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Butting In

As I continue on the Aneros path it seems I become more and more anally fixated. This week I finally ordered a Tantus Neo butt plug and it arrived today. Previously, many years ago I had a butt plug but it was a skinny, insipid little thing that tended to slip out whenever you bent down, coughed, yawned or even blinked.
What I have yearned for lately is a butt plug filled my cavity and stretched my sphincter so that I would know I was under its control and feel that I was being well drilled and stretched.
My Tantus Neo arrived today. Not bad delivery time from our state capital to my home. I could hardly wait to give it a test drive so this afternoon about 4pm I had the opportunity to lube up and give it a test drive. I must say at this point that I had also ordered some lube syringes. You cannot get the Aneros ones in Australia and these looked to be quite good. It took a bit of experimenting before I got the hang of filling them up but I soon worked out how to do this. There were no graduations on the syringe so I filled one and half filled the other. Taking the filled one I carefully inserted the nozzle in my rectum. Once it was filly inserted I press the plunger. I had only intended to inject about 1/3 of the lube but the plunger was really easy to press and before I knew anything, most of the lube was dispensed. Withdrawing it I then lubed up the Tantus Neo, giving it a generous coating of lube and then slowly pushed it in with a soft, rotating action. I expected to encounter more resistance as I hadn't even prepared myself with a finger or two. I put on a pair of panties under my underpants just in case there was unexpected leakage and then got dressed. Since then I have been walking around, had dinner and sat at my computer for about and hour. Now I am am just relaxing.
My thoughts at this stage?
I am not sure how I feel about it yet. Initially it felt good but not the cavity filling experience I was expecting. Although I am certainly not getting the feeling that it is hoping to slip out at any moment. It is staying put and it will only come out if I press down on it and tell it to do so. There is a little bit of a feeling of chafed skin between my bum cheeks, almost a burning and I put this down to sitting on it for too long.
Perhaps I am expecting too much so early on. One reason for its purchase was to enhance a fantasy where my lover made me wear a large dildo to stretch and open me up before giving me a vigorous pegging! Well I am getting the burning feeling and some of the stretching plugged feeling but I just expected more. I will keep you informed on my progress. I think my next purchase will be the progasm ice and a good, large dildo. Perhaps I am getting ahead of myself as I am yet to master the Helix Syn and should concentrate on that.

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Aneros And Penile Semen Ejaculation

Aneros And Penile Semen Ejaculation

As others have mentioned that when you have a penile semen ejaculation through either sex with a partner or through masturbation, you ejaculate then go through a refractory period of time where your sexual interest declines and you cannot raise an erection and you feel less than interested in sexual activity. This certainly so with myself. This period can last from a couple of days to a month or more. But give me a break fellas, I am nearly 67 years old and I know I am not the same randy rabbit that I was when I was 30.
In the last month I became interested again in prostate massage, started massaging my prostate again and purchased my first Aneros, the Helx Syn. I have only had the opportunity to use the Aneros 3-4 times but I really like the peaceful relaxing and stimulating place it gets me to. In this month, I have not felt the need to masturbate to orgasm. In saying that I think I have masturbated and touched myself more than I have in the last few years. I wake up many times during the night with a great erection that I would be proud to bury in a moist vagina or anus. I would lie awake for a while gently stroking it before drifting off to sleep. This happens several times a night. When I am anally stimulating myself with either my fingers or the Aneros I sometimes get hard for a few minutes then I subside to the flaccid or semi-flaccid state I normally am in during this anal stimulation. I feel happy and content with this flaccid state. I am content to feel the subtle vibes happening inside me and happy to feel the pool of pre-cum building up on my stomach.
What does this all mean? I am not sure, I feel that I am just at peace with my sexuality and enjoying my learning path. Hopefully it is a path towards multiple male orgasms. I know it will probably be a long path of learning but I hope I will be able to make that goal. It will be an enjoyable and pleasurable Tim I am sure.

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First test drive

I received my eagerly awaited first Aneros, a Helix Syn yesterday. Picked it up from the Post Office so that "she who disapproves, the fun police" would not find out about my purchase. When I arrived home, I unpacked in the garage, away from prying eyes. Then I took it into the house to give it a wash before going back to the garage. I thought I would get to know my new Aneros and have a little fun before getting down to the serious business of learning how to reach nirvana and dry organs etc. Shutting the door, I dropped my shorts and underpants. Reaching for my hidden stash of Lube, I snapped back the cap and squirted some onto my fingertip. Separating one cheek from I gently touched my puckered anus with the lubed up finger before pushing it home up to the palm of my hand. Withdrawing my finger, I picked up the Helix Syn and carefully lubed it up. While it glistened and shone blackly in the light of the window I lifted my right leg and placed my foot on the workbench. By this time my previously flaccid penis was becoming interested in the event unfolding and was better than half erect. I said to myself, this is not about you cock, this is about something much bigger and better than that. ConcentrateOrientating the Helix correctly I placed my hand behind myself and gently placed it agains my anus. On recognition it was correctly placed in pushed it firmly inside of me. It slipped in easily, just as I expected. What a nice comfortable feeling. A feeling that I had been missing for so long after I had thrown out my previously owned dildos and butt plugs. Lowering my leg down I clenched my muscles and felt to Aneros move inside of me, drawing itself upwards inside and rubbing over my prostate. A few more muscle movements and my penis subsided. After about 5 minutes I decided to check for pre-cum. I found a pleasant surprise, a dewdrop had formed on my urethral opening of my once again flaccid penis. It was then I heard a call from inside the house so I had to quickly withdraw my Aneros, tidy up and go to see what I was needed for inside by my wife.

The next day )this morning( I woke early at about 4:30am I was restless. I needed some stimulation and I knew that my Helix Syn was waiting patiently to give me some of that stimulation. Quietly I got out of bed and went into the en-suite. I had a small bowel movement, cleaned myself and the applied some lube to my finger and inserted it into my anus, twisting it as it went in to help lubricate all around. I did this twice and then generously lubed up the Aneros. Just like the first time, it slipped in smoothly, just like my passage was its own, comfortable, little home. I quietly slipped back into bed, pulling the sheet over me. I lay there on my back, feet apart about a foot. Breathing slowly I concentrated on feeling and listening to my pelvic area. Tentatively I tried some tiny contractions. I could feel the Aneros draw up into me and rub ever so lightly across my prostate. This seemed to create a tingling, almost electrical feeling in that general area. I tried bigger contractions and I could really feel the Aneros moving along my prostate. It felt good, but not as good as smaller contractions. I lay ther and experimented with different degrees of contractions to see what felt best. Occasionally, my knee caps seemed to twitch with the effort of applying the contractions. The small contractions seemed to make me feel the nicest. I must have been relaxed because a couple of times I found I was not applying contractions and had to restart again. Once when I was doing a medium contraction my legs spasmed and both knees rose about 9 inches in the air. It was totally involuntary. At the same time I felt like a small electrical shock in and around my prostate. I don't think it was anything special but it was indeed pleasurable and it gives me hope for success in the future.
After a while I tried various positions, on side with upper knee near chest, on front with head in pillow, on side with both legs straight and on back with legs lifted as much as I dare as wife was asleep next to me. So far, the position that gives me the most feeling and stimulation is on my back with legs straight, feet about 1 foot apart. in this position the feelings are quite subtle and, for want of a better term, exquisite.

I found that I really had to tune in and listen closely to my body as any feelings and sensations I had were quite “soft”.
A side note to all this that when driving around town this morning I found myself travelling 5 kilometres under the speed limit. I was so relaxed I be bothered to drive any faster. I am still enjoying the slightly stretched feeling in my anus too. Hope it lasts all day.

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Acceptance

G'day everyone

This is first attempt at blogging so please excuse any Faux pas I might make. I wanted initially to talk about acceptance. Many Aneros users will have encountered difficulty and opposition to acceptance . People feel threatened by sexuality different to theirs. For instance, I have a penchant to shaving my pubic hair and I love to wear sexy underwear. Particularly feline panties or male panties that accommodate the male genitals but of a brief, feminine design. For whatever reason they arouse me sexually.

I have spoken to my wife many times over the years and tried to explain my predictions, but like many wives, she doesn't understand where I am coming from. I have tried to explain that this is an "inward" fetish" that I keep to myself. I do not, and will never force it upon anyone else, won't interfere with children and have no desire to do strange things with animals. )My poor sense of humour(. I have never, and will never approach anyone else with the intent on doing anything that "normal" society would disapprove of. I told her of my sexual interest in wearing "sexy" underwear and panties. I told her that I had these feelings and urges since I was pre-pubescent. She couldn't see that my prediction was anything but perverted. She said I must give it up and that she was not being dragged down to my level. That was in March 2013 when I bucketed out how I felt and what I did to her. She said I had to give it up completely. I replied that I could not, in all honesty give that commitment. I said I would commit to keeping to her insistence for three months, renewable. I.E. until the end of June. I kept my word. She did not ask me to affirm my continuance of my vow but I kept it until the end of January 2014. Two things triggered a return to my previous behaviour. The first was when she accused me of shaving and leaving pubic hair in our en-suite bathroom. The second was, in the same week, I received an email from a supplier I had previously bought from, advertising discounts on sexy panties. Now, I am back in the same old rut. Feelings of having betrayed her. feelings of being some perverted piece of shit, and at the same time,feeling as some hyper-sexual being.

I have always been aware of the erotic feelings attached to my anus. From Pre-school age I have been aware of the wonderful sensations that I felt, lying in bed, lightly, running my fingertips between my legs and over my anus. in my mature years )now 66 years old( I have discovered new delights in my anal region. About 8 years ago and a fit of disclosure to my wife, once again on my pantie fetish )it must have been the 7th or 8th time( and letting go, I started to vocalise, moaning and telling her what I was feeling during climax. She did not accept this well, saying I was perverted and I was heading down into a bottomless pit, an abyss, where my feelings overcame being good. )cannot remember her exact words( Since then she excused herself from any intimacy using the excuse of "ageing" and dryness in women. I tried to offer alternatives and solutions to coital sex including using lubricants, oral sex )which she had refused to do all our married life as it is dirty(. I offered to mutually masturbate, anal sex and anything else that she had erotic thoughts about but had never felt that she could talk to me about. Nothing worked and ewe have not had sex in those eight years. Before that, I was always cuddling and kissing her. Holding her in my arms and pressing my body against her. Her returning response to my touch. The intimate touching of each other. Basically we share a house now, flatmates, sharing nothing but the household chores. I now feel afraid to offer anything but a perfunctory kiss when I leave the house to go out to work or whenever I have to go out.

Since the end of January and the "trigger" that re-started my sexual awareness I have reverted, and fell into the comfort that my previous life offered me.
I have always been attracted to the "naughty, dirty and forbidden" nature of anything anal. In my quest to satiate my desire for sexual satisfaction, surfing the Internet, brought me to anal intercourse and the feelings associated that might be obtained through anal stimulation. Remembering my early years and the excitement I felt stroking myself, I desired to become more knowledgeable about this area. Needless to say, I quickly gathered information and began experimenting with what I had learned.
I began to finger fuck myself and learned the pleasures of prostate stimulation. I was fascinated watching my semi-flaccid cock oozing strings of pre-cum, down to the floor. I revelled in the feeling of my stretched rectum, wandering about the house, after a session of an hour or more, penetrating myself. I bought butt plugs and dildos and experimented with them, fucking myself whenever I could. It was, and is still electrifying to feel that being fucked feeling. I would not masturbate while doing this as I wanted to keep the "sexual electricity" flowing. Eventually, after 2-3 weeks I would feel that other parts of life were being neglected and at this point, I would masturbate to orgasm. I would do this several times, as soon as I had the ability to become erect again, I would masturbate again. This would finally, have the affect that I was not interested in sexual things and my life would resume to my androgynous life with my wife. This would last for a few weeks and then I was off the path again.

Fucking myself with dildos, led me here, to this site where I pursued with fervour the gaining of knowledge of the Aneros prostate massager. I just knew that this device would be an answer to a need, a feeling that I had not been able to aspire to.
People attach labels to actions, behaviours, and sexual predictions. They are usually derogatory when they do not line up with their own beliefs. Until re-discovering anal stimulation, that I was a 100% male, only interested in females with all the hetro-sexual, macho bravado I could manage. Perhaps I was denying to myself what I really felt in my heart. Since re-discovering anal stimulation, I don't know what I am or think I am anymore. It doesn't matter what I am anyway. I would just like to say that I am now able to appreciate the male form as never before. In fact I "lust' for a man. I mostly look at male porn the internet. I imagine what it would be like to suck another man and have intercourse with him. Both giving and receiving. I am desirous of experiencing everything a man could show me.
Meanwhile, my wife is not amused by my pubic shaving and furtive disappearances and the time I spend on the Internet. In the past, she has threatened to expose me to our adult daughters. Qe sera, Qe sera. If it is to be so, so what. In fact I nearly confessed to them both today about my pantie fetish but could not bring myself to do so. Perhaps that will happen in the her future, perhaps not. Anyway, I will end now, as I feel emotionally drained.

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