I started a no-Aneros session sitting in front of my computer while looking at porn, I noticed that I wasn't having much sensations. I also noticed that my conscious contractions had unknowingly shifted to PC muscles only. So just to experiment I tried contracting just my anal muscles, and was pleasantly surprised by very pleasurable sensations. So I worked with holding a quite firm anal contraction, and found that it kept the level of pleasurable sensations quite high. And that unconscious anal contractions would still occur within this firm hold that were very nice. I probably mixed in some PC muscle squeezes in there also.
This got me wondering if perhaps what I thought to be light squeezes were not hard enough. As I've often read posts in the forum about the muscles in the anus and PC group needing to acclimate and tone up. This also gave me the idea that there is more to the Peridise then I may have previously understood.
So I started an Aneros session with my Progasm. It was ok. I tried doing the firm anal contractions, which felt good. But I noticed that the Progasm stem is too large in diameter to get those wildly pleasurable sensations on hard anal squeezes that I was getting in my no-Aneros session. And it also seemed like the Progasm went too deep past my prostate on hard squeezes. I'm not sure how important that is. But switching out the Progasm for the largest of the advance Peridise confirmed my suspicions. I was able to get similar sensations with firm anal squeezes as I did in my no-Aneros session. On top of that, I got this wonderful sensation of the Peridise kind of squirming in my ass. That was a really nice sensation!!!
This approach I took really seems to go against the popular idea that you relax and do nothing in an Aneros session. But I'm following where the pleasure takes me. And I'm starting to find that experimentation is really important, because the same techniques and approach don't always give you the same or consistent results. So this will be an interesting path to follow. I don't know if I'll be able to repeat it. But it sure will be fun trying! :D
Posted by Love_is on 2009-08-27 15:13:00Session Length: no ideaModels Used: none
So as of yesterday I seem to finally be back in peak arousal. It's probably been somewhere around one week since I last ejaculated. And it doesn't take much to get me aroused and for the pleasure sensations in my perineum, anus, and prostate to occur. :D
So yesterday my anus was a little sore from what I think was just too much Aneros action that I was doing daily. So I consciously made a decision to give myself a day off from it. But in the mean time that day, I once again had two amazing no-Aneros sessions in the morning and evening! These are by far, once again, my best sessions yet! Really pleasurable! And I remember at one point in the first session where I felt a sense of sexual satisfaction. That was a first for not ejaculating! I don't really understand why the sitting position with no-Aneros gives me better results than an Aneros session. But I guess I'm not really complaining at this point. Just curious. So I'm starting to wonder if I am perhaps experiencing some sort of mini or dry orgasm already without really knowing it. I feel like there is certainly further to go with this. But perhaps I am closer, or already there.
Buster clued me into this idea during last weekends chat session. His thoughts were that the circling the drain feeling is where you need to be. That is the super-O feelings, or what becomes them as you become more conscious and observant of the sensations. Any thoughts?