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My Journey with Prostate Massage

Barely into my 20s, I experimented with solo masturbation. Meaning, I was already well-versed in jacking off, but…was there another way? One night, under cover of darkness (ha) I tried something new. I noticed when I jacked off, something "inside" would tighten. This, together with "rubbing" would produce the desired result. So, I figured, how about if I just "tightened"; no rubbing? It took a while, but paid off in a most sublime climax, lengthy and…peculiar. Delightful. It seemed to take a lot of effort, and what seemed like an hour, as delightful as it was, I wouldn't be going back there for a little while. My normal second-hand forays would have to do. And so they did. Of course, often after that, would you believe 40 years?.. I'd try to recapture that same feeling, with the same climax. The "feeling" was possible to recapture but it never crescendoed once into it's desired result. Not once.
Into my 60s I was going through a rough time romantically, sexually. One time, getting ready to have nap, I flopped down on the bed, on my side, knees bent. That "feeling" was there, quite strong. I realized it had something to do with my position (lying on left side). I noted this.
I noted this and "concentrated" on this feeling and while experimenting one day, my feelings rose to a pitch where it hovered and crossed over a point of no return and I dry-orgasmed. It was delightful. Aha! It was back. I tried over and over, over perhaps a year and had many pleasant experiences. I noted two major requirements: Concentration and Time. They usually took an hour to accomplish. Something I could only do if I had time and was alone. Business trips were good. I'd lie down for a nap and go to town.
My procedure was to lie down, on left side, remove pants and underwear, and bend my knees. And not do anything, but concentrate on the feelings, and perhaps let erotic thoughts waft into my head. Most times I'd get off, trip into a dreamy dry orgasm land and have multiple soft, gentle climaxes. Some sessions were better than others. Some were duds, one or two were so powerfully erotically, I have not been able to supersede them, even with a device up my butt.
I began to look up this phenomena on the web and somehow I got hooked up with Aneros and High Island. The experiences they portrayed sounded like mine, so I made the connection.
To backtrack a little. When I first started to experiment again, in my 60s, I was going through a rough spot even with my sex life, as I began to have lovemaking sessions with my wife that 'didn't work". First time ever, as for our 30 years or more this had never been a problem. Seems like my member, though initially it was eager, soon dried up sexually, with interest, excitement gone. So, this revelation was welcome. Somehow it kick-started me into being more turned on, more active, so it helped and to this day, thank God, that impotency problem has hardly every returned.
OK, so I discovered the Aneros website and wanted to "try one of those". I felt like I knew what they were capable of. All the talk of "rewiring" I immediately understood, as I had been, in a sense rewired.
I now have 5 models, the SGX, MGX, the Eupho, Heli and Prograsm Classic. And I still occasionally go device-less with comparable results.

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Today I did it!

OK, here's the lowdown. In my last blog, shared that there was more lurking somewhere, that I could do. I was getting clues on my last session (last blog). I took time to reflect on this and got some guidelines established. I want to reiterate first: I'm a somewhat experienced user. I know what are mini-Os, super Os, etc. But still, felt there was something I'm not getting. I could stand some improvement. So, back to the guidelines.
1. As per Aneros instructions: back-off, or relax to say, 40% of a contraction.
2. Do NOT touch your penis. (Of course I know that, we all know it, but invariably I will sneak a touch to see if it's leaking yet, etc) Not means not.

This, for me, gives rise to acute bliss, using my SGX. Very sublime sweet super Os, continuing on and on .

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Something else?

Good session today. About 9 or 10 dry 'os' in first hour, starting after about 10 minutes. I usually figure that when my precum comes in, as a glob, that’s it, my session is over, kind of like a traditional orgasm, the “wet finish”. This usually occurs after about an hour.
Today though, after my usual ending point, I did wonder if there was anything beyond. I sometimes get glimpses in my minds eye; there could be more. Let me be more specific with today.
My experience today was good, even great. Many sweet dry Os, like a normal “good” session (as opposed to a dud session, which happens once in a while, I’m sure to all of us).
But today, after passing this point where normally I end, I thought there could be more. I felt like my cock getting smaller, filling with precum, seemed like the smaller it got, or I imagined it, getting smaller but something else taking over, something would leak out and start a sweet, painfully pleasing ride of the utmost pleasure. Has anybody had that? Is that what the super O is? I have always assumed I’ve had super O’s; I’ve had orgasms that go on for minutes; wonderful experiences. But today I was thinking there could be more too. Maybe I’m hoping for a hands free ejaculation, not just a quick “gloop” like how normal traditional orgasms are, but a long drawn out leak of an orgasm. Know what I mean? Does anyone have any experiences along this line?

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Was a bit rushed, so lost that peace & certainty that something would happen. Some near misses though. Conclusion I came to: don't expect anything other thtn a dry O. Other expectations (i.e. a wet finish) are doomed to fail.

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